SPECIFIC PHRASES FOR IMAGO DIALOGUE
SENDER
I would like to have a Dialogue about….
Is now a good time?
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I feel….
I love….
What’s bothering me is….
RECEIVER
MIRRORING
Let me see if I’ve got you. You said….
Did I get that?
Is there more about that?
Summary Mirror
Let me see if I got it all. In summary, you are saying….
Did I get all of that? or
Is that a good summary?
VALIDATING
I've listened carefully. Your perspective is important to me, and you make sense, and what makes sense
is….
EMPATHIZING
I imagine you might be feeling…or
I imagine you might have felt…or
I can see you are feeling…(if feelings are stated).
Is that what you are feeling?
SWITCH ROLES
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