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Things 2025 did to me—without my consent

Looking back at a year (and what it does to you) when you stop negotiating with reality

Dec 22, 2025 • Hargun Kaur Sachdev

Sab theek ho jayega, nahi toh khatam ho jayega

Surviving yet another December without the pressure to pretend or improve

Dec 6, 2025 • Hargun Kaur Sachdev

Oh, so this is me now

On being astonished by who we’re still becoming, and grateful for who we’ve been

Nov 24, 2025 • Hargun Kaur Sachdev

How to show up when someone tells you something scary

A guide to responding to fear without turning it into a lecture or making it worse

Nov 17, 2025 • Hargun Kaur Sachdev

Indian joint family: The myth of togetherness

I'm not moving in with your parents and that's not rebellion

Oct 29, 2025 • Hargun Kaur Sachdev

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Emotional availability: Great for essays, terrible for dating

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Oct 10, 2025 • Hargun Kaur Sachdev

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Sep 19, 2025 • Hargun Kaur Sachdev

Why buying myself flowers makes me sad sometimes

And why I will still keep doing it

Sep 12, 2025 • Hargun Kaur Sachdev

The language of sincerity is decaying

Modern life has made sincerity a liability

Aug 31, 2025 • Hargun Kaur Sachdev

Projection isn’t always negative—And that’s a problem

How we dangerously project the worst and the best of ourselves onto others

Aug 16, 2025 • Hargun Kaur Sachdev

From Bong men to Bombay: Why your truth doesn’t have to be mine

How to talk about our lived experiences without declaring them as a universal reality

Jul 31, 2025 • Hargun Kaur Sachdev

Be a grammar monk, not a grammar nazi

Stop being a dick about "you're" vs "your"

Jul 12, 2025 • Hargun Kaur Sachdev

Romance was alive—until I opened his bathroom door

An exploration of what men’s bathrooms reveal (and ruin)

Jun 26, 2025 • Hargun Kaur Sachdev

Come, rest your heart with me. I write essays on love, adulting, and being soft in a hard world

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