HOW TO:

MR. NICE GUY

ATTRACTING GIRLS USING GOOD MANNERS.
Contents
Chapter 1 - Introduction 2
Chapter 2 - Being too nice - really? 3
Chapter 3 - The “Important three” 4
Chapter 4 - What makes you a good guy 5
Chapter 5 - Making her feel good 7
Chapter 6 - What to avoid 8
Chapter 7 - Building confidence 9
Chapter 8 - The right mindset 11
Chapter 9 - Conclusion 12

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Introduction
I like you as a friend. You’re like my brother. I don’t want to ruin our friendship; I’m
sure you’re familiar with those lines. Have you ever wondered why? You’ve been so
nice to her, you’ve been giving her all of your attention, you’ve never mistreated her,
yet, she’s dating that rude jerk - that may have made you think of yourself as too nice
to get a girlfriend. You probably think it’s the jerks who get all the hot girls. But is that
really true? I would like to prove you wrong. It’s not necessarily true that you have to
be bad or rude to get your way with girls.

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Being Too Nice - Really?

Every guy, no matter if he’s “good” or “bad”, has the potential to get the girl of his
dreams. That includes you. Contrary to popular beliefs, you don’t have to be a bad guy
to be loved by girls. So, what’s the issue? Does a term like “being too nice” even exist?

I personally don’t believe so. To be honest, I personally prefer this method - it’s more
natural to me and it has several benefits, which I’m going to describe later. I’ve been
successful

Without further ado, let me explain where most guys fail - and you probably belong
into this category, as well.

Imagine the last girl who rejected you and used one of the aforementioned lines as an
excuse. You were probably nice to her. You probably gave her a lot of your attention.
You texted her first. You made sure she was happy and comfortable, while not caring
about your own happiness - just seeing her happy made you happy, as well. You were
sure she was going to say yes, because she had every reason to do so, but then you got
rejected, anyway. How’s that even possible?! You’re probably confused.

Let me point out a few things here. Let’s assume you were attracted to her and you had
some sort of feelings for her - which, after all, is probably the reason why you asked
her out. It wasn’t a mistake to be nice to her. It wasn’t even a mistake to be too nice to
her. The real mistake was that you focused on logical attraction. You thought she
would go out with you, because you were nice to her and she saw you as a nice person.
You simply focused on making her think you’re a nice person. You tried to impress
her. Don’t worry, we all have been there. There’s another issue, though.

When we’re attracted (or in love) to someone, we tend to overlook their mistakes and
we put them on an imaginary pedestal. This can often make her take you for granted
and you can’t blame her - it’s not her fault. You made her feel that way.

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The “Important Three”

Now that I’ve mentioned logical attraction, I’d like to clarify what it is and why it’s im-
portant to understand it, along with other key elements of every relationship.

I’d like to sum up the most important elements into three categories, that affect the
way someone feels about you and how they react to different situations involving you.

As I said earlier, the first one is logical attraction. You’re probably familiar with this
one. When you’re nice to a girl, you treat her like a princess and you’re there for her,
you build logical attraction. We could sum it up as a set of actions and ways of various
behavior, giving someone logical reasons to be with you. Sadly, this is not enough to
build attraction, however, it’s key when it comes to getting and eventually keeping a
girl. Logical attraction includes being kind, nice and thoughtful.

The second of the important elements is emotional attraction. If you’re not looking
for a “normal” relationship, but you simply want to be in a “friends-with-benefits” kind
of relationship, this element doesn’t have to be present, at least not fully. A lot of peo-
ple who are afraid of opening up emotionally prefer this kind of relationship, because
there’s no commitment on the emotional level. Emotional attraction is built through
“connecting” to the person on an emotional level - understanding them and being
there for them. Having similar interests also helps, because it gives your desired per-
son the feeling that you understand her.

Last but not least, there’s sexual attraction. It’s absolutely crucial - as a matter of
fact, I think it’s the most important element. You can easily tell if you’re attracted to
someone and the same goes for girls. Although, if you’re attracted to her and she may
not be sexually attracted to you, don’t worry. One of the easiest ways to build sexual
attraction is through touch - I’m not going to explain this into detail, but a few more ex-
amples would include flirting and not being available to her all the time.

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What Makes You A Good Guy

I’d like to talk about the key elements that are crucial for “nice” guys in order to be suc-
cessful and also about what makes a good guy.

Before I tell you what to do, I’d like to break it all down into several personality traits
that you should show and how you should portray yourself;

Caring - This doesn’t mean you should ask her about everything to make it seem like
you care. This means being there for her, although, you should be careful not to be-
come her sounding board - you know, listening to how she complains about other guys
and such stuff. That would get you friendzoned - instantly.

Respectful - If you’re reading this while thinking - “Am I not supposed to be a bit
rude? Cocky?”. Unless you know how to do it properly, don’t even try - but I’d like to
talk about this in my other e-book. Being respectful means that you won’t offend her
and you will make her feel comfortable. Remember one thing - no pick up line will
open doors the way good manners will. This doesn’t mean you should treat her
like pure gold, though.

Honest - Flirting is okay (as a matter of fact, it’s necessary), but lying is not. Being
honest will build trust and it will be easier for you to get closer to her.

Talkative - No, this doesn’t mean talking with her all the time and approaching her
whenever possible just to initiate a conversation. What we’re talking about here is
knowing how to hold a proper conversation. Not one that goes like “Hi, what’s up?”
“Not much.” “Oh okay.” - and that’s it. Learn how to have a proper conversation and
most importantly, let her talk about herself (no, not about other guys).

