Codependence Transactional Analysis
Codependence Transactional Analysis
ByGloriaNoriegaGayol
Abstract
Life scripts can be transmitted from one generation to the next. Examples of this script
genealogycanbeseenclearlyintheadultchildrenofalcoholics(ACOAs)literature
(Kritsberg, 1985). Members of a family in which one or more members are alcoholics
followcertaininjunctionslikeunspokenrules;theseincludeDonttalk,Donttrust,andDont
feel (Black, 1981). They may also play certain rigid roles within the family (Wegscheider Cruse,
1981).
From the perspective of family therapy, codependencelike alcoholismis a problem
thatrunsinfamilies.Itistransmittedfromonegenerationtothenext,(THESTATEMENTFROM
ONE GENERATION TO THE NEXT IS REPEATED HERE AND IN THE FIRST PARAGRAPH. MY
SUGGESTIONISTOWRITEINSTEAD:THISGENERATIONALTRANSMISSIONOFTHESCRIPTOFTEN
HAPPENS WITH ONE CHILD.) often with one child in the family becoming an alcoholic and
anotheracodependentwhoismarriedtoanalcoholicordrugaddict(Brown,1996).
Some years ago, Berne (1972/1974) explained how scripts could be transmitted from
grandparentsandparentstotheirchildren.James(1984)reviewedBernesconceptsregardingthe
script influences of grandparents and presented additional observations on multigenerational
family processes and surrogate grandparents as marital partners. More recently, Ancelin
Shtzenberger (1993/1998), from a psychoanalytic and psychodramatic perspective, traced the
rootsofscripttransmissionbacktoFreud,Dolto,Abraham,Jung,BoszormenyiNagy,andMoreno.
AncelinShtzenbergerdescribedhowMorenoraisedthecomplexquestionoftransgenerational
transmission of unresolved conflicts, of hatred, revenge, vendettas, of secrets, of what is
unspoken, as well as premature deaths and choice of profession (p. 7). She quoted Berne as
stating,Theindividualissubjectedtoinjunctionsbothofexternalexpectationsandinternalized
obligations....Theparentmotherorfatherinus(p.29).
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However,inwhatshecallsherauthorsgenealogy(background),AncelinShtzenberger
never mentions Bernes theory about script transmission. Likewise, in Germany, Hellinger
(2000/2001) developed family constellations therapy, which is a method for treating unresolved
transgenerationalissues;however,hementionsonlybrieflytheinfluenceofBerneonhiswork.
OneofmygoalsinthestudydescribedherewastohighlightthescriptideasofEricBerne
(1972/1974),who,intheearly1970s,madeanoriginalandusefultheoreticalcontributionthathas
today become part of the general domain in psychology and psychotherapy. The concurrent
development of the transgenerational transmission concept by other authors may be a
coincidence, a synchronous phenomenon, or an example of yet another transactional analysis
conceptthathasbeenappropriatedbyotherschools.
My interest in this subject comes from my clinical practice some years ago when I
observedclientswhowereunconsciouslyreenactingeitherinapositiveoranegativeway,inan
intimaterelationshiporonthejobthelifestoryofoneoftheirgrandparents.
The concept of codependency was selected for this study because it represents an
exampleofwomensscriptstransmittedfromonegenerationtothenext.Codependencehasbeen
usedtodescribethepsychologicalproblemexperiencedbypeoplewholivewithanalcoholic,but
this study, and others done recently, explains codependence as a multidimensional problem
associatedwithotherstressfulexperiencesaswell(Fuller&Wagner[ENDREFERENCESSPELLSIT
WARNER, WHICH IS CORRECT] (WARNER), 2000; Gotham & Sher, 1995; Meyer & Russel, 1997
[END REFERENCES GIVES 1996 FOR MEYER ONLY, IS THAT THE REFERENCE YOU MEANT TO LIST
HERE?],(ITISMEYER,D.,&RUSSELL,R,1998,LIKEINENDREFERENCES)1998).
