Dower Chapter
Dower Chapter
Introduction
This work explores the Meaning, nature, and definition of dower in Islamic law. What are the
types of dower? What is the nature and quantity of dower? Is dower a pre-condition for the
validity of marriage? What is the significance of prompt and deferred dower? What can be given
in dower? How is dower confirmed? Can a woman refuse herself to the husband if the prompt
dower is not paid or is delayed for some time and the marriage is already consummated? When
does the deferred dower become payable? Whether deferred dower becomes payable on demand
or on dissolution of marriage either by death or divorce? Is the wife who obtains separation
through khul‘ allowed to receive the deferred dower if it is still outstanding? How is dower
judicially interpreted in Pakistan? These issues are examined from the perspecitve of Islamic
law, especially of the Hanafi school of though which is more often applied by the superior
Courts in Pakistan in many cases, most of which are subjected to a critical evaluation in this
work. In addition, other related issues to dower are discussed along the way whereever
necessary.
Pakistani law does not provide statutory definition of dower, however, its meaning, nature,
significance and definition of the term, has been explained in many cases by the courts. Dower has
many other names in Arabic some of them are used in the Qur’an and others in ahadith of the
Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him). It is defined by al-Babarti (786/1384) as “[T]he property
which becomes payable by the husband as an effect of the benefits of marriage either through
specification or due to the marriage contract.”1 According to Ibn ‘Aabidin (d. 1252/1836), dower
is “[T]he [property] that becomes payable to the wife because of marriage contract or sexual
intercourse.”2 Badruddin al-‘Ayni (d. 855/1453) notes in his commentary on al-Hidayah that al-
Kaki3 has mentioned several names for mahr,4 three of them are in the Qur’an which are Nahla
(dower)5; ‘Ajr (dower)6; and Faridah (dower)7. The Qur’an also mentions the word Taul for
dower.8 Other names used are mahr9, Sadaq also Sidaq, pl. suduq ((bridal) dower)),10 and ‘Uqr11.
Dower is an effect of marriage but is neither an element not a condition for marriage, however, it
is obligatory. The Qur’an says, “But it is lawful for you to seek out all women except these,
offering them your wealth and the protection of wedlock rather than using them for the unfettered
satisfaction of lust. And in exchange of what you enjoy by marrying them pay their bridal-due as
an obligation.”12 Allah also says in the Qur’an, “Give women their bridal-due in good cheer
(considering it a duty); but if they willingly remit any part of it, consume it with good pleasure.”13
Mahr is not a pre-condition for the validity of marriage, however. The Qur’an says, “There is no
blame upon you if you divorce your wives before you have touched them or settled a bridal gift
1
Muhammad Akmaluddin al-Babarti, al-‘Ainayah sharh al-Hidayah (Beirut: Dar al-Fikr, n.d.), 3:316.
2
Muhammad Amin ibn. ‘Aabidin, Radd al-Muhtar ‘Ala al-Durr al-Mukhtar [of Haskafi] (Beirut: Dar al-Fikr, 3rd.
edn. 1992), 3:101.
3
He is Muhammad b. Muhammad al-Khjandi but is famous with the name Qawamuddin al-Kaki (d. 749 A.H.). He
is the author of Mi‘raj al-Dirayah fi sharh al-Hidayah, and Jami‘ al-Asrar fi sharh al-Manar. See, Muhammad
‘Abdul Hayy al-Laknawai, Al-Fawa’id al-Bahiyah fi Tarajim al-Hanafiyah, ed. Ahmad al-Zu‘bi (Beirut: Dar al-
Arqam, 1998), 186.
4
Mahmud b. Muhammad Badruddin al-‘Ayni, al-Binayah sharh al-Hidayah, ed., Ayman Salih Sha‘ban (Beirut: Dar
al-Kutub al-‘Ilmiyah, 2000), 5:131.
5
Qur’an, 4:4.
6
Qur’an, 4:24, 25, 5:25, 33:50, 60:10.
7
Qur’an, 2:236, 237, 4:24
8
Qur’an 4:25.
9
The word mahr is used in the hadith in which the Prophet is reported to have said, “So if he had sex with her, she
is entitled to mahr …”. Abud Dawud Suliman b. al-Asha‘th, Al-Sunnan, Kitab al-Nikah, Bab fi al-Wali, hadith no.
2085.
10
Hans Wehr, A Dictionary of Modern Written Arabic, ed., J. Milton Cowan (Beirut: Librairie Du Liban, 1974, rep.
