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Why We Don’t Know How to Repair Relationships Anymore
Why don’t we know how to repair relationships anymore? On conflict, avoidance, and the lost skill of community repair. By Lovette Jallow.
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Neurodivergence in Ancient Africa: What History Forgot but Our Ancestors Knew
How West African societies embraced autism, ADHD, and neurodivergence as spiritual gifts and essential community roles long before diagnosis existed…
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When Men Fail in a World Optimized for Them, They Don’t Blame Patriarchy—They Blame Women
The Incel Mindset, Male Entitlement, and the Weaponization of Resentment. Men aren’t failing because of women—they’re failing because of patriarchy. But…
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Neurodivergence in Ancient Africa: What History Forgot but Our Ancestors Knew
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When Men Fail in a World Optimized for Them, They Don’t Blame Patriarchy—They Blame Women
How Black Matriarchies defined Polyamory as Structure, Not Sexuality
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Why Men Don’t Marry the Women They Desire
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Why Autistic Daughters Often Go No-Contact with Their Mothers
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Matriarchy Is Not a Mirror of Patriarchy
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Essays on race, autism, ADHD, neurodivergence, matriarchy & intersectional justice; by Lovette Jallow, award-winning author & strategist.
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How Black Matriarchies defined Polyamory as Structure, Not Sexuality
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Matriarchy Is Not a Mirror of Patriarchy
What Western Feminism Got Wrong About Matriarchy. Ancestral matriarchies are not reversed patriarchy. Lovette Jallow explains what the West…
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Community Is Not Transactional for Black Queer Disabled Women
Community doesn’t mean access. People don’t just extract labor, they extract presence. Especially from those who’ve never been taught to say no.This…
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Why Do People Make Promises They Don't Keep?
On broken promises, false generosity, extraction & why continued interaction without repair damages trust. Why ADHD doesn't excuse silence. By Lovette…
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Why Late-Diagnosed Women Copy Those They Admire
Why do late-diagnosed autistic women mirror those they admire? Explore how masking creates identity loss, therapeutic reproduction, and the path to…
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The Freelancer Who Weaponized Neurodivergence to Justify Taking Payment Without Delivering
How Davina Campbell of Digital Davina Designs disclosed mental health struggles to gain trust, then stigmatized mental health to silence accountability.
Why Autistic People Over-Explain: Trauma, Safety, and Breaking the Harm Loop
Autistic over-explaining isn't clarity, it's survival. Learn the neuroscience of trauma loops, workplace strategies, and how to speak less without…
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Patriarchy

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Why Men Don’t Marry the Women They Desire
This essay unpacks how white supremacy and patriarchy condition male desire, using the Sydney Sweeney x American Eagle campaign as a case study in how…
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What You Call Matriarchy Is Gynarchy - And It’s Still Patriarchy
“Matriarchy isn’t patriarchy in pink. It doesn’t invert power—it refuses it.” In this essay, Lovette Jallow redefines true matriarchal leadership.
Are You Practicing Feminism or Just Gynarchy? | Matriarchy vs Patriarchy Explained
Listen now | Are you practicing feminism—or just patriarchy in reverse?Lovette Jallow breaks down why gynarchy mimics domination, while matriarchy…
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Matriarchy Is Not a Mirror of Patriarchy
What Western Feminism Got Wrong About Matriarchy. Ancestral matriarchies are not reversed patriarchy. Lovette Jallow explains what the West…
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When Men Protect Boys Instead of Naming Harm, They Don’t Disrupt Violence—They Preserve It
How Netflix’s Adolescence Exposes the Incel Pipeline, and Why Fragile Men Can’t Lead Anyone Out of It.Adolescence shows us how male entitlement begins…
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Stockholm Syndrome: How Systems Blamed Survivors to Protect Power
The Stockholm Syndrome story isn’t about loving your captor. It’s about how systems betrayed survivors and then blamed them to protect power.
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Teaching the Children We Were
Anti-Racism in Swedish Schools Through the Eyes of a Former Student, Educator, and Advocate. Anti-racism in Sweden can’t begin until we stop masking…
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Why Sweden’s Reputation as an Inclusive Country is Misleading
Sweden promotes itself as progressive and inclusive, but why do so many foreigners struggle to belong? The reality of workplace bias, social exclusion…
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Black Women in Sweden: Erasure, Media Bias & the Fight for Representation
Who gets to represent Blackness in Sweden? With 600,000 Black Swedes, why are dark-skinned Black women erased from narratives? This post explores…
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When Men Fail in a World Optimized for Them, They Don’t Blame Patriarchy—They Blame Women
The Incel Mindset, Male Entitlement, and the Weaponization of Resentment. Men aren’t failing because of women—they’re failing because of patriarchy. But…
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