The concept of codependence has also been studied from a transactional analysis
perspective. Schaeffer (1987), without using the term codependence, explained the difference
between love and addictive love using the concept of power games. Weiss and Weiss (1989)
presented a systematic treatment approach for codependency based on the diagnosis of
developmental dysfunctions in the inner Child. Chang (1996) described the consequences of
emotionalabuseinwomen,includingsymptomssimilartothosedescribedinthecodependency
literature.Theresultsofthepresentstudyshowastrongassociationbetweencodependenceand
domestic violence (physical, emotional, and sexual abuse), and it is important to highlight that
emotionalabuseisalsopresentwhenphysicalandsexualabuseoccurs.
studies did not validate this hypothesis (Brown, 1996 [ADD TO END REFERENCES] (BROWN, S.
(1996)ISALREADYATTHEENDREFERENCES);Havey,Boswell,&Romans,1995).
3.Asadysfunctionalrelationshippatternbasedonspecificbehaviors(Lyon&Greenberg,
1991;Spann&Fisher,1990;Williams,Bissel,&Sullivan[ENDREFERENCESGIVESULLIVEN,WHICH
IS CORRECT?] (SULLIVEN), 1991). Through several studies, Wright and Wright (1990, 1991, 1992
[SHOULDTHISBEWRIGHTONLY?](NOBECAUSETHEYAREACOUPLE),1995,1999)validatedthis
idea; they consider codependency similar to addictive love (Norwood, 1985). They (1995, 1999)
describe two types of codependence: endogenous and exogenous. The former refers to a
predilection(ISNOTAPREDILECTION,IPREFERTO SAY:AVULNERABILITYINSOMEPEOPLEFOR
DEVELOPINGCODEPENDENCEWHENTHEYHAVE.)insomepeoplefordevelopingcodependence
and , when they have a family history of alcoholism, for becoming involved with a partner who
abusesalcohol.Thelatterisrelatedtoanongoingreactiondevelopedbypeoplewhoarecoping
with an alcoholic partner regardless of whether they have a background of alcoholism in their
familyoforigin.
Mystudywasbasedonthethirdoftheseperspectives;itusedtransactionalanalysisscript
theory to explain the development of those relationship patterns. [I MOVED THE WRIGHT AND
WRIGHT MATERIAL ABOUT ENDOGENOUS AND EXOGENOUS TO THE END OF THE PRIOR
PARAGRAPH.ITSEEMEDTOODISCONNECTEDWHENITWASHERE.OK?](OK)
There has been considerable controversy surrounding the concept of codependency for
two main reasons: (1) the lack of a common definition of codependence due to different
theoretical perspectives and (2) a feminist reaction by some who view codependency as a label
imposed on women in a maleoriented society. However, both because of such problems and
criticismandtoargueinfavoroftheconcept,anumberofresearchersandacademicscontinued
investigatingcodependencyasawaytodenounceafrequenthealthproblemaffectingwomenin
oursociety,aproblemthatisoftenseenasnatural,evenbywomenthemselves.
Thisstudyshowstheassociationbetweencodependenceandthefollowingstressfactors:
(1) early affective loss (represented by death, neglect, separation or divorce, abandonment of
parents,and/orchronicillnessofafamilymember,allbeforetheageof12);(2)domesticviolence
inthefamilyoforigin(physical,sexual,oremotionalabuse);(3)afamilyhistoryofalcoholism(in
grandparents,parents,andsiblings);(4)apartnerwithproblemswithalcoholism;(5)anabusive
partner (physical, sexual, or emotional violence); and (6) submissive feminine behavior with the
partner.
Fromatransactionalanalysisperspective,codependencecanbeseenasascript.Itismore
frequentinwomenandisintrojectedintoherpersonality(egostates)aswellasinsertedintothe
cultureasapassivitysyndrome(Shiff &Coll,1975)[ADDTOENDREFERENCES] (OKI SAWIT).It
manifestsassubmissivebehaviorandisunconsciouslyfocusedontryingtofulfillherneedsfrom
early affective losses. This script reinforces an unresolved symbiosis, thus preventing the
development of the womans own identity. It presents as a rescuer game toward others while
maintaining emotional repression. This script is demonstrated by following passive behaviors
(passivebecausetheyavoidtheresolutionofthecodependenceproblem):doingnothing(denial
mechanism),overadaptation(rescuergame),agitation(emotionalrepression),andincapacityand
violence (internal by means of psychosomatic disorders or external by not setting limits on the
abusivebehaviorsofothers).