1980), 509
11
Which is indemnity for illicit sexual intercourse with a woman slave. See, ibid., at 629.
12
Qur’an, 4:24.
13
Qur’an, 4:4.
upon them. But even in this case you should make some provision for them: the affluent, according
to his means; the straitened, according to his means – a provision in fair manner. That is a duty
upon the good-doers.”14 In other words, it is just like an implied condition which is read into a
contract although it may not be expressly mentioned in the same. Thus, a marriage contract would
not be valid if mahr would be a pre-condition for the validity of marriage. It is never a bride-price.
According to Kamal b. Humam (d. 861/1457), “Dower has been ordered to underline the prestige
of the marriage contract and to stress its importance … It has not been enjoined as a consideration
like a price or a wage, otherwise it would have been set as a prior condition”.15 Nasir argues that
dower “is neither an essential nor a condition for the validity or effectiveness of the marriage
contract, nor to make it binding, nor is it mentioned as being so in any modern Islamic
the husband and wife (khalvat al-Sahiha), or death of either one of them.17 However, the issue of
dower always surfaces on the dissolution of marriage in anyway as is seen in the cases under
consideration. Dower may be named in the marriage contract or through the mutual consent of the
parties in which case it is called mahr al-Musamma (specified dower) but a marriage is valid
without specifying it. The Qur’an says, “or settle a bridal gift upon them, then (give them) half of
what you have settled.”18 Since there is no sin on the husband who divorces his wife without fixing
her dower and since there cannot be divorce without a nikah (marriage contract), therefore,
marriage is valid even if dower is not fixed or mentioned.19 Mahr al-mithal is the dower fixed for
14
Qur’an, 2:236.
15
Kamaluddin b. Humam, Sharh Fathul Qadeer ‘Ala al-Hidayah, ed. ‘Abdur Razzaq al-Mahdi (Beirut: Dar al-
Kutub al-‘Ilmiyah, 2003), 3:305.
16
Jamal J. Nasir, The Status of Women Under Islamic Law and Modern Islamic Legislation, (Leiden: Brill, 2009),
87. Also available at <https://brill.com/view/book/9789004182196/BP000006.xml> (last accessed 28 April 2021).
17
‘Alauddin Abu Bakr al-Kasani, Bada’i’ al-Sana’i’ fi Tartib al-Shara’i‘, ed., Muhammad ‘Adnan Derveesh
(Beirut: Dar Ihya’ al-Turath al-‘Arabi, 2000), 2: 584.
18
Qur’an, 2:237.
19
Kasani, Bada’i’ 2:559.
the wife after taking into consideration women of her equal status at the time of marriage. It is
payable in situations when it is either not fixed or is unknown or the marriage contract mentions
that there shall be no dower or what is named cannot be dower under Islamic law or she was
married on the condition that he will serve her for a specified period of time. In all these cases the
mahr to be payable is called mahr al-mithal or standard dower. If the woman died before
consummation of marriage and her mahr is not fixed, the husband has to pay standard dower. If
the husband died before consummation and the dower is not fixed, his estate shall be liable to
standard dower. If she is divorced before consummation when the dower is not fixed, no dower
shall be paid as she will be entitled to a gift (which shall be up to half of the standard dower).20
The Hanafi jurists argue that standard dower should be fixed according to the dower of other
women in the family of the father of the woman. These women include her sisters, aunts, and her
cousins. However, if no woman is found in her father’s family, then the dower of a woman who is
from another family which is similar in status as her father’s family. 21 Wealth, beauty, age,
intellect, and spirituality are taken into consideration for determining standard dower.22 However,
the region, virginity, the specific era, education, and perfectness in behaviour may also be
assessed.23 Both woman should be from the same region and era and that the dower of a woman
related to her but living in a different region cannot be considered to determine mahr al-mithal
because mahr varies from region to region and time to time.24 Any property considered as valuable
in Islamic law can be given as dower whether movable or immovable. In addition, mahr al-
20
Ibid.
21
See, Muhammad Abu Zahrah, Al-Ahwal al-Shakhsiyah (Cairo: Dar al-Fikr al-‘Arabi 2005), 182.
22
Fakhruddin ‘Ali b. Uthman al-Zaila‘iy, Tabi’n al-Haqa’iq sharh Kanzul al-Daqa’iq (Cairo: al-matba‘a al-Kubra,
1313 A.H.), 2:154. Also see, Wahbah al-Zuhaili, Al-Fiqh al-Islami wa Adillatuhu (Damascus: Dar al-Fikr, 3rd edn.
1989), 7:266.
23
Al-Dhu Suliman al-Dhu, Ahkam al-Mahr fi al-Fiqh al-Islami unpublished Masters dissertation in Comparative
Fiqh submitted to the Faculty of Shari‘ah & Law at Al-Azhar University, Egypt, 1978, 86.
24
Shahbuddin al-Shalabi, Hashiyat al-Shalabi ‘ala Hamish Tab’iin al-Haqa’q li al-Zaila‘iy (Cairo: al-matba‘a al-
Amiriyah, 1313 A.H.), 2:154.
musamma may be entirely or partially prompt (mu‘jjal) or deferred (mu’jjal).25 Muslim jurists have
disagreed about the minimum quantity of dower. According to the Hanafi school, it should not be
less than 10 dirhams26 or its equivalent property because of the saying of the Prophet Muhammad
(peace be upon him) who is reported to have said, “Dower shall not be less than 10 Dirham.”27
The Ahnaf also state that the minimum dower shall not be less than the Nisab28 of theft which is
one Dinar or 10 Dirham.29 They consider the hadith which says, “Find even if it be a ring of steel”30
to be in the nature of the prompt portion of dower. They argue that some of the dower must be
paid before the consummation of marriage. To prove this point, they argue that the Prophet (peace
be upon him) stopped ‘Ali b. Abi Talib from consummation of marriage with Fatima (May Allah
be pleased with them both) till she was paid some of her dower. However, ‘Ali said that he has
nothing, on which the Prophet (peace be upon him) told him to give her his armour. ‘Ali gave her
his armour.31 The Ahnaf argue that in case the mahr fixed is less than 10 dirham or its equivalent,
the nikah is valid but the dower is invalid and should be raised to 10 or more for its validity.32
There are many decisions in which judges have tried to elaborate some complicated rules
about dower. Abdul Kadir v Salima, (1886) the Allahabad High Court described dower, under the
Muhammadan Law, as “a sum of money or other property promised by the husband to be paid or
25
See, Salah Muhammad Abul Haj, Al-Khra’it al-Zihniyah fi al-Ziwaj wa al-Talaq ‘Inda al-Hanafiyah (‘Amman:
Markaz Anwarul ‘Ulama lidirasat, 2020), 30.
26
Burhanuddin al-Marghinani, Al-Hidayah, transl. Imran A. K. Nyazee (Bristol: Amal Press, 2006), 1: 507. Kasani,
Bada’i’, 2: 561. Also see, Kasani, Bada’i‘, 2: 561. Dirham is a silver coin and is equal to 35 grams of silver or one
Dinar of gold of five grams. See, Abul Haj, Al-Khra’it, 30.
27
See, Abul Hasan ‘Ali al-Dar Qutni, Sunan al-Darqutni, Bab al-mahr, 3: 245.
28
Nisab is the minimum amount of property which if stolen would make the accused liable to the cutting of his hand
if proven guilty. In Pakistan the minimum nisab for theft as per section 6 of the Enforcement of Hudud Ordinance
VI of 1979 is 4.457 grams of gold.
29
Marghinani, Al-Hidayah, 1: 508.
30
Muhammad b. Isma‘il al-Bukhari, Al-Jami‘ al-Sahih, Kitab Faza’il al-Qur’an, hadith no. 5030.
31
Muhammad b. ‘Ali al-Shawkani, Nail al-Awtar sharh Muntaqa al-Akhbar (Cairo: Matba‘a Mustafa al-Babi al-
Halabi, n.d.), 6: 195.
32
Kasani, Bada’i‘, 2: 562.
delivered to the wife in consideration of the marriage …”.33 This approach has been criticized.
According to Justice Tanzil ur Rahman, of the Sindh High Court, dower “is that financial gain
which the wife is entitled to receive from her husband by virtue of the marriage contract itself
whether named or not in the contract of marriage, in which case proper dower (Mahr Mithl)
becomes due.34 The dower, therefore, is a right which comes into existence with the marriage
contract itself except that in case the dower is deferred its enforcement is held in abeyance till a
certain event, i.e. dissolution of marriage by death or divorce, occurs.”35 According to Justice
Khattak of the Peshawar High Court, “Under Mohammadan law dower is a mark of respect to the
wife. ”36
Mahr is classified into Mahr al-musamma (specified dower) and Mahr al-mithl (standard dower).
The first is an amount specified or fixed at the time of the marriage contract and the second comes
into force automatically, should no amount be fixed or should the specification be invalid. Another
classification of dower is based on the time of its payment for which it may either be prompt
(mu‘ajjal) or deferred (mu’jjal). Prompt is the portion which may be payable immediately whereas
deferred generally becomes due upon divorce or the death of the husband (to be explained later)
Mahr is confirmed either through consummation of marriage which means that the husband
and wife either has a sexual intercourse or had valid retirement (khalvat sahiha). Valid privacy is
when the two meet in a place where there is no sensory, legal, or natural impediment preventing
them from having sexual intercourse. Mahr is also confirmed through the death of either husband
33
Abdul Qadir v Salima (1886) ILR 8 All 149, para. 12.
34
The Court has thus alluded to the two types of dower, i.e. prompt (mu‘jjal) and deferred (mu‘jjal).
35
Anwarul Hassan Siddiqui v Family Judge, PLD 1980 Kar. 477, at 483.
36
Zarin Qaisha v Arbab Wali Mohd, PLD 1976 Pesh. 128, para. 4.
or wife or through divorce of the wife by the husband. A woman is entitled to half of mahr, if
divorced before consummation and mahr is fixed. It is recognition of her legal status as a wife. If
divorced before consummation when the dower is not fixed, then she is entitled to a gift called
‘mut‘a’ which shall not exceed half of mahr al-mithl. The iddat (waiting period) of a woman whose
marriage is terminated. If the marriage is dissolved through the death of her husband or divorce
after valid/invalid privacy, then wife should undergo the iddat period (a decision based on
istihsan). Every privacy is treated as a valid privacy with respect to the child’s paternity. The
interest of the child, and the financial rights of the woman, make the observation of iddat
imperative. The effects of valid privacy are that valid privacy only implies presumption of
intercourse and makes the obligation of full mahr binding on the husband. Moreover, it confirms
mahr; establishes descent of the child if any; makes the observation of iddat mandatory; gives the
wife the right to maintenance as well as residence during the iddat period; and prohibits marriage
of the husband with the wife’s sister or with any other woman if he had divorced his fourth wife.
If a woman is divorced after a valid privacy (but not actual intercourse), such a divorce is
considered as irrevocable. They can remarry only after an intervening marriage or Halala which
must be consummated and then over (but not planned!). Paid/unpaid dower has some
repercussions: until the mu‘jjal (prompt) dower is received by the wife, she may refuse to
accompany her husband on any journeys. Similarly, she can refuse herself (to her husband)
(according to Abu Hanifah, but not according to Abu Yusuf and Shaybani. The husband cannot
legally prevent her from travelling, or going anywhere. In Shah Daraz Khan v Mst. Naila37 dower
was fixed as 30 tolas38 gold jewelry, ten of which was prompt and 20 was deferred but only six
37
2015 MILD 73 [Pesh.]. Also available online at <https://cite.pakcaselaw.com/mld-peshawar-high-court/2015/73/>
(last accessed 28 April 2021).
38
One tola equals 11.663 grams.
tolas was delivered by the husband but was taken back and never returned to the wife and thus,
the entire amount of dower was outstanding. The marriage was dissolved by the trial Court due to
the brutality and ill-treatment by the husband. The wife claimed her entire amount of dower of 30
tolas which was contested by the husband who pleaded that the dower was only six tolas which
has already been paid. The Family Court decreed her suit to the extent of 24 tolas of gold as dower.
Both parties appealed to the first Appellate Court which partially allowed the appeal to the extent
of dower. The ex-husband assailed both the judgments of the lower courts below. The husband
alleged that his signature on the Nikahnama or marriage contract is fake, however, an expert
proved it to be his signature. The High Court accepted his claim that he has paid six tolas of gold
jewelry to his wife and held that 24 tolas are still outstanding to the husband. In Ghazala Sadia v
Muhammad Sajjad,39 rupees 1,000 was fixed as prompt and 50,000 was fixed as deferred dower.
The wife alleged cruelty and although she had been delegated the right to divorce herself but she
did not exercise it and, instead obtained separation through khul‘ from the Family Court which
ordered her to return the prompt dower. However, the husband was ordered to pay her the deferred
amount of 50,000. The District Court dismissed husband’s appeal. On a writ petition to the Lahore
High Court it was held that the words of section 10(4) of the Family Courts Act, 1964, which says,
“[T]he Family Court in a suit for dissolution of marriage, if reconciliation fails, shall pass decree
for the dissolution of marriage forthwith and shall restore the husband the Haq Mehr received by
the wife in consideration of marriage at the time of marriage”40, that the proviso “only talks of the
restoration of Haq-ul-Mehr [dower] already received and its restoration [and that] withholding or
relinquishment of deferred dower cannot be added to this proviso which the Legislature never
intended. Had that been [the] intention of the Legislature, after the word received, the words, or
39
2012 YLR 2841 Lahore.
40
Section 10(4) of the Family Courts Act, 1964.
agreed to be received should have followed.”41 The Court also observed that the husband has been
cruel to the wife and that he has been the cause of discord between the two. The Court cited Babar
Ismail v Mst. Sheeba Bashir,42 a decision of the Sindh High Court and Mst. Shaista v Sh. Liaquat
Ali Sathi43, a decision of the Lahore High Court, where it has been held that the prompt dower if
already paid to the wife was to be restored and if it is not yet paid by the husband, it was not to be
paid to the wife.44 However, the last sentence is contradictory to the ruling of the Court in the
instant case. The Court also endorsed Muhammad Kaleem Asif v A. D. J.45 in which it was held
that the wife is not liable to restore dower or other benefits received by her in case of dissolution
of marriage through khul‘, if she claims that the husband was the cause of discord.46 The Court
concluded that, “[A]s the right of Khula [khul‘] has accrued to a wife for redressal of her grievance
against her husband, the return of whole amount of dower becomes unnecessary and returnable
amount may be reduced, in a case when the dissolution of marriage on the basis of Khula [khul‘]
is claimed also due to fault or wrong on the part of the husband.”47 The Court also relied on Khalid
Mehmood v Anees Bibi.48 However, a wife may claim any wrongdoing against her husband but a
mere claim or accusation is not sufficient to give such a ruling. The accusation or claim must be
proven. The main issue often ignored in khul‘ cases is that all allegations of cruelty and non-
maintenance etc., are not investigated by the Court as it takes much more time as evidence has to
be recorded and rebutted and witnesses will be examined and cross-examined in a full dress trial
whereas in case of proceedings for khul‘, the case may be decided in one or two hearings without
41
2012 YLR 2841 Lahore, para. 9.
42
2006 CLC 1662.
43
PLD 2006 Lahore 158.
44
Ibid., para. 8.
45
PLD 2009 Lahore 484.
46
Ibid.
47
2012 YLR 2841 Lahore, para. 9.
48
PLD 2007 Lahore 626.
any trial. This shortcut suits the counsels, Family Courts, as well as the husbands but the wives
have to return the dower if already received. However, if cruelty is proven the marriage has to be
dissolved under the Dissolution of Muslim Marriages Act, 1939 (DMMA) and not under khul‘.
Dissolution of marriage under the DMMA means that the wife will not be returning her dower if
paid. Thus, our Courts decide cases instantly but deprive the woman of her dower.49
Dower signifies the willingness of the man to undertake the responsibilities of marriage. The
woman has the option of asking for the full amount of the dower or designated property in advance,
or of deferring part of it to become due at a specified later time, or upon such event as death or
divorce.50 In the case of death, sadaq/mahr becomes a senior debt of the deceased husband’s estate
to be satisfied ahead of all other debts.51 Thus, in case the estate of the husband is overburdened
by huge debt, the mahr becomes more important than the widow’s share in inheritance. Sadaq
becomes the most important and defined money or property for a woman in case of divorce or
death of her husband. It is true that some rich women set for a symbolic mahr, the vast majority of
women view it as a financial guarantee and security net in the event of death of their husbands or
divorce. Some women may prefer to take the full amount at the outset to invest it as they prefer in
any venture of their liking. They may give it to charity or start some business with it. In practice
the reality of paying dower is different from what is in the textbooks. In our culture and the custom
49
For details of the various aspects of khul‘ in Islamic law and Pakistani legal system, see, Muhammad Munir, “The
Law of Khul‘ in Islamic Law and the Legal System of Pakistan‘LUMS Law Journal, 2, no. 2 (2015): 33-63; and
Muhammad Munir, “Challenging State Authority or Running a Parallel Judicial System?: ‘Ulama versus the
Judiciary in Pakistan”, LUMS Law Journal, 4, no. 1 (2017): 1-28; Muhammad Munir, “ISLAMI SHARIAT AWR
PAKISTANI QANUN MEI KHUL‘ KI HAYSIYATT: RASOOL AKRAM SALALLAHU ‘ALIYHI WASSALM KI SUNNAT YA ‘ADALATI
IJTIHAD? (KHUL’ BETWEEN ISLAMIC AND PAKISTANI LAW: SUNNAH OF THE PROPHET (PBUH) OR JUDICIAL IJTIHAD?),
Shariah Academy, International Islamic University, Islamabad, 2017; and Muhammad Munir, “One Step Forward,
Two Steps Back: The Unending Twist and Turn Regarding the Law of Khul‘ and its Exposition by the Superior
Courts in Pakistan”, Manchester Journal of Transnational Islamic Law & Practice, 17, no. 1 (2021): 133-149.
50. Ibid., 174.
51. Ibid., and ‘Abd al-Karim Zaidan, Al-Mufassal fi Ahkam al-Mar’ah wa al-Bayt al-Muslim (Beirut: Mu’assasat al-
Risalah 1994),7:90.
of our land fathers negotiate the amount or type of mahr on behalf of their daughters who
themselves have no say as such in the negotiation because of the trust in their fathers. In other
cultures where a substantial mahr may be taken by the father to appropriate it from his daughter
for covering wedding expenses or for buying dowery items which is customarily the responsibility
of the father. In other cultures, the husband may “borrow” the dower amount or property from his
wife after marriage and use it as he wishes. In addition, in some cultures the wife is pressurized to
waive the deferred part of her mahr altogether as a gesture of good will towards the husband. There
are many cases in Pakistan about the points explained above. Although a woman is free to decide
about her own dower, however, she will become highly vulnerable financially and will lose a good
Any object that is ‘mal’ (property) under Islamic law. Things must be in existence at the time
of the contract. Specifications such as the future produce of certain trees or lands. Thus, future
uncertain goods/produce cannot be dower. In such a case she will be entitled to mahr al-mithal or
standard dower. Future or uncertain produce are not valid for legal transactions because they don’t
exist independently. If a woman is married on the condition that the man will not marry another
woman (during the existence of their marriage), the specification is not valid for there is no
property, but the marriage is valid. Anything ritually impure, i.e. carrion, wine, pork, the
specification is not valid but the marriage is valid and she is entitled to mahr al-mithl. She is
entitled to mahr al-mithl even if she agrees to a mahr that carries no legal value.
There are many legal effects depending on whether the dower is prompt fully or partially and when
the prompt part is not paid for a specific period of time agreed by the husband and the wife. In
case the dower is prompt and is not paid, the woman can refuse herself to the husband even if she
has shifted to his house. In addition, the husband cannot legally prevent her from travelling, or
going out of the house or from visiting her family. A husband cannot get back if he has given her
part of the prompt dower because this was her legal right. It is the same if the dower was fixed but
it was not mentioned whether the dower is prompt or deferred because dower is like a financial
transaction in which both parties have the same rights.52 She cannot refuse herself to the husband
if the time for payment of dower was fixed but it was not paid according to Abu Hanifah (d.
150/767) and Muhammad b. Hassan al-Shaybani (d. 189/805) but Abu Yusuf (181/798) opines
that she has the discretion to prevent herself.53 If the payment of the prompt dower was delayed
for a month, she cannot refuse herself from her husband according to Abu Hanifah and Shaybani
because they consider it deferment due to an emergency but Abu Yusuf argues that she can refuse
herself. However, in such a case if she did not refuse herself willingly from consummation or
seclusion (khalvat al-Sahiha), she can still refuse herself till she receives her dower. Similarly, he
cannot prevent her from travelling according to Abu Hanifah but according to Abu Yusuf and
Shaybani, she cannot refuse herself whether the marriage is consummated or they had met in
seclusion.54 In our part of the world in most cases half of the dower is prompt and half is deferred
as is shown in many cases discussed below. In an earlier case of the subcontinent, the opinions of
Abu Yusuf and Shaybani were preferred. Judicial opinions are split over this issue, that is, whether
a wife can refuse herself to her husband if the prompt dower is not paid. In Abdul Kadir v Salima
(1886) the Allahabad High Court declared that a Muslim wife whose prompt dower had not been
paid had no right to refuse herself to her husband if the marriage had earlier been consummated
with her consent. This was re-confirmed in Anis Begam v Muhammad Istafa Wali Khan (1933)55
52
Kasani, Bada’i’, 2:580.
53
Ibid.
54
Ibid., 2:251.
55
AIR 1933 All 634.
and in Rabia Khatoon v Mohd Mukhtar Ahmad (1966) by the same High Court.
As far Pakistan and Bangladesh an early case is Rahim Jan v Muhamamd56 of the Lahore High
Court in which it was held: “I do not find any principle of justice or reason by which the right of
the wife to refuse the performance of marital obligations on account of non-payment of prompt
dower may come to an end by her once surrendering herself”.57 In other words, Kaikaus J, adopted
the view of Abu Hanifah. In Nur-ud-Din Ahmad v Masuda Khanam,58 the then Dacca High Court
held that, “The wife is under the Muhammadan Law entitled to refuse herself to her husband until
and unless the prompt dower is paid to her”. The same principle was confirmed in Chanani Begum
v Muhamamd Shafiq.59 In Muhamamdi v Jamil-ud-Din, the Sindh High Court held that, “Another
ground on which she can refuse to go to her husband’s house is the non-payment of the prompt
dower.”60 The same High Court confirmed it in Muhammad Ishaque v Rukhsana Begum.61 In Tahir
Ayub Khan v Mrs. Alia Anwer62 the Sindh High Court ruled that “if the prompt dower is not paid
on demand, the wife can refuse to perform conjugal obligations to her husband.”63
Under Islamic law only half of the dower is payable in case of dissolution of marriage before
consummation in case it is specified. However, in case it is not named and the marriage is
dissolved, only mut‘ah is to be paid. Allah says, “There is no blame upon you if you divorce your
wives before you have touched them or settled a bridal gift upon them. But even in this case you
should make some provision for them: the affluent, according to his means; the straitened,
according to his means – a provision in fair manner. That is a duty upon the good-doers. And if
56
PLD 1955 Lah, 122.
57
Ibid., also available at <https://pakistanlaw.pk/case_judgements/176665/mst-rahim-jan-versus-muhammad> (last
visited June 2, 2022).
58
PLD 1957 Dacca 242.
59
1985, MLD, 310.
60
PLD 1960 (W.P.) Kar. 663.
61
PLD 1988 Kar. 625.
62
2017 M L D 412.
63
Ibid. para. 5. Per Muhammad Iqbal Kalhoro, J.
you divorce them before you touch them or settle a bridal gift upon them, then (give them) half of
what you have settled unless either the women act leniently and forgo their claim, or he in whose
hand is the marriage tie acts leniently (and pays the full amount). If you act leniently, it is closer
to God-fearing. And forget not to act gracefully with one another, for indeed Allah sees all that
you do.”64 Marginani (d. 593/1197) argues that “mut‘ah is three dresses (that is three parts of a
dress) according to the apparel of a woman of her status. These are the shirt, head covering, and
the lion cloth.”65 The amount of dower given in case the wife is divorced before consummation
was one of the issues in Muhammad Akbar v Shazia Bibi.66 In this case marriage was solemnized
in 2004 and 99 Kanal of land was mutated in favour of wife in 2004 as dower. Marriage never
took place and the wife was divorced. The husband alleged in his suit that the land was fraudulently
transferred to the wife. The Family Court decreed husband’s suit but the respondent’s appeal was
accepted by the first Appellate Court. The Lahore High Court dismissed the husband’s appeal and
upheld the decision of the first Appellate Court. The husband appealed to the Hon’ble Supreme
Court on the ground that the marriage was never consummated. The Supreme Court ruled that she
is entitled to half of the dower because the marriage was not consummated. A related question to
ask is that whether dower could be enhanced subsequently and, if yes, what is its legal effect. In
Abdullah v Naila Aslam67 a subsequent agreement to enhance dower from rupees 500 to 100,000
was considered valid and binding on the husband. In Naziran Begum v Khurshid Begum68 it was
held that a husband can increase the amount of dower fixed at the time of marriage. In Malik Amir
Akbar v Mian Murid Husain69 it was held that a wife may settle on a lower amount of dower if the
64
Qur’an, 2:236, 237.
65
Burhanuddin al-Marghinani, Al-Hidayah, transl. Imran A. K. Nyazee (Bristol: Amal Press, 2006), 1:509.
66
PLD 2014 SC 693.
67
NLR 2007 362.
68
1999 SCMR 1171.
69
2008 SCMR 505.
husband is unable to pay.
One of the most contested legal issues regarding dower in Pakistan is when does deferred dower
become prompt? In Muhammad Azam v A.D.J.,70 the main issue before the Lahore High Court was
as per the husband’s point of view his wife was entitled to dower only on her death or divorce. The
LHC ruled that the wife was entitled to receive her deferred dower upon demand when her husband
remarried. In Sadia Usman v M. Usman71, Sadia’s dower was fixed at PKR one million, half of it
was prompt and was given as gold ornaments and the other half was deferred. Dispute arose when
the husband moved abroad and did not maintain his wife. Sadia filed suit for recovery of deferred
dower and maintenance. Husband filed suit for restitution of conjugal rights. The Family Court
decreed her suit for recovery of 500,000 and some money for maintenance. Both parties appealed
to the first Appellate Court, however, the Court did not deal with recovery of dower and increased
the amount of maintenance. Both parties came to the Islamabad High Court in a writ petition. The
IHC decided that the deferred dower cannot be paid during the subsistence of marriage unless it
was agreed between the parties or death of either party or divorce. The wife appealed to the
Hon’ble Supreme Court. The Court endorsed the decision of the IHC. The Hon’ble Supreme Court
relied on Kitab al-Fiqh ‘ala Mazahib al-Arb‘ah by Al-Jaziri and stated that “the deferred dower is
payable at the time stipulated between the parties, but where no time is stipulated, it is payable on
dissolution of marriage either by death or divorce. But the deferred dower does not become
"prompt" merely because the wife has demanded it.” It is appropriate to mention what exactly is
said in the original book of Jaziri. While discussing the opinion within the Hanafi school of
thought, Jaziri stated that “[A]nd when dower is specified for her: half of it prompt and half
70
PLJ 2006 Lah. 927.
71
2009 SCMR 1458.
deferred and the time for the deferred is not mentioned, as if he said to her: ‘I marry you on 100,
50 prompt and 50 deferred and the time for the deferred [portion] is not specified, so, there is
difference of opinion. Some [jurists] argued, that the deferment is void and the entire dower shall
be paid instantly; others say that the deferment is legal and it takes place at the time of separation
either by death or divorce, and this is the correct view.” The above opinion seems to be available
The only addition in both is “as is the custom in our land” which is found in both Bada‘i’ and
Fatawa. Since this opinion has become a binding precedent being the decision of the Supreme
Court, it can only be overruled either by a larger Bench of the Supreme Court or by an amendment
in law which would provide the quickest remedy for battered women for payment of their deferred
dowers on demand. However, there are conflicting decisions from the High Courts on the same
issue. In Muhammad Sajjad v A.D.J.74 the main issue before the LHC was that the wife had sought
recovery of dower, maintenance, and dowery. The Family Court decreed her suit and the first
Appellate Court upheld the same. The husband brought writ petition before the LHC. He assailed
the decree on the ground that during the subsistence of his marriage he is not supposed to pay the
deferred dower. The Court ruled that the view that deferred dower could only be paid on death or
divorce is not supported ‘by any recognized principle’. That “deferred dower shall always be
treated as prompt if no specified period for the payment of dower is fixed”75 and that “the
classification of dower as prompt and deferred has no legal sanction behind it…”76. Justice Bhatti,
72
‘Alauddin Abu Bakr al-Kasani, Bada’i’ al-Sana’i’ fi Tartib al-Shara’i‘, ed., Muhammad ‘Adnan Derveesh
(Beirut: Dar Ihya’ al-Turath al-‘Arabi, 2000), 2: 580.
73
Fatawa ‘Alamgiriya, (Quetta: Maktaba Rashidiya, n.d.), 1:318.
74
PLD 2015 Lah 405.
75
Ibid., para. 16.
76
Ibid., para. 19. The same sentence seems to be taken from another judgment of the Lahore High Court reported as
2000 CLC 1384, para. 9.
however, did not refer to Sadia Usman’s case. Similarly in Tahir Hanif v Saira Kosar77, the wife
filed two suits for recovery of deferred dower and maintenance. In this case the dower was
demanded at the time of Rukhsati (wedding) and the husband promised to pay it after one year of
the marriage. Counsel for the husband relied on Sadia Usman’s case but Justice Sardar Abdul
Hameed Khan of Shariat Court of Azad Jammu & Kashmir (AJ&K) referred to an earlier decision
of the LHC, Dr Subaira Sultana case78 and held that if the time for the payment of deferred dower
is not fixed “it will be payable on the eve of dissolution of marriage by death or divorce”.79 Justice
Khan argued that the