Pecson, Mark Brian D.
12-Ceres
Homeroom Guidance Grade 12
Quarter 2 – Module 4: Decisive Person
Let’s Try This
Your good deed of returning a case of jewelries and diamonds you accidentally
found on a public transport was rewarded by a rich businessman. He gave you a
huge amount of money that will surely change your life. Your next move is to use
the money wisely, and to make sure that every move you make leads to promote
common good. In making such decision, what are your considerations? Why?
My considerations are the possible outcomes of my decision, because one
wrong decision can lead to big mistakes.
List down some of your expenditures. Is it worth your money? Why? At this time
of pandemic, what should be your priorities? Do you find it hard to come up with
a decision? Why? Why not?
Yes, because I use the money wisely. In this pandemic, my priorities are
the needs of my family and our health. Yes, because sometimes I want to
prioritize my wants rather than my needs.
Processing Questions:
1. How did you come up with such decisions?
When coming up with my decisions, I weigh the consequences of the
possible results of my decisions, and I choose the result that would
benefit the many and not harm anybody, including myself.
2. Who influenced your decision-making skills?
My family is the one who influenced my decision-making skills.
3. Are you happy with your decisions? Why?
Yes, because the decisions I made have a positive outcome for me and my
family.
Let’s Explore This
Two of your friends are having conflict and often disturb your peace of mind. How
would you handle this situation?
If two of my friends have a conflict, I will advise them to talk about the
situation, and I will help them solve the conflict they are facing.
Describe a time you made an unpopular decision. How did you handle the
feedback? How would you have handled the situation differently?
When I make an unpopular decision, I just ignore the bad feedback
because it will not change the situation. I just focused on how to divert
and make the situation better rather than thinking negatively.
Do you usually make better decisions alone or with a group? Why? When do you
ask for help?
Yes, I can make my own decision if it’s manageable. I ask for help when I
can’t manage the situation.
In your experience, when you’re working on a group project, do you make the
most decisions or do you prefer to step back and follow someone else’s
guidelines?
It depends who has the better decision.
In areas under General Community Quarantine, many have opened business
establishments amidst the rising cases of Covid-19. However, health protocols are
being implemented to ensure public safety so that usual business transaction
continue. Our economy is badly affected by this worldwide health crisis but life
moves on, citizens are caught in between working for a living or staying at home
for safety health reasons. What is your stand on this?
It is safe to stay at home but what will be the future if we continue to
hide beneath the walls. So better face the danger and surface this kind of
situation. We have enough wisdom to protect ourselves.
Processing Questions:
1. How did you find the activity? What were your thoughts and feelings while
answering?
It's a quiet brain twister.
2. In making a decision, what are the things that you need to consider?
In making a decision, the things that we need to consider are the possible
outcomes and listen to the suggestions of others.
3. Who are the people that mostly influence your decisions? Why?
My family, because they are the ones who believe in me and they are my
positive influencers.
4. Does this pandemic situation somehow affected your decision-making? How?
Yes, because the pandemic is so serious right now, you must think
carefully before acting, just as you would when making a decision.
You Can Do It
FAMILY
They help me to grow with their love and also give me financial support.
PEERS/ CLASSMATES
They help me get to know myself more by socializing with me.
INSTITUTIONS / SCHOOL
It helps me to achieve what I want and learn new things day by day.
OTHER SOURCES / COMMUNITY
One of the reasons that motivates me to make the right decisions is that they give me eagerness
to make the right decision.
What I have learned
YOUR GUIDE IN DECISION THE WAY YOU DO IT
MAKING
1. Collect relevant information. Follow the relevant information to have a
good and trusty image
2. Write down pros and cons. Write them down so I will know what will
happen if I make move in something
3. Imagine yourself sooner or later Just face it, because everything happens
dealing on with the with a reason and sooner or later it will give
encouragement and lesson.
consequences of your
decisions
4. Weigh in past decisions. Learn to your past, and leave it, and start to
begin and step forward
5. Be Ready. No matter what happens in life I’ll face it
with faith and trust
Share your Thoughts & Feelings
I simply want to thank you for giving me the strength to keep going when I
felt I couldn't go on any longer. You have given me some optimism and
kindness that I never imagined could assist me in achieving my objective.
Thank you for your support and courage in allowing me to make my life
decision. And I just want you to know that you had a positive impact on my
life and that it was because of you that I became a better person.