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WARNING

This book is not for LGBTQ communities.

This book is not for feminists.

This book is not for weak men.

This book is not for Mr.Nice Guy.

This book is not for religious leaders.

This book is not for politically correct people.

This book is for a man who wants to master how to be nasty,

troublesome, blunt, etc. towards a woman, yet she’ll still be madly in love
with him, unlike those boring weak nice guys who she controls like a
beta male.

If you want the bad boys/real men’s dirty talking skill on how to make
her yearn for your dick and make the relationship last with
misunderstanding, then it’s 100% for you.

Only a few men know what you’re about to discover, so count yourself
lucky and get ready.

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 Disclaimer

The information in this book is provided for personal entertainment

purposes only.

You remain 100% responsible for your actions at all times.

Please use this information wisely, with caution and always with total
respect for women.

Cautionary Note

Some of the information in this book is hard-core. It’s explicit. It’s of an

extremely adult nature (and is not intended for anyone under 18 years of
age).

It may challenge your sexual beliefs about women and what you thought
was the truth.

At first you may think that some of the dirty talk phrases in this book are
too extreme, too much, far more than any woman could possibly want to
hear.

But I encourage you to read with an open mind because this book
contains the types of things that women absolutely LOVE hearing from
their men in the bedroom

(but would never ask them to say).

I’d go so far as to say that mastering dirty talk could be the single most
important thing you will ever do as far as SATISFYING your WOMAN in
the bedroom goes.

This book will help you master dirty talk.

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INTRODUCTION

I want to thank you and congratulate you for purchasing this book.

This book contains proven steps and strategies on how to use the
language of lust to drive your lover mad with carnal desire.

There are thousands of books that talk about giving and receiving
pleasure through the genitals and the erogenous zones.

Even so, they neglect to pay attention to the most important sex organ
that human possess: the Brain.

Within the brain is a limitless reserve of sensual stimuli: uttering the right
words can heighten one’s state of arousal and ever enhance the intensity
of orgasms.

Dirty words have the power to connect you with your primal nature. It
helps couples strip away inhibitions and to unleash the wild lovers within.

But more importantly, dirty talk enables you to delve into your significant
other’s mind.

It encourages your partner to share with you his/her raw thoughts and
emotion thus, making sex infinitely more intimate.

Now, if only you could get over the awkwardness and fear of rejection.

Through this book, you’ll learn what talk dirty is and how it can benefit
your sex life and your relationship.

More than that, you’ll learn how to talk dirty without feeling like an ass.

Find out about the rules of talking dirty and how to correctly introduce
titillating talk into your lovemaking routine.

In a manner of speaking, this book will teach you how to fuck your
lover’s brains out.

Filthy words put the fun in fucking. But how dirty is too dirty?

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Read on. This is your ultimate guide to erotic eloquence.

CHAPTER 1:

DIRTY TALK
Are you looking for a way to get your woman to give in and
surrender to you and be her most submissive self?

Or

Are you one of those people who want to spice up their love
life, longing to hear certain words whispered, moaned, or
uttered but just don’t know how to get started?

You are on the right place.

I will teach you how to open your mouth and voice what you
want, what you love and exactly how you want it in the most
attractive way possible.

I will also teach how show what you say and how to say it-
you’ll never have to think about whether you’re doing it wrong

Because I’ll teach you how to talk dirty and offer hundreds of
sweet erotic phrases for hard-core seduction.

Without wasting too much time,

Let’s dive into it.

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What is DIRTY TALK?

Dirty talk refers to sex play which involves sensual phrasing with the
purpose of igniting your partner’s desire.

Naughty language works by triggering one’s imagination thus, building

your lover’s arousal before and during intercourse.

Dirty talk does its job by stimulating your sexual partner bodily senses
(sound, touch, sight, etc.) by triggering his/her brain.

And thus, inducing a desired response.

Couples use dirty talk as a means of expressing what they want and need
from their partner while they’re caught up in the heat of passionate
lovemaking.

Sex Is Not Really a Physical Thing!

The truth is that, as far as women are concerned, sex isn’t really a
physical thing.

For proof, consider porn.

In porn, you often see guys with unusually large erections absolutely
POUNDING women.

Non-stop, HARD, in many positions. Yet, often times, you’ll notice that
the women fail to experience a single orgasm!

What happened?

He’s got a big dick. He’s pounded her for ages. Yet she’s failed to cum
once. That’s PATHETIC!!!

For a woman, sex isn’t a physical thing.

It’s mostly in her head. Heck, women can have purely MENTAL orgasms –
no physical touching required.

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Just a boat load of expert dirty talk!

If that’s not proof that sex is a mental thing for women I don’t know
what is.

For women to experience maximum pleasure – and become totally

addicted to you – you have to stimulate their minds in the bedroom.
Genital stimulation alone is not enough.

Dirty talk is such a powerful sexual technique. In fact, it can be the

difference between you giving your woman no orgasms and you giving
her 5, 10, 15 or more in a single session!

Let me be crystal clear,

Stimulating your woman’s mind is essential if you want to blow her mind
in bed and make her addicted to you.

Stimulating her mind is not done by putting your dick in her pussy.

Stimulating her mind is done with dirty talk.

For your dirty talk to be effective, you must do the following

things: -

1. Deliver it with confidence and authority.

She must take what you say seriously

2. Deliver it in a manly voice.

3. Keep it simple.

Complex dirty talk is a waste of time. She shouldn’t have to try and figure
out what you mean – it should be really obvious.

You should also keep the following things in mind: -

-The closer she is to orgasm, the more hard-core your dirty talk can be

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- The longer you’ve known her, and the more trust and respect you have
with her, the more hard-core your dirty talk can be.

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It is important to learn Sexy Dirty Talk because:

Most women are sexually submissive. Almost all women are at times
sexually submissive.

It is in those times that she wants to get lost in it all and be lead through
a sexual experience where the man assumes all responsibility for what
happens.

