Use `check_dots_used()` in `dbGetQuery()` and friends

e.g. `dbGetQuery()` doesn't complain about extra arguments. I guess this affects all backends.

``` r
library(DBI)
con <- dbConnect(RSQLite::SQLite(), ":memory:")

DBI::dbGetQuery(
  con,
  "SELECT 1",
  extra_arg = 1
)
#>   1
#> 1 1
```

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