Following Bernes script theory, Steiner (1974/1982) developed the concept of gender
scripts. Codependence, shown as submissive behavior in relationships, is both a cultural and a
genderscriptforwomen.Mexicancultureisprofoundlyaffectedbygenderscripts.Thescriptthat
has dominated in men is machismo a cult of virility the main attributes of which are an
exaggeratedaggressivenessandintransigenceamongmalesaswellasanarrogantsexualattitude
towardwomen.Forwomen,thescriptinvolvesacultofsuperiorfemininespiritualityovermales
aligned to submission, with female value awarded according to the amount they suffer. This
resultsinastrongambivalencetowardfemales,whoaresimultaneouslyworshipedassaintsand
devalued and given a secondary role (Medina Mora [SHOULD THIS BE HYPHENATED AS IN END
REFERENCES?](YES),1994).
TheCodependenceScript
Itisimportanttomakeanosologicdistinctionbetweendependentpersonalitydisorderas
defined in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSMIV) (American
Psychiatric Association, 1994) and codependency since they appear to involve similar problems.
Theformerreferstoapersonwhoalwaysreliesonsomeoneelseduetoalackofselfconfidence.
Thecodependentpersonisjusttheopposite;sheisoverlyresponsibleandworkshardwhiledoing
manythingsformanypeople;sheissomeonewhoalwaystriestobehelpfulandtoorganizeand
controlthelivesofpeoplearoundher.Codependentsarefrequentlytheoldestchildren,theones
whotakecontrolinthefamily.Suchanindividualusuallyreversesroleswithherneedyorchildish
parentsasawayofcontrollingcrisissituationsinthefamily,thusdiscountingherself(Whitfield,
1991)whiledevelopingasecondordersymbiosis(Shiff&Colls[SHOULDTHISBECOLLSORCOLL
ASINENDREFERENCES](COLL),1975).ThepassivitysyndromedescribedbySchiffetal.(1975)can
be observed clearly in codependent relationships. Passive behaviorssuch as doing nothing,
overadapting, becoming agitated or incapacitated or violentas well as the four levels of
discounting for resolving a problem (existence, significance, possibility of change, and personal
abilities)areusuallypresentincodependentrelationships. Thisiswhycodependencyhasbeen
comparedtopassiveaggressiveordependentpersonalitydisorderbecausepassivitytakesplace
aspartoftheunresolvedsymbiosis,readytobereenactedincurrentliferelationships.
TransmissionofLifeScriptAcrossGenerations
InPrinciplesofGroupTreatment,Berne(1966)definedlifescriptasanunconsciouslife
plan [GIVE PAGE FOR QUOTE](228). Later, in What do You Say After You Say Hello? (Berne,
1972/1974),hegaveamoreextensivedefinition:[Ascriptis]alifeplan(BASEDONADECISION
TAKEN)inchildhood,reinforcedbytheparents,justifiedbysubsequentevents,andculminatingin
achosenalternative[GIVEPAGEFORQUOTE](488).Inthesamebook,Berne(p.83)explaineda
processforscripttransmissionandsuggestedaskingpatientsthefollowingquestionsinorderto
obtain information about their scripts ancestral influences: What kind of life did your
grandparents live? He said that patients usually have three types of answers: ancestral pride,
idealization,andrivalry.
James(1984)extendedBernesexplanationsandmadesomeadditionstothetheory.He
statedthattheseanswersarewaysforpeopletofollowintheirgrandparentsfootsteps:Justas
children use their parents as models, they also identify with and model themselves after their
grandparents(p.22).