This releases her from the need to initiate anything and the need to
become a "slut" in order for her to have the experience.

She wants to do slutty things, and feel slutty, without being a slut.

You leading her through it gives her permission to feel this.

When you take the initiative it is your responsibility and your idea, so she
goes along with it because you told her to, and it just happens to be
something that she wants to do.

But she would never initiate it herself, because that would define her as a
slut, and is counter to her being submissive. At the same time, her being
told what to do is congruent to her being submissive.

Many men feel uncomfortable about talking dirty in the bedroom.

That is because such men think she will take it wrong, or that some men
are not comfortable with being in control.

A man needs to be comfortable with the fact that she is a sexual woman.

A man needs to understand that anything he says in the context of

heightened sexual arousal will be taken in a completely different context.

That context is one of being in the moment, of her being lead through
an experience, of her being sexually submissive, and him taking the lead
and responsibility.

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The important context here is a sexual situation and of consensual sexual
power exchange.

You leading and she is doing what she is told. When done properly, she
will respond powerfully to it.

If sexy dirty talk is new to a man, he cannot let her know that.

She will detect it, and it will backfire.

You must be totally congruent; everything must be totally congruent

with you being in charge.

You must do everything with absolute conviction.

You must be totally believable.

Received a Message from a lady sometimes ago and she told me,

“Dirty talk during sex is very important for most women. Once, years ago,
I was dating a guy who had not yet initiated dirty talk in the bedroom.
So, one night, while we were doing it, I said to him "Oh yeah, fuck your
bitch!" He stopped cold and said "You're not a bitch!"

It was an instant turn off to me. I never called him again.”

It is the man's job to set it up such that she can be sexually excited.

You need to set up the build-up.

Once you build it up, the sky is the limit.

You can tell her to do anything and she will do it.

And especially because you told her to do it.

That is especially exciting for her.

It is one of the many ways that a woman pleases her man, by

demonstrating her responsiveness to him.

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A girlfriend once told me, "The man that gets me is the man that can
fuck my mind."

What are the types of dirty talk?

1. Soft Dirty Talk

This is also known as “sweet nothings”.

The language used in soft core dirty talking is not dirty per se.

Rather, they are meant to sound warm, encouraging, and even

affectionate.

The purpose of soft core dirty talk is to appeal to your lover’s emotions
and to draw a response from her feelings of affection towards you.

Soft core dirty talk is a great way to introduce hard-core love lingo into
the bedroom.

You use it as a means to prepare your partner, to get a sense of her

feelings about sexy talk, and to gauge her boundaries.

Examples:

“You’re the hottest thing I’ve ever seen.”

“I want to hold you so badly.”

“I love the way you smile when I’m on top of you.”

“Baby, I’ve never felt so good.”

The secret to making soft core phrases sound utterly dirty is by

controlling how you say it.

It all depends on how you want your lover to feel and what response you
wish to get out of him/her.

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If you want your message to come across as passionate and aggressive,
say it with a gruff voice or through gritted teeth, like you’re struggling to
stop yourself from ravaging your lover.

If you want to sound romantic and adoring, assume a soft tone and say it
with a sigh.

Another factor that greatly affects the meaning behind your message is
the direction of your gaze.

A soft core phrase like “You’re the hottest thing I’ve ever seen.” can easily
turn into hard core dirty talk when you’re looking at your lover’s genitals
rather than her face.

2. Hard-Core Dirty Talk

As opposed to soft core dirty talking, hard core phrases tend to be more
direct and at most times, seemingly vulgar.

The purpose is to yield a physical response rather than an emotional one.

Hard core dirty talk appeals to the primal instinct, the animalistic nature,
if you will. They encourage even the most modest individuals to unleash
the beast within.

Hard core words urge a person to drop their inhibitions at the bedroom
doorstep, to feel free to give in to pleasure, and to be at liberty to
express themselves.

During hard core dirty talking, swear words may be included.

One might ask:

How does profanity suddenly become sexy?

When you don’t usually use swearwords and then end up blurting them
out during lovemaking, it gives the impression of losing control.

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It makes your lover feel that the sex is so good that you scarcely know
how to describe it, and thus, you resort to using coarse language.

Couples often use hard core words as a means to push boundaries as

well as to make sexual role play seem more realistic.

By saying words which you don’t typically use while playing these
characters, you enable yourself to strip off all those roles and just feel
free to become a sensual being with a boundless capacity to give and
receive pleasure.

Hard core talk also serves as a secret shared between couples and for
this reason, it deepens your intimacy.

The beauty of hard core sex lingo is that it comes off as raw and honest.

The sheer bluntness of it all shows your partner that the words spring
from deep within you.

Simply put, hard core dirty talk makes your partner feel that she has
accessed a side of you which you rarely reveal.

Examples:

“I want you to cum in my throat.”

“Oh, baby… Those tits are made for fucking.”

“Oh yes! This is what a real man’s cock feels like!”

Cock, Pussy, Cunt, Fuck, Tits, Must I really use this kind of language?

Well, you don’t have to if you don’t want to.

The key to successful dirty talk is to use words that you and your partner
are comfortable with.

In the end, the key is to observe your partner’s reaction or better yet, ask
her how she feels about each naughty word.

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Come up with a list of modern sex jargons and discuss it with her.

Make it a fun activity.

Highlight the hot ones and laugh at the ridiculous ones.

In the succeeding chapters, we’ll discuss ways on how to get your erotic
phraseology right.

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Here is a letter that was written by a woman to a book author:

"On our third date we went to a museum, and while we were walking
around, he started whispering things in my ear about how he'd like to tie
me up and how he'd like to spank me right there in the museum and let
everybody see me with my skirt pulled up and how much I'd probably
enjoy exposing myself because I was a naughty little slut. I almost ran
out of the museum. But I wanted to hear more, even though I was
horrified. Now that I look back I realize that I was horrified because he
was saying exactly what I wanted to hear. I didn't want to believe that a
nice girl - whatever 'nice' means - could want to do things like that.
Before I knew it, I kept going out with him, because I really liked him as a
person. And he was great in bed. He was teaching me things that I had
only fantasized about before. Some of them I hadn't even fantasized
about."