Positive - Nobody likes that obnoxious and pessimistic person who always complains
about something - whether it be people, life, their problems... it doesn’t matter. Just
make sure you’re not that person. Smile, show everyone you’re happy. It sends a
good vibe and people will enjoy your company a lot more.

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Mystery - This doesn’t necessary make you a nice guy, although, it’s vital in avoiding
the friendzone. Show interest, but don’t be too open and direct. Flirting is your best
friend, along with being playful. Use words, sentences and idioms that may have an-
other meaning.

Confidence - If there’s an “attractive-to-all” trait, it’s definitely confidence. If you

lack it, learn how to build it - you’ll find how to do that later. Again, this isn’t a trait
that’s necessarily related to good or bad guys, it’s just an attractive trait in general, so
make sure to take advantage of it.

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Making Her Feel Good

The key element here is making a girl feel good. It’s important to say a lot of guys
make a mistake and they try to impress a girl in order to make her feel good about
them (the guys). Why is this a mistake? Well, it may get her attention, but it isn’t
enough to build attraction and trust. In order to build these, you need to make her feel
good about herself when she’s with you.

Make sure you don’t offend her - instead, compliment her when she does something
that you like or want or when she’s nice to you, let her know. Show her good manners
and the chances are, she will like or even love you.

A good way to compliment someone is, for instance, to tell them they’re a nice person,
that you’re proud of something they’ve achieved (preferably something you two have
in common) and so on. When complimenting her, focus on using nouns (“a nice per-
son”) instead of adjectives. Doing this will result in her feeling better about herself, in-
stead of making her feel good about you.

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What To Avoid
“Good” and “bad” don’t have to be exactly the opposite, at least not here. The following
list of traits doesn’t make you a bad guy. These traits make it harder for you to succeed
with girls, so avoid displaying them at any and all cost.

Jealousy - It’s okay to show interest, but being jealous doesn’t mean that. It only
means you’re insecure. Admit it. You fear there may be something more between her
and the guy sitting next to her.

Being clingy - It’s related to being insecure, as well. Excessive need for affection and
reassurance will likely drive her away. No girl likes that guy who spends all the time
with her, just to make sure she spends all her time on him. Try to understand she’s an
individual and unique person, which means she has her own interests and hobbies. It
doesn’t mean she doesn’t like spending time with you.

Seeming boring - You should spend time with yourself or your friends. Spend time
on your hobbies. If you have none, make sure you make some, or you’ll be seen as bor-
ing - and nobody likes being around the person who doesn’t know how to have fun,
right?

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Building Confidence
Don’t worry if you don’t feel confident enough. I used to be like that, as well, so I un-
derstand you and your situation. Here are some tips to make you look better, feel bet-
ter and how to help you build confidence.

Start working out - Seriously. A lot of people don’t realize this, but this is probably
the best confidence booster. I can tell a huge improvement. Not only will it make your
body look better, but you will feel much better and more confident about yourself. Abs
are not a necessity, though, so don’t be too hard to yourself. I’m not going to explain
what exactly you should do, but learn to work out at least 30 minutes every day and
if you can, go to the gym at least 3 times a week. This has multiple advantages; you will
have an amazing new hobby and you will show everyone that you’re capable of making
big changes - that’s one of the key elements of getting out of the friendzone with peo-
ple you’ve been friends with for a long time, but if you want to learn more about this,
check out my other e-book, which explains how to do that. Also avoid drinking
sweetened drinks (sorry, my friend, but your diet coke isn’t good for losing weight,
either) and quit junk food - candy bars, fast food, chocolate. You know what I’m talk-
ing about. Show others that food isn’t your only hobby. Also, make sure to take a
picture of yourself when you wake up - just to remind yourself that if you decide to
break your new healthy habit, you will always look and feel the same.

Be a leader - Some people are natural leaders, meaning they’re good with people.
They love company. Give people a reason to follow you wherever you want to lead
them. Organize events for your friends, make a habit out of it and they may start bring-
ing you along to more events, as well.

Be passionate about something in your life - be proud of something you’ve

achieved or some trait you have. Do something that you enjoy and try improving at it.
This will also help you build your social circle and meet people who are interested in
the same kind of stuff.

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Start with girls online first - No, I’m not talking about getting into “online relation-
ships”. They usually don’t work and you don’t want to commit yourself to someone you
can’t even touch, hug, kiss and so on, right?

I’m talking about getting girls on cam, for instance. Speaking based on my own experi-
ence, it’s a huge confidence boost. It also helps you learn how to talk to girls in gen-
eral. If you’re absolutely inexperienced, I suggest that you read my other e-book to
learn how to get some cam experience with girls.

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The Right Mindset

In order to improve, you need to have fun. Fun is very important. When you enjoy
something, you look forward to doing it and you do it more often - meaning more prac-
tice. And as they say, practice makes perfect.

Simply put, change your attitude - if you feel like picking up girls is a chore, a must,
something you have to do - you simply won’t enjoy doing it. Next time you find your-
self doing something you enjoy, focus on having fun - everything seems much easier,
because hey, no matter the outcome, you’ve had fun, right? So, next time you’re out
and see an attractive girl, simply focus on having fun - not just on picking her up.

It honestly isn’t a big deal. It’s important to keep in mind that not talking with a girl
produces the same outcome as being denied, so you should at least try it. The more
times you fail, the better you will be the next time.

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Conclusion
This book offers insight into being better with women while being “a nice guy”. This
doesn’t mean you will instantly start getting tons of women - it means you will be on
the right track to getting better and better every day. I personally feel like this method
is more successful when it comes to maintaining generic (monogamous) relationships,
but you can also make friends with benefits this way.

Remember, you’re not on your own. I’m here for you and I’ll be glad to help you.

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