Rewrrte and extension of #12828, with additional work for JRuby. Partially fixes #1198 by adding support for custom options. Handling of extensions will be handled in a follow up.

Also includes these unrelated fixes:
* Removes code echo between `google/protobuf/repeated_field.rb` and `google/protobuf/ffi/repeated_field.rb` by `require`'ing the former in the latter.
* Adds missing calles to `testFrozen()` from methods of `RepeatedField` under JRuby that mutate.
* Various typos in comments.

Closes #14594

COPYBARA_INTEGRATE_REVIEW=#14594 from protocolbuffers:add-support-for-options-in-ruby 16cc9e3
PiperOrigin-RevId: 580848874

Merge release commits to 25.x

# Conflicts:
#	ruby/ext/google/protobuf_c/message.c
#	ruby/lib/google/protobuf/ffi/descriptor_pool.rb
#	ruby/tests/basic.rb
#	ruby/tests/basic_test.proto

25.x aarch64 cherry pick

Update 25.x ubuntu images

There is no canonical rules_ruby repo today, and we don't want our fork to become one.  In order to unblock inclusion of Protobuf in the bzlmod registry, we're making this a dev dependency and dropping support for Bazel/Ruby.

Fixes #14569

PiperOrigin-RevId: 584393841

Co-authored-by: Mike Kruskal <[email protected]>

…t values (#21033)

* fix(php): do not throw deprecated warning on field getters for default values (#17788)

backports fix for #13428 to 25.x branch

* fix deprecation_trigger generation