1.AncestralPride.Grandchildrenfeelproudabouttheirgrandparentslives.Whiletalking
abouttheirancestorsfeats,grandchildrenimaginesharingsimilarpersonalitycharacteristics.
3. Rivalry. This may occur when a grandchild competes with one of her or his parents,
diminishingtheparentsvaluebycomparinghimorherwithanidealizedgrandparent.
Berne (1972/1974) also described four basic ways in which scripts are passed from
grandparentstosucceedinggenerations:(1)inanundifferentiatedfashion,(2)whenlinkedbythe
sameinjunction,(3)whenscriptsalternatebetweensexes,and(4)whenscriptsskipgenerations.
2. Scripts can be linked by the same injunction and passed on from generation to
generation. This may happen when children are treated in a different way based on a specific
characteristic.AnexamplewouldbeparentswithlowincomewhoenableaDontThinkinjunction
intheirdaughtersbyrestrictingopportunitiesforprofessionaleducationtomen.
3. Sometimes scripts alternate between sexes. An example of this was a female patient
whofeltveryangryafterhersisterdied.Analyzingherscript,sherememberedhavingheardthat
herpaternalgrandmothercommittedsuicide.Throughtherapyshebecameawarethatherfather,
an alcoholic, had always been depressed and showed a lack of interest in life. Upon asking her
mother,thepatientdiscoveredthathersisterdiedofanoverdoseofthefathersantidepressant
pills.[SEEMYLETTERABOUTARELEASEFORTHISCASEMATERIAL]
4. At other times, scripts skip generations. For example, Janes grandmother always said
she was a widow. Jane came to therapy feeling confused because her mother strongly rejected
Jane after finding out she was pregnant. Janes boyfriend was a married man. Trying to rescue
Jane, the grandmother, full of shame, finally disclosed her lifelong family secret: She never
married,andJanesmotherwasrejectedbyherfather,whowasamarriedman.Unconsciously,
Jane was expressing the family secret by repeating her grandmothers script. [SEE LETTER
REGARDINGRELEASE]
TransmissionofScriptMechanisms
Berne(1972/1974)wrote,Themostintricatepartofscriptanalysisinclinicalpracticeis
tracingbacktheinfluencesofthegrandparents(p.318).Ashappenswithotherlifescripts,the
codependence script may be transmitted to subsequent generations. This occurs through some
specificmechanismsbasedonaprocessofunconsciouscommunication.
Novellino(1990)[ADDTOENDREFERENCES](SEEADDITIONTOENDREFERENCES),quoting
Malan,describedunconsciouscommunicationasanapparentlyirrelevantepisodethatparallels
another significant situation that the patient wants to express without realizing it (p. 171). He
[WHODOESHEREFERTOHERE?](NOVELLINO)saysthatintreatmentthesehiddenmessagescan
bedecodedbythepatientwiththehelpofinterpretationsofferedbythepsychotherapist.
Unconscious communication also occurs in families. In everyday life, through verbal and
nonverbalinput,parents givemessagestotheirchildrenthatparallelothersignificantsituations
fromtheirownexperienceandhistory,frequentlyrelatedtofamiliar[SHOULDTHISBEFAMILIAL?]
(YES)scriptissues.Thesehiddenmessagesusuallyappearinthechildrensadultlifeasrepetitive
behaviorsorrelationshippatternsthatmightbedifficulttounderstand.Thesemessagescanalso
bedecodedduringatherapyprocess.
Based on my research and clinical experience, I suggest four main mechanisms for
understanding unconscious transmission of script from generation to generation: ulterior
transactions, psychological games, transference psychodynamics, and projective identification.
The analysis of these mechanisms in the clienttherapist relationship can be useful for decoding
thehiddenmessagesandbreakingthegenerationalchain,thuspreventingthetransmissionofthe
samescripttothenextgeneration.
Anotherexampleofunconscioustransmissionofscriptinvolvesshamefulsituationsfrom
the lives of previous generations that are usually kept as secrets. These family secrets are
commonly transmitted nonverbally by means of ulterior transactionstone of voice, gestures,
attitudes,andfacialexpressionsalthoughsometimestheyaretransmittedwithwordsorsilences
intendedtoapproveordisapproveofspecificbehaviors.
Bradshaw (1995) affirms that families are as sick as their secrets. Family secrets refer to
unknownknowledge,somethingpeopleknowwithoutawarenessbecausetheyarehookedinto
theunresolvedemotionsencodedinthefamilycommunicationthroughulteriortransactions.The
family code determines the scale [NOT SURE WHAT YOU MEAN HERE BY SCALE, RANGE?] (YES,
RANGEISFINE)ofmerits,advantages,obligations,responsibilities,debts,guilts,andresentments
as learned reactions grounded in the family history. The way to express this knowledge is by
acting out the family script behavior, as in the case of families in which several generations of
singleteenagemembersbecomepregnant.
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Genderscriptsshowingwaysofthinking,feeling,andbehavingsuchasmachismoand
codependenceare also encoded in the cultural script. Ancelin Schtzenberger (1993/1998)
recalledMargaretMeadsaying,Thebasicthingsinanycultureandfamilygowithoutsaying.The
most important things are taken for granted, never clearly stated, leaving you to guess them
throughwaysoflife,hints,ornonverbalcommunication(p.18).
2.PsychologicalGames.Berne(1966)definedagameasaseriesofulteriortransactions
with a gimmick, leading to a welldefined payoff (p. 364). Ancelin Schtzenberger (1993/1988)
affirmsthatallpsychologicalrelationaleventsaremotivatedbythedoublestructureuponwhich
theyarebuilt:themanifestbehavioralstructureandthehiddenobligationstructure(p.27).This
is exactly what transactional analysts mean by games. Psychological games contain a hidden
message, an unconscious wish to understand or give meaning to an unresolved issue from the
past,evenwhentheintentionofthesocialtransactionappearsassomethingdifferent.
For the codependent individual, the typical game is Im Only Trying to Help You. This
gameservesasawaytocontinuerepeatingrescuerscriptbehaviorthatisusedtoavoidfeelings
of guilt related to the obligation of being the responsible person in a chaotic situation. As in
every game, the roles eventually change so that the codependent person ends up playing
Persecutor at some times and usually ends as a Victim while alternating these roles with her
partner.
3.TransferencePsychodynamics.InTransactionalAnalysisinPsychotherapy,Berne(1961)
affirmed that scripts belong in the realm of transference phenomena (p. 116). Moiso (1985)
defined a transference relationship as a relationship in which the patient, in order to
reexperience parentchild or primitive object relationships projects onto the therapist his own
ParentalEgoStates(p.194).
Thismechanismoccursfrequentlyincodependentrelationshipswithouttheawarenessof
the participants. It functions similarly to the transmission of certain viruses, like some venereal
diseases, where the bearer does not show symptoms and the couple only manifests it after
becominginfected.
Basedontheoutcomeofulteriortransactions,ConwayandClarkson(1987)discussedthe
importanceofthepsychologicallevelincommunications.Theysuggestedthatulteriormessages
may have the force of hypnotic inductions when the persons Adult is decommissioned. An
example of this process involves women who repetitively choose partners who, after a while,
change their loving behavior and start rejecting them, just like the womans father did in
childhood.Anotherexampleisawomanwhooverandoverbeginsarelationshipwithamanwho
eventuallybecomesaproblematicpartner.
Schore (1994, p. 465) used the work of Melanie Klein to explain the importance of
understanding projective identification in psychotherapy with individuals presenting
developmental disorders. He described this mechanism as an interactive process in the mother
childrelationshipwheremothersunconsciousinformationisprojectedontoherchildren.
Projectiveidentificationseemstobethemainwayscriptsaretransmittedfromparentsto
children, and it is involved in all the other mechanisms described earlier: ulterior transactions,
games,andtransferencerelationships.Itfunctionsasavehiclefortransmittingrepressedfeelings
through several generations, especially feelings related to a history of abuse, negligence, or
abandonment in the family. This process frequently involves feelings of shame, and Bradshaw
(1988)affirmedthatinternalizedshameistheessenceofcodependence.
Erskine(1994)definedshameasaselfprotectiveprocessusedtoavoidtheaffectsthat
resultfromhumiliationandvulnerabilitytolossofcontactinrelationshipwithanotherperson(p.
90).Followingalongdiscussionaboutthe meaningofshame,Hyams(1994) said,Shameisthe
deep feeling in the body, mind, and soul tied to physical or psychological abuse and lack of
bondinginearlychildhood(p.256).
It thus makes sense that repressed feelings of shame are common in codependent
relationshipsandthattheyareavehicleforscripttransmissionaswasshowninthecasesoffamily
secretsdescribedearlier.Thesecretisusuallydisclosedbythepatientsactingouttheshameful
scriptstory.
English (1969) described the hotpotato game to explain the process of passing an
episcriptbackandforth.Anepiscriptisthetransmissionofahamarticscript(individual,familiar,
social, or cultural) from one person to another, a process in which the defense mechanism of
projectiveidentificationmaybeinvolved.
DescriptionoftheStudy
The study described here was divided into two phases. The first phase was the
constructionandvalidityoftheCodependenceInstrument(ICOD)forMexicanwomen(Noriega&
Ramos,2002).Thisisascreeningtestof30itemswithresponsesrangingfrom0(none)to3(alot).
The Kappa statistic of .8409 demonstrated a significant level of agreement between two
psychotherapists [AGREEMENT BY TWO THERAPISTS ON WHAT?] (AGREEMENT BETWEEN THE
DIAGNOSISMADEBYTWOPSYCHOTHERAPISTANDTHERESULTSOFTHETEST).Asfortestingthe
validity of the external criteria, the following values were identified [WAS A CERTAIN TEST OR
STATISTIC USEDTOOBTAINTHESEVALUES?IFSO, ITWOULDPROBABLYBE GOODTOINDICATE
THAT HERE AND REFERENCE IF APPROPRIATE](OF COURSE, THE STATISTICS USED FOR THIS
RESEARCH ARE BASED ON A COMPLEX RESEARCH METHODOLOGY NOT DESCRIBED IN THIS
ARTICLE,INTERESTEDREADERSWILLBEABLETOFINDITBYLOOKINGATTHEREFERENCEONTHE
TOP:(NORIEGA&RAMOS,2002):asensitivityof76%andaspecificityof69.05%.Thepreceding
statistics were obtained in order to clarify the score that would identify probable from
nonprobablecasesofcodependency;acutoffpointof32ormorewasestablishedfordetecting
casesofcodependencywithinacouplerelationship.
Afactoranalysiswithvarimaxrotationwasapplied,whichproducedfourfactorsthatwere
congruentwiththeconceptualdimensionsIobservedinmyclinicalpractice:(1)denialmechanism
(discounting), (2) incomplete identity development (unresolved secondary symbiosis), (3)
emotionalrepression(DontExist,DontFeel,DontThink,andDontBeaChildinjunctions),and
(4) rescuer orientation (Rescuer role in psychological games). Testing for internal consistency of
thisinstrumentshowedaCronbachTotalAlphaof.9201,whichmeansahighinternalconsistency.
Thesecondphaseofthestudywasperformedwitharandomsampleofwomen(N=830)
who attended a firstlevel consultation in a health center in Mexico City (NORIEGA, 2002).
Prevalence of codependence was obtained by way of an epidemiology crosssectional study.
FurtheranalysiswasconductedusinganOddsRatio(OR)asameasureofassociationbetweenthe
followingfactors(riskfactors)inrelationtocodependence:(1)earlyaffectivelosses,determined
by the following situations during childhood: death or abandonment of a parent, divorce or
separation of parents, neglect by parents, and/or chronic physical or mental illness of a close
relative; (2) firstborn daughter; (3) family history of abuse; (4) family history of alcoholism in
siblings,parents,andgrandparents;(5)partnerwithalcoholdependenceorwhoabusesalcohol;
(6) abusive partner in both variables of abuse analyzing physical, sexual, and emotional abuse
[THISLASTPHRASEISNTCLEAR,YOUSAYBOTHVARIABLES,WHICHMEANSTWOANDTHENYOU
LIST THREE. DO YOU JUST MEAN A PARTNER IS ABUSIVE EITHER PHYSICALLY, SEXUALLY OR
EMOTIONALLY?](WHAT I MEAN IS THAT PHYSICAL, SEXUAL AND EMOTIOAL ABUSE WAS
ANALYZED FOR BOTH VARIABLES RELATED TO ABUSE: FAMILY HISTORY OF ABUSE AND ABUSIVE
PARTNER);and(7)culturalgenderscriptssubdividedasfemininescripts(positive)andsubmissive
scripts(negative).
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Results
Thedemographicdatashowedthatwomeninthestudyhadameanageof31yearswhile
theirpartnershadameanageof34.42.Theyhadbeenmarriedorlivingwiththeirpartnerforan
averageof10.15yearsandhadanaverageof2.13children.Theprevalenceofcodependencywas
estimatedat25%,whichmeansthatoneinfourwomenwere/areaffectedbycodependency.
Anelevatedcorrelationwasalsofoundbetweenscriptsofsubmissionandalltheother
variablesinthestudy.Itwasobservedthatalargemajorityofwomenwhohadasubmissivescript
had suffered early childhood losses (70.4%), a higher frequency than for those without these
scripts(59.2%).Thecorrelationbetweenthealcoholvariablesandscriptsofsubmissionwasalso
interesting.Itwasfoundthatwomenwithsubmissivescriptsshowedahigherfrequencyofhaving
a father with alcohol problems (68.6%) than those without such scripts (61.7%). In addition,
submissive women more frequently reported having a partner who abused alcohol or was
probablyalcoholdependant(51.2%)comparedwiththosewhowerenotsubmissive(38.8%).
Regarding the independent variables related to abuse problems, within the submissive
group, more women were found with an abusive partner (85.9%) compared with those without
this script (74.1%). In the same way, the submissive women reported a greater history of
emotional abuse (32.7%) than those who were not submissive (19.7%). By means of this
correlation, it was also possible to observe that within the submissive group, almost half of the
women were cases of codependency (47.8%), a much larger percentage than in the group of
womenwhowerenotsubmissive(10.0%).
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Discussion
Thedataproducedbymeansofthisanalysisshowedanurgentneedtocontinuestudying
thecodependencedisorder.Thisdisorderisaproblemrelatedtoaculturalscriptthatpromotes
inequality of power between genders; it affects both men and women because it prevents the
establishment of healthy couple relationships. This research is the first attempt to develop a
scientific line [WHAT DO YOU MEAN HERE BY LINE, A PROCESS? EXPECTATION? A MODEL?
TRADITION?](ASCIENTIFICRESEARCHLINEAREAGROUPOFPEOPLEDOINGAFOLLOWUPABOUT
ASPECIFICRESEARCHSUBJECT)inMexicoforthestudyofcodependence.Theresultsshowedthat
one in four women is affected by codependence, an alarming figure given the fact that this
problemisnotyetrecognizedasamentaldisorder.
The epidemiological design used in this research required that variables be rigorously
selectedandcontrolledinordertoproducehardquantitativedata.Aftercompletingthefirststeps
of the research, significant data had been gathered to demonstrate the transmission across
generations of the codependence script: 43.7% of the women who were identified as
codependents had grandparents with problems of alcohol abuse. This represented a 1.3 (OR)
higherriskfordevelopingcodependencethanforwomenwhosegrandparentsdidnothavethat
problem. However, the design of the study prevented a more indepth inquiry into the family
history of the women interviewed. Nevertheless, evidence of a history of alcohol abuse in
grandparents and parents of the women who scored higher than 30 on the screening test was
observed.Forfutureresearchabouttransmissionofthescriptfromparentsandgrandparentsto
their children, I recommend designing a qualitative study that would utilize indepth interviews,
focusgroups,andasmallersample.
As I said earlier, a family history of alcoholism was the variable used to study the
transmissionofthecodependencescriptfromonegenerationtothenextwithcodependenceas
theobjectofstudy.Thedataobtainedinthisstudyshowedthatwomenwithafatherwhoabused
alcoholhavetwice(OR=1.9)theriskofdevelopingcodependenceoverthosewhodonothavean
alcoholicfather.Itisinterestingtonotethat76.8%ofthewomenwithafatherwas(WHO)abused
alcohol also had grandparents who were alcohol abusers. Nevertheless, the grandparents
variables did not show significant results in the multivariate analysis. This might be due to a
memorybiasinthewomenwhowereinterviewed,orperhapsthequestionnairesusedwerenot
indepthenoughtogatherthenecessarydataforgoingdeeperintotheproblem.
As the study showed, the higher risk factor for developing codependence was a
submissivefemininescript.Theresultsinthemultivariateanalysisshowedthatwomenwitha
traditionalnegativefemininescripthavea7.6timeshigherriskfordevelopingcodependencethan
thosewithoutthiskindofprogramming.
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Thisvariablealsocorrelatedwithalltheotherriskfactors.Thisresultisimportantbecauseitraises
questions about the common belief that to be a woman is, in itself, a risk factor for
codependence.Thevariabletraditionalfemininepositivescriptdidnotshowanysignificantrisk,
which shows that the real problem associated with codependence is a negative female cultural
scriptthatleadswomentoplayasubmissiveroleinsociety.
Thevariablefirstborndaughterwasstudiedtoseeiftherewasarelationshipbetween
birth order, codependence, and the Dont Be a Child injunction. The results obtained in the
multivariate analysis were not significant for the firstborn child factor, but the questionnaires
from the entire sample of codependent women showed a risk 3.8 times higher for presenting
behaviorsrelatedtothisinjunction(OR=3.8).Thismeansthatforcodependentwomen,acoping
defense in childhood was growing up fast, which implies exchanging roles with one or both
parents.Thisleadstoanalterationinnormalchildhooddevelopment,aproblemthatcanaffect
notonlythefirstbornchild,butanychildreninthefamily.
Thewomen withpartnerswhowerealcoholic,asopposedtoalcoholabusers,showeda
risk 4.7 times higher for codependence than those who did not have an alcoholic partner. It is
interesting the way these data coincide with the type of partners described by the members of
Alanongroups.
Women with a family history of emotional abuse showed a risk 2.6 times higher for
developingcodependencethanthosewhowerenotabusedinchildhood.Itisimportanttonote
that the variables of a history of physical abuse and a history of sexual abuse did not lead to
significantdatainthemultivariateanalysis.Thisexplainstherelationshipamongthethreekindsof
abuse,wheretheemotionalabuseisalwayspresentandthereforeaddsgreaterweight.
Womenwithanabusivepartnerbothsexuallyabusive(OR=4.3)andphysicallyabusive
(OR=3.6)showedahigherriskforcodependence.Inthesecases,theemotionalabusewasnot
significant; this could explain why adults are less vulnerable than children to emotional abuse.
However, this information needs to be researched further, because other studies show severe
emotionaldamageinwomenexposedtoemotionalabuse(Chang,1996).
Analyzingthedemographicvariables,onlyilliteratewomenwhichmeanttheydidnot
know how to read or writeshowed a risk 3.7 times higher for codependence. The variable
education, which referred to those women who had finished at least high school, showed a
protectivefactor(.544).Thisdataconfirmsthatalackofeducationproducesmajorvulnerability
for abuse; it also suggests that education is a protective factor for the prevention of
codependency.
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Conclusions
Gloria Noriega Gayol, Ph.D., is a Teaching and Supervising Transactional Analyst (clinical)
andthedirectorofInstitutoMexicanodeAnlisisTransaccional(IMAT)inMexicoCity.Sheisalsoa
pastpresidentoftheITAA.Pleasesendreprintsrequeststo:Dr.GloriaNoriega.,Agrarismo21,Col.
Escandn.Mxico,D.F.C.P.11800.;email:[email protected].
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