So, you can see how powerful it can be to introduce a woman to a

fantasy that she has never imagined for herself.

But you can also make use of her existing fantasies.

Outside of the bedroom, while in a relaxed honest state, such as talking

on the couch, make her tell you a fantasy she has had but has never told
anyone else.

An Intelligent Sensual man knows she will be shy, and will lead her
through the experience. He knows she is reluctant to tell him so that he
does not think she is slutty.

He will always show full acceptance and appreciation for any fantasy she
brings up.

Make sure you talk to her about these delving things outside of the
bedroom, not in the bedroom, because in the bedroom is not the place
for questions or delving, it is the place for action.

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When you learn something new about her sexually, don't go and do it
right away.

Then it seems like she told you to do it.

Instead, tuck that information away for use at a later time.

At a later time, make use of that knowledge you have about her, such as
making that fantasy real for her.

Also, talking about fantasies, a very powerful thing you can do it’s, when
you ask her for one of her fantasies, you can tell her "I don't want to put
you on the spot right now. I want you to just think about it when you are
alone. And the next time we are together, I want you to tell me then."

This makes her think about it when she is alone and it makes her even
more excited about it, and about you.

It's like she's being bad even when she's not supposed to be.

It's all in fun.

It's the kind of thing that makes a woman wildly crazy for her man.

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How can dirty talk improve your sex life and your
relationships?

First, let’s talk about the most obvious benefit:

1. Dirty talk makes sex several degrees hotter.

The number one secret to successful sex is open communication.

The ego is a fragile thing.

One of the worst things that could happen during sex is when you utter
a suggestion and then it gets misconstrued.

Dirty talk gives you and your lover a means to express your wants and
needs and to give feedback in a totally non-offensive way.

Here’s a fact: Any words uttered during sex can be a distraction from
pleasure so when you say something during intercourse, make sure that
it’s worth it.

When you are able to tell your lover what to do and where and when
and how you want it, all without wounding her ego, how can that
possibly not lead to great sex?

2. Dirty talk boosts your partner’s confidence in bed.

Dirty talk has the power to turn so-so lovers into alpha males and shy
women into carnal goddesses.

If you want great sex, then make it your business to build your lover’s
ego.

Women who are overly self-conscious about their bodies are unlikely to
agree to bold bedroom ideas like doing a striptease or trying sex
positions that make them feel too exposed.

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Positive body image is vital for great sex.

When a person looks at his/her reflection in the mirror and sees

someone undesirable, the idea works its way into his subconscious so
that it automatically lowers the person’s libido.

Thus, no matter how attractive his partner is, one remains difficult to
arouse.

Simply put, in order to be turned on by your partner, you first need to be

turned on by yourself.

Men may experience performance anxiety and worry about premature

ejaculation, their staying power, the size of their penis, etc. Some men
may seem confident on the outside but in fact, they feel threatened
about the idea of relinquishing control in the bedroom.

Use dirty talk to assure your man of his prowess in bed or to compliment
your woman’s gorgeous body.

3. It keeps you and your partner in tune with each other.

Another nice thing about naughty talk between the sheets is that it
encourages lovers to become more verbal instead of leaving their
partner to guess several things like what they’re feeling, what they’re
thinking, or where the clit is located.

Moaning, sighing, and screaming are all wonderful but the trouble is
they can easily be misinterpreted.

4. Erotic lingo gets the creative juices and the love

juices flowing.

It’s never a good thing for couples when things get boring between the
sheets.

The thing about naughty talk is that it awakens an adventurous, creative,

and deeply sensual side of you.

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It’s a fact that words easily become actions.

Perhaps now your erotic vocab may be limited to “Oh God, I’m coming.”
but in no time, you’ll be saying things like “I’m going to drop by your
office, shut the blinds, tie you up in your chair, and lick you ‘till you beg
me to fuck you.”

When you say these words out loud, they are implanted into your
subconscious and into that of your lover’s.

You build up this fantasy scenario and it will keep playing itself up in
your mind.

Pretty soon, you’ll be paying her a visit at work with a pair of handcuffs
in your pocket.

5. Naughty talk is fantastic foreplay and after play.

Dirty talk is not just done during lovemaking but also before and after
sex.

Compared to men, it takes longer for women to get sexually aroused.

Dirty talk, be it soft core or hard core, can play a vital role in helping a
woman get in the mood for love.

Men enjoy being teased just as much.

The thing about orgasms is that the longer the anticipation and the
more powerful the build-up, the stronger and the more pleasurable they
become.

So whisper some sexy words while you’re taking each other’s clothes off.
Do a little sexting to build your lover’s excitement.

If there’s one thing that men love more than ejaculating, its’ knowing
that they were able to satisfy their women.

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Likewise, women want to be reassured of their lover’s affection and
satisfaction after lovemaking. After having sex, use dirty talk as a means
to communicate your joy and gratitude.

So do you see why it’s a MUST to learn Dirty Talk?

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Chapter 2:

HOW TO START DIRTY TALK

Now,

In the bedroom, use terms like pussy and cock, do not use proper
anatomical terms like vagina and penis.

That would only make her laugh.

Similarly, in the living room, use proper anatomical terms like penis and
vagina, do not use cock and pussy. That would be vulgar.

As for terms you call her. In the living room, call her Baby, or whatever.

Do not call her bitch.

But in the bedroom, in the context of heightened sexual arousal, call her
your bitch, or slut.

But never ever call her a cunt, or any other term that she despises, or it
will break her out of state.

There are many other ideas for opportunities to use dirty talk.

An example is taking her shopping for sexy underwear, and then while
you two are out at the night club, and she is wearing the sexy underwear,
whisper a fantasy into her ear, about how it makes her feel very sexy to
be in that sexy underwear.

And then get into a place or a position where nobody can see it when
you slide your hand in and start touching her while you tell her

"Everybody sees you as being a very proper woman, but really, I know
that on the inside, you are being a very naughty little girl."

All of this must be done with absolute conviction.

It must be totally believable and purposeful.

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But how do you introduce her into such a New reality that she could only
imagine/fantasize about?

Even with the realizations that we’ve reached in the previous chapter, it
can be tough to simply open your mouth and utter those things.

Logic has nothing to do it with it, and self-consciousness and potential

judgment everything.

We can have all the justification in the world to do something, but that’s
not what determines our actions in daily life, as many of us are far too
familiar with.

Even if I give you the perfect phrases to whisper, they will be useless until
you can actually work up to whispering or shouting them during orgasm.

Simply put, the first time you try anything new, you will feel that self-
consciousness and adrenaline rush of uncertainty.

It is unavoidable.

But there are steps you can take to reduce those feelings and turn them
into excitement and arousal.

Hell, you might even skip over a couple of the following steps because
you’ve acclimated more quickly than you expected – and that’s what I
find with most people.

The important thing here is that everyone moves along at their own pace
of comfort, and no one can be expected to follow someone else’s and
move together exactly.

So if your partner is lagging, guess what… go back and help them!

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Step one – bring it up innocently.

First, talk about dirty talk with your partner. Bring it up innocuously and
gauge their reaction to it.

Tell them that a friend told you about it, and you were intrigued, so that
the burden can be blamed on someone else.

Or say that you read an article about it, saw a television piece on it, etc.
You can also watch something together that has elements of dirty talk so
the topic comes up independently of you.

Bringing it up this way gives you an out and plausible deniability so you
can avoid self-consciousness and judgment.

Your partner most likely will not be judging you, but this is an approach
that helps you justify talking about it.

I would estimate that 99% of the time, your partner will be intrigued and
agreeable to trying whatever you suggest in the name of spicing up
bedroom relations.

If they aren’t, they might simply be in the same shoes you are – afraid of
judgment and self-conscious about their sexuality.

If that’s the case, you need to move along slowly and emphasize that
you are interested in exploring it.

You might need to bring the topic up more than once for it to truly
implant in your partner’s head.

If they are truly reluctant to give it a shot, there’s not much you can do
except continue to keep communication lines open and extoll the virtues
of dirty talk.

Do not push them into something they don’t want to try.

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Step two – learn your vocabulary

Don’t dive into using dirty talk during sex yet.

You need to focus on the two main components of dirty talk –

vocabulary, and action phrases.

As you’ll see, you will need to be comfortable and proficient with both of
them. Get used to using various vocabulary words such as “cock,”
“pussy,” “tight,” “soaked,” “fuck me” and so on.

Think about how you can use them in your daily life to get over any
prevailing stigma you might feel from them.

Roll them around your tongue and mouth them – you don’t need to
outright say or use them yet.

You can do the same with action phrases such as “I’m going to,” “spread
yourself,” “bend over,” “pound me,” and the like. Whisper them to
yourself and become comfortable with them.

You are becoming a person who is a dirty talk expert, and that requires
changing your mind-set and expanding your comfort zones.

Make sure that you are also ridding yourself of your daily usage of lesser
dirty talk words like “wiener,” “dick,” “vagina,” and so on. Those are kiddy
words.

They have no place in dirty talk.

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Step three – writing and typing it

Third, test these phrases and vocabulary out via text or instant
messaging.

Actually writing these out will be adrenaline-inducing for the first few
times, but you’ll find that the initial hurdle… is really the only hurdle
there is.

The first time is the hardest, and each time you use anything you’ll be
exponentially more comfortable with it.

Once you see that there is no negative reaction, that’s going to be a

powerful piece of positive reinforcement to keep pushing the envelope!

If you need an intermediate step between steps two and three, I suggest
seeking out and reaching out to me via Twitter.

For some, this skirts a moral grey area, but it’s in the name of love!

Try out your phrases anonymously and without fear of retribution and
judgment!

The goal is just to get used to actually using them on someone, and
seeing the proper context and reactions that people will have.

Once you’ve mastered using your phrases and vocabulary via the written
word, you can try trotting them out in person in the next step.

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Step four – Introduce outside of the bedroom

Now that you’re comfortable with all the phrases and words and actually
have used them to some degree, try using them in a joking manner with
your partner out loud not during sex.

Take away the stigma and the embarrassment by saying everything with
a wry smirk, and get used to saying the words and their reactions.

You’ll get a chance for feedback, practice, and to discover what your
partner particularly likes or does not like.

The goal in this step is to get used to saying the vocabulary and phrases
with your partner orally to find out what they like and build comfort.

Step five – Transition to sex

At this point, you should have no issues saying that you want to say
because you’ve already taken away the mystique of the words in other
contexts.

You should also realize at this point that there will be no judgment on
your partner’s part. This is key.

It will be slightly nerve-wracking because it is a new context, but you’ll

have these phrases at the tip of your tongue and instinctually realize
when to use them for maximum arousal.

Start with moaning and groaning louder and more emphatically than
normal.

Then continue by incorporating dirty talk phrases into your moaning and
groaning.

Practice makes perfect!

You may find that you have to do the majority of the leading and dirty
talking when you first begin with your partner, so be prepared for it.

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The wonderful part about dirty talk is that you have probably been
playing a waiting game – that is, your partner didn’t want to be the first
person to bring it up, and is thankful that you did it.

Discovering shared secret interests, especially those of the dirty nature,

can be a huge aphrodisiac in itself.

The phrase “It’s not what you say, but how you say it” has rarely
mattered more than with dirty talk.

I can feed you the phrases to use (and I will later), but there are a few
guidelines that we have to cover in the delivery of your dirty talk.

Of course, part of this is practice and realizing what works for you and
your partner.

Delivery is key for dirty talk because of the overall mood and tone you
are seeking to cultivate.

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CHAPTER 3:

WHAT TO SAY WHEN TALKING DIRTY

Right now, let me share some examples of the kind of dirty talk women
enjoy.

You might be surprised to see how SIMPLE it is.

The chapter we were all anticipating for.

ONE thing about dirty talk is that it can be quite challenging even to the
most verbose people.

Some words may come across as sexy on paper but when said out loud,
they might sound absolutely ridiculous.

Even those who are completely confident in the sack might think: “OMG!
I can’t imagine myself saying that.”

After all, for most couples, sex has always been about action.

So how does one get the words to fit in?

There are a hundred words that you can use to refer to sex and to your
genitals.

Therefore, there shouldn’t be any reason not to find one that does not
offend you or your partner.

Search for current sex slangs on the internet, read erotica, and watch
sensual artistic films with your hubby/wifey.

Then together, determine which words work for the both of you.

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Look at these alternative names for fucking and examine how you feel
about them:

-Boning

-Banging

-Smashing

-Getting it on

-Screwing.

Which of these would you use?

*My favourite is smashing.

Other names for the vagina:

-Honey pot

-Kitty

-Pussy

-Cunt

-Slippery wet crack

-Strawberry

- Cherry pop

-Honeysuckle

-Passion fruit

-Jewel box

-Altar of Venus.

My favourite is Slippery wet crack, works better off than all.

Why?
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Because it describes her pussy and how it makes me feel.

If you want to describe the pussy, how many positive adjectives do you
have up your sleeve?

-Juicy

-Succulent

-Yummy

-Moist

-Luscious

- Mouth watering

- Wet.

Explore these other terms for the penis:

-Cock

–Dick

-Snakey

-Pole

-Dragon

-Love rod

-Jackhammer

-Love muscle.

Which of these turn you on?

Which words are funny?

Which ones are offensive?

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How many words can you comfortably use to describe your orgasm to
your partner?

-Out-of-this-world

-Amazing

-Fantastic

-Earth-shattering

-Bone-shaking

-Incredible

-Soul-moving

-Magical

-Spine-shivering

-Otherworldly.

You don’t have to be a verbal gymnast to please your partner but dirty
talk can quickly turn stale when you run out of synonyms for “good” and
“hot”.

Dirty talk during sex is easy.

Sadly, you can only dirty talk if you can last longer in bed.

If you can't, it will trigger quick ejaculation when the girl responds with
her dirty talk.

These are 10 dirty talk phrases that turn women on:

1. You're such a naughty girl and I like it.

2. Can you handle this rod?

3. You're such a spoilt child and I like it.

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4. Spread your naughty legs for me, baby.

5. I'm gonna put it deep inside your wet cunt.

6. Your pussy is so tight, baby. I love it. You're such a bad girl.

7. You're gonna cum for me soon.

8. You’re such a little horny, slutty whore.

9. Jeez! You're such a bad girl.

10. Yes, baby. Cum for Sweet Daddy. Cum right now, my nasty little
BITCH! Cum bitch! Cum hard right NOW.

Bring in your vocal and physical dominance at this time.

Putting a pillow in her ass and interlocking her hand triples the
connection and orgasm.

The same thing with covering her mouth, though, some ladies may not
like it.

I have experienced both a lover of it and someone who doesn’t.

You need to try it first. It’s fun.

This short novel below should guide you.

Pay attention to the man’s words.

Use them.

“You cat-walked to me on the bed and fearlessly dug your hand in my

boxer and brought out my dick. You knelt on the floor, teased my dick
with your tongue and slowly started taking it in your mouth.

You sucked me dry. "You suck so well," I complimented as I held your

head with my two hands while you sucked and gently played with my
balls.

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"Baby, I'm gonna cum," I said and you nodded your head while looking
into my eyes. Our facial expressions were priceless. I pushed my dick
deeper into your throat and shot my load.

I carried you to the bathroom and we showered together.

You turned and saw your washed panties. “Wow!” you exclaimed, “you’re
so sweet and romantic.” I spread your legs and started sucking you so
good, then raised my head and said, “No, your pussy is more romantic
and sweeter and that’s why I want to eat you all day.”

You laughed and I guess the dirty talk was amplifying the laughter. I kept
sucking you and you came, then I bent you over and slowly started
putting my fat dick inside you and pounded you like my little slut from
behind.

I spanked your ass hard as I continuously drilled your wet hole. I bet my
neighbours could hear your loud moans. I carried you back to the room
and I laid you on the tile, brought two pillows down to rest your head
and elevate your pussy. I gently massaged your shoulders, moved to
your neck, traced down from your spine to your ass and thoroughly
massaged your cute ass. I love your ass. The sight of it makes me hard.

I brought a Jelly lubricant, rubbed it on my dick and slowly started

pushing it into your cute pussy. "Relax, Baby. It won’t hurt – I’ll be gentle
and extremely careful," I said as I slowly pushed it inside you. I placed
your hand on your clit to rub while I bang your wet crack.

"You're my little whore. Look at how you took all my dick in your cunt," I
said as you vigorously rubbed your clit. "Faster, faster. Rub your horny
clit faster, Baby. Don't stop, don't stop. Please, don’t stop. Yes! You're
gonna cum for me. You’re gonna fucking cum for Sweet Daddy. Faster,
faster, faster, faster. Harder baby. Don't stop.

Don’t ever stop! Keep rubbing it. Ahhhhhh! Babyyy. Oh my Gosh!

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Faster, faster, harder, harder.

FASTEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEER! Cum for me right NOW, you NASTY

WHORE." As I moaned and spanked your ass hard, you moaned too.
“YESSSSSSSSSSSS!” you yelled and squirted so heavily and immediately
became weak. I pulled out, entered the bathroom to clean up, then came
back and carried to the bed.

Notice how they guy took the girl off to fucking her great until she
achieved climax?

I want you to do the same.

I want your wife/lover/partner to scream with great pleasure and have a

good experience getting it from you.

If you’re having sex right, sometimes you won’t have a clear enough
head to even form words in your mind.

So in lieu of dirty talk, oftentimes you should make an effort to moan

and react effectively to your partner’s actions.

Any type of vocalization is going to enhance the experience, and

sometimes a primal series of moans and whimpers can get the point
across more succinctly and clearly than a well-placed “I want you inside
of me.”

Focusing on reacting will make you more present and in the moment
with the experience, while some dirty talk practitioners can become
slightly distant because they are focused on thinking about the next
phrase to whisper.

Again, this is a good intermediate step for beginners to small talk. Simply
breaking the sound barrier can be transformative, and moans and groans
are easier to let slip and test the waters than dirty talk.

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Finally, as I mentioned before, you don’t actually have to respond to the
questions that your partner might ask you during dirty talk. “You like
that?” “Why, yes, I enjoy it very much, thanks.”

A lot of them are rhetorical in nature, and don’t need a response for the
intended effect. But you could always moan in acknowledgement, which
would be a good way to get your feet wet, as well as show your
appreciation of their dirty talk.

And now, finally what you’ve been waiting for.

When most people want to learn about dirty talk, I find that they usually
just want exact creative and sexy phrases that they can borrow. I have no
problem with this, as I’ve learned many phrases from others as well.

We all need a baseline to start with before we can really discover our
true dirty talk personality and character.

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General guidelines

1. Describe how they are making you feel by what they are doing to you
in that moment. Make it personal, that they are the ones affecting you
and only them.

2. Direct them – command, ask, beg, demand, or plead. Also, add

“please” to many dirty talk phrases.

3. Narrate your actions. Tell them what you are doing, or what you are
going to do to them.

4. Praise them. Be specific, and focus on their physical attributes. Many

people’s self-esteem is wrapped up in their physical appearance, so if
you praise them, you are simultaneously building their confidence as
well as dirty talking. When someone is more confident about their body
and has high self-esteem, they’ll be more likely to explore new thing and
be open.

5. Talk in terms of possessions. You are hers, she is yours. Your cock is
hers, her pussy is yours.

6. You don’t have to actually answer a question they pose in their dirty
talk. Many are rhetorical. As long as you acknowledge it or even moan to
it, that is sufficient.

As you’ll see, these six guidelines will be present in almost of all the dirty
talk phrases I give you in this book.

For ease of digestion and visualization, I’ve grouped my dirty talk

phrases into a few distinct phases. They run the gamut of when you
could use them related to a sexual encounter, from days to weeks of
teasing, to the actual encounter, during the orgasm, and afterwards.

I’ll educate you on the goals and tones you should be using for each
phase.

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Most of these phrases are fairly unisex and can be used without regard
to gender or sexual orientation and they are easily altered to fit your
needs.

Setting the stage

This is the phase before you even see your paramour.

This might be through texting, chatting, or even over the phone. The
point here is to drive anticipation and hint at the promise of what’s to
come later.

You can do this throughout the day, or week even, to make them hunger
for you.

The trick in setting the stage is to talk in future terms of what you want
them to do to you, and what you want to do to them.

Have the mind-set of trying to lure your partner over immediately – what
would you say to tempt them?

Imagine getting a text or email like this at work and the hungry reaction
that you’ll create.

1. I want you so bad

2. God I miss feeling you

3. You are going to feel so good when you’re inside me

4. I miss feeling your pussy

5. I want you to lick my honey pot right now

6. I am going to pound you raw

7. I am going to drink all of your cum

8. I can’t get enough of you

9. I need to taste you right now

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10. I’m wet just thinking about you

11. You make me so wet.

12. You drive me crazy

13. I dreamt about fucking you last night

14. I can’t wait to spread for you

15. I can’t wait to spread you

16. I can’t wait to fuck you from the balcony

17. I can’t stop thinking about how you moan

18. I can’t stop thinking about your dragon

19. I am going to fill my dick with my cum

20. How do you want to fuck me on Saturday?

21. How much cum are you going to give me on Saturday?

22. I don’t want to wait for your cock

23. Only you can fuck me right

24. My pussy aches for you

25. Tell me how you’re going to fuck me

26. Fuck me please?

27. You’re the biggest

28. I want to taste you now.

29. I love how you look at me when we fuck

30. Your cock is mine.

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How do this, messages make you feel?

Imagine waking up to some of those messages.

Imagine been in love with a good woman who sends you this type of
messages.

Sounds, cool right?

Let me explain how you can deliver your Dirty Talk on different scenarios.

1. Foreplay

For the purposes of this book, I’m counting foreplay as the moment your
lips meet, and including everything until actual penetration.

This includes oral and manual stimulation. Foreplay is all about teasing
and increasing the anticipation for the main event.

Focus on your partner and how they are making you feel, while hinting
that the main event is going to blow your mind because of the
anticipation you’ve had.

Have the mind-set that you are in the desert and they are your oasis –
you just can’t get enough of them, and they can do no wrong.

Make them feel amazing about themselves, and they will want to
reciprocate physically.

1. You feel so good

2. Your smell is intoxicating

3. You feel amazing

4. You’re so sexy/hot

5. I could do this all day

6. I love when you [fill in the blank]

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7. Your skin feels so good

8. Your lips are so soft

9. Bite me

10. Spank my ass

11. Use your nails on me

12. Feel how hard you make me

13. Just looking at you makes me hard

14. You drive me crazy

15. Fuck my face

16. Strip now

17. Pull my hair

18. Dominate me

19. What do you want me to do?

20. Lie back, it’s my turn

21. You look so hot sucking my cock

22. I want you in my mouth

23. You’re so tight

24. You taste so good/sweet

25. You’re so hard

26. Baby, you’re so gorgeous”

27. Baby, your body is amazing. I love your tight ass

28. Baby, I can’t wait to taste your wetness

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29. Baby, you smell so good.

2. During Intercourse

Of course, intercourse counts as any form of penetration. Since this is

the main event, talk about how you’ve waited eagerly for this, and that
it’s living up to all of your expectations.

Talk about the actual thrusting and the mechanics that you enjoy behind
it.

Talk about how passionately you want the sex to be.

Try having the mind-set that every thrust is mind-blowing, and that you
can barely stop from orgasming from their touch.

It’s not true of course, but projecting such passion will turn your partner
into an echo chamber.

1. Don’t stop pounding me

2. Make me scream

3. Your pussy is so warm/tight

4. Your cock is so hot/big

5. You’re filling me up

6. Fuck me harder

7. You feel so tight

8. Right there

9. Deeper

10. Only you can fuck me like this

11. Only you know how I love it

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12. Give me that cock/pussy

13. I’m going to fuck you until you break

14. May I come?

15. You make me feel so full

16. Fuck that feels so good

17. That cock feels so good in my pussy

18. That’s my good/bad girl

19. Say my name whore.

20.Flip over and spread your pussy

21. Look at me

22. You look amazing spread under me/bent over

23. Choke me

24. I love feeling you inside me

25. Do you like that?

26. You are so hot

27. You drive me wild

28. I want to make you cum

29. Make me cum

30. I’m going to watch you cum

31. You’re so deep

32. Do you like it deep?

33. I need you

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34. I’ve been thinking about this all day

35. You’re going to make me cum so hard

36. You like when I spread for you?

37. I’m going to suck you until you come

38. Ride me harder

39. You’re my naughty girl

40. Bend over, slut

41. I love fucking you

42. Lick it clean

43. I’m going to clean you clean

44. You’re so hard inside me

45. Baby, I love fucking your tight little pussy

46. Baby, you love it when I stretch your hole wide open

47. I’m gonna use your body just to make myself feel good

48. It makes you wanna cum so hard when I fuck you with my big fat
cock.

3. Orgasm

This is where it’s all been leading to. This is where you find your sense of
relief, and the culmination of everything you’ve anticipated of your
partner.

Express it!

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Talk about how long you’ve wanted this, and that your partner is so
irresistible that you simply couldn’t help yourself.

Cum-play is a big fetish for both genders, so having it inside, outside, on

the woman’s chest, in thee mans’ hair – someone is going to thoroughly
it any way you do it.

Your mind-set here should be that your orgasm is from your partner, by
your partner, and solely for your partner.

1. I’m going to fill you up

2. Fill me up

3. I’m coming

4. Don’t stop until you’re empty

5. Come all over my cock

6. Take every drop

7. I’m coming all over your cock

8. I can’t hold back any longer

9. I can’t resist your cock/pussy

10. I can’t take it anymore

11. Don’t stop until I cum

12. You’re going to make me cum

13. Give me your cum

14. Never stop, don’t stop

15. I want to watch you come

16. Let’s come together

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17. Watch me cum for you

18. Can I cum sir?

19. Watch me come for you daddy!

4.Post-coital

This is the phase after you catch your breath from the amazing orgasm
that you just had due to your newfound dirty talk skills.

They’ve heightened your experience and left you a sweaty mess. All you
can do now is lament that it was over too soon, and look to setting the
tone for the next session.

Take this opportunity to praise your partner, talk about what you loved
about the experience you just shared, and what you are looking forward
to for the next one.

Your mind-set here should be that you’re sad that it was over so soon,
but despite that, you can barely move from the orgasm.

1. You’re so amazing/That was amazing

2. You’re mine

3. I’m yours

4. Look what you did to me

5. I can’t help myself around you

6. We’re going to go again in 5 minutes

7. Make me beg for more

8. I can’t control myself around you

9. How did you do that?

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10. Next time, you can do whatever you want to me

11. You look so good full of my cum

12. I love you freshly fucked

13. I’m your toy, do whatever you want to me

14. I’ve been thinking about that for days

15. How long until you’re ready for round 2?

16. Don’t make me wait to fuck you again

Of course, there are thousands of things you can say to her during sex.
The examples I just gave you will get you started.

Notice how SIMPLE the dirty talk is.

Also be aware that if you ask her a question, make sure it’s one she is
going to answer “YES” to.

Never ask a complicated question that you aren’t certain she’ll answer
“YES” to.

Let’s move on and talk about…

Combining Dominance and Dirty Talk for Maximum Results

Which is more important – dominance or dirty talk?

I can’t answer that question. They’re both damn important.

And if you think about it – dirty talk is really a part of being dominant.

You can’t be truly dominant if you don’t talk dirty.

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Because a truly dominant lover stimulates his woman’s MIND, not just
her pussy, anus and clit.

And, as we discussed earlier – dirty talk is ‘the weapon of choice’ when it

comes to stimulating your woman’s mind in the bedroom.

Here’s something I want you to remember:

For women, sex is all about giving in and SURRENDERING to her

man. For a real man, sex is all about leading his woman.

The more your woman gives in and surrenders to you in the bedroom –
the more SUBMISSIVE she is being.

And the more submissive she is, the more PLEASURE – the more
orgasms – she will experience.

I suggest you re-read those last few sentences. Because they’re really
important.

Question:

“How do you get your woman to give in and surrender to you and be her
most submissive self?”

You get her to fully give in and surrender to you - and be her most
sexually submissive self for you - by acting totally DOMINANT and using
a ton of dirty talk.

The bottom line is this:

The more dominant you are – the more submissive she can be and the
more pleasure she’ll experience.

Of course, it goes without saying that the more pleasure she experiences
– the more ADDICTED she’ll be to you in bed.

It’s pretty simple math.

If you’re wondering why most men suck in bed,

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And why most women are hopelessly unsatisfied – and would rather go
shopping, eat chocolate or read romance novels than have sex –here’s
your answer…

It’s because most men don’t have a sexually dominant bone in their
body.

And most men either don’t talk dirty (or they do it really badly).

Making sense?

Good.

Now what you know what to do, what about what we discuss what you
should avoid when using Dirty talk to spice your sex life.

Should we?

Yes, I think you should learn most mistakes most make costing them a
unforgettable embarrassing moments.

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CHAPTER 4:

THE DON’T OF DIRTY TALK

What common mistakes must I avoid when talking dirty?

Hopefully you’ve carefully read this chapter up to this point.

If you have, the following mistakes will make sense to you. (If you haven’t
– go back and read it now!)

#Failing to take control and lead your woman in the bedroom – BIG
MISTAKE

#Failing to talk dirty – BIG MISTAKE

#Using complex dirty talk – BIG MISTAKE (keep it simple!)

#Asking her questions she can’t immediately answer “YES” to – BIG

MISTAKE (when talking dirty only ever ask her questions you know for
certain that she’ll answer “YES” to).

#Thinking she’ll instigate the sex – BIG MISTAKE.

She wants you to instigate the sex.

#Don’t fixate too much on size.

Whether it’s the penis or the breasts or the vagina or the thighs, don’t
comment too much on bodily proportions. This can easily be
misunderstood. Moreover, you might end up hitting your lover’s
insecurities without meaning to.

# Don’t say it unless you intend to deliver the goods.

If you say things like “You’ve been a naughty girl/boy. I’m going to
punish you.”, then make sure that you do. More importantly, make sure

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that your partner knows that you intend to follow through with your
words. Otherwise, all that dirty talk loses its impact.

# Don’t force yourself to say stuff just to please your lover.

If you do, it will inevitably show. As mentioned in the previous chapter, it

is necessary to set dirty talking rules with your partner. This is to ensure
that the both of you get pleasure out of it.

#Don’t memorize sexy phrases.

It’s better to come up with your own lines than to Google a bunch of
naughty words made by others. There’s nothing less sexy than a
rehearsed atmosphere. Remember, there’s no other person in this world
who understands what makes your sexual soul mate tick.

#Don’t slip into vagueness or vulgarity.

Saying stuff like “Oh yeah, that feels good.” tends to get old quickly. It
comes across as lazy and mechanical and even insincere. As previously
mentioned, you need to be more specific and more descriptive. Pay real
attention to what your partner is doing. They’ll love you all the more for
it.

Example: “That twirling trick that you did with your tongue around my
shaft…

That was incredible.”

#Letting her go on-top and then expecting her to take control and ride
you – BIG MISTAKE.

What?

You thought that ‘her on top’ automatically puts her in charge?

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NO. It doesn’t.

Here’s why:

You can, and should, be dominant at all times in the bedroom.

Here’s how you can be dominant even when she’s on-top:

- Say: “Baby, come and sit on my cock” (you’re telling her what to do.
That’s dominant)

- Once she’s got your shaft inside her, pull her head down so it’s next to
yours. Then wrap your arms around her and hold her in place (that’s
dominant)

- Now thrust in and out of her from underneath while talking dirty in her
ear

- Spank her ass while you’re at it (very dominant)

- When she’s close to orgasm, say: “Baby, cum right now. Cum all over
my big fat cock” (and, so long as she respects you and takes you
seriously – that’s exactly what she’ll do ;)

See what I mean?

Even in a position where most guys would assume that she’s in charge –
you can still be DOMINANT.

And trust me, if you follow the steps I just gave you for dominating her
when she’s-on-top – she’ll bloody love it.

That position, combined with the dominance techniques I just shared

with you, is tried-and-tested dude!

Honestly,

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I think if you have this book you are one lucky badass!

You have 90% of what most guys don’t know.

You are among the 1% who know how to please their woman in and
outside the bedroom.

Examples of Sexy Phrases to Leave Your Lover

Begging for More
Naughty words to say to your woman:

“I love the way your ___ looks/smells/tastes/feels like ____.”

Ex: “I love the way your skin tastes like vanilla. It makes me want to lick
you over and over.”

To turn a shy flower into an erotic queen, you need to boost her self-
confidence.

It’s not enough to tell her that she’s beautiful or that she’s hot. After all,
she probably hears that all the time. Highlight her specific qualities that
excite you.

Another way to do this is when you’re not in the midst of having sex and
when you’re both completely clothed. This way, there is less chance of
accidentally touching on any of her physical insecurities.

Choose the most unexpected moments. Whisper something like how hot
her butt looks in those jeans while you’re in a queue at the grocery store.

“I like the way you… ahhh.”

That’s right.

Sometimes, it’s best not to finish the sentence at all.

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This trick works by playing to your lover’s emotions. And we all know
that the fastest way to get a woman to come (other than hitting her clit,
her vaginal walls, and her Gspot simultaneously) is to fuck her feelings.

When you’re unable to finish your sentence, it makes her feel like your
thoughts and emotions are just too intense to put into words. She’ll love
the fact that she’s making you lose your ability to come up with a
complete sentence.

“How did you feel when I _____?”

Ex: “How did you feel when I rubbed your clit with my thigh?”

Any questions that you ask during dirty talk must be confident and
open-ended. It serves a double purpose.

One is to get valuable feedback and the other is to rerun the steamy
incident into her memory.

“I’m going to___ .”

Ex: “I’m going to lift your skirt up, pull your panties down, and give you
some good spanking.

Make your woman tremble with anticipation by telling her just what you
intend to do to her.

Women are attracted to men who know how to take control in the
bedroom.

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Conclusion

Thank you again for purchasing this book!

I hope this book was able to help you learn how to use the language of
lust to improve your sex life and strengthen your relationship.

The next step is to apply these tips in the boudoir and start giving your
lover an erotic earful. Have fun being filthy!

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