Currently you cannot easily use any WROOM-2 based ESP32 Boards.
As far as I can tell, this is related to the flash mode used for all WR2-ESPs
Which seems to require OPI for both of PSRAM and FLASH

Describe the solution you'd like
After finding this table I started tweaking around in the ini files and was able to successfully upload with following settings:

[env:esp32s3dev_32MB_PSRAM_opi_opi]
extends = env:esp32s3dev_8MB_PSRAM_opi
board_build.arduino.memory_type = opi_opi     ;; use with PSRAM: 16MB or 32MB
board_build.partitions = tools/WLED_ESP32_32MB.csv ;;  copy of 16MB.csv (could be re-aligned if required)
board_upload.flash_size = 32MB
board_build.flash_mode = dio

So far everything seems to work perfectly.

Describe alternatives you've considered
Buying another ESP32 (: