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21 Memos From Your Children

This document contains 21 memos from children to their parents providing advice on how to best raise and interact with them. The memos advise parents to not spoil their children, be firm but not inconsistent in discipline, take their fears and questions seriously, apologize when wrong, and provide them with understanding love. Overall, the memos encourage parents to avoid behaviors that undermine a child's self-esteem, honesty, trust or sense of security in their relationship.

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21 Memos From Your Children

This document contains 21 memos from children to their parents providing advice on how to best raise and interact with them. The memos advise parents to not spoil their children, be firm but not inconsistent in discipline, take their fears and questions seriously, apologize when wrong, and provide them with understanding love. Overall, the memos encourage parents to avoid behaviors that undermine a child's self-esteem, honesty, trust or sense of security in their relationship.

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21 MEMOS FROM YOUR CHILDREN

1. Dont spoil me. I know quite well that I ought not to have all that I ask for. Im
only testing you.
2. Dont be afraid to be firm with me. I prefer it, it makes me feel more secure.
3. Dont let me form bad habits. I have to rely on you to detect them in early stages.
4. Dont make me feel smaller than I am. It only makes me behave stupidly big
5. Dont correct me in front of people if you can help it. Ill take much more notice if
you talk quietly with me in private.
6. Dont make me feel my mistakes are sins. It upsets my sense of values.
7. Dont protect me from consequences. I sometimes need to learn the painful way.
8. Dont be too upset when I say, I hate you. It isnt you that I hate but your power
to thwart you.
9. Dont take too much notice of my small ailments. Sometimes they get me the
attention that I need.
10. Dont nag. If you do, I shall have to protect myself by appearing deaf.
11. Dont forget that I cannot explain myself as well as I should like. This is why Im
not always very accurate.
12. Dont make rash promises. Remember that I feel badly let down when promises
are broken.
13. Dont tax my honesty too much. I am easily frightened into telling lies.
14. Dont be inconsistent. That completely confuses me and makes me lose faith in
you.
15. Dont tell me my fears are silly. They are terribly real, and you can do much to
reassure me if you try to understand.
16. Dont put me off when I ask questions. If you do so, you will find that I stop
asking and seek my information elsewhere.
17. Dont ever suggest that you are perfect and infallible. It gives me too great a
shock.
18. Dont ever think it is beneath your dignity to apologize to me. An honest
apology makes me feel surprisingly warm toward you.

19. Dont forget how quickly I am growing up. It must be very difficult to keep pace
with me, but please do try.
20. Dont forget I love experiencing. I couldnt get on without it, so please put up
with it.
21. Dont forget that I can thrive without lots of understanding love, but I dont need
to tell you, do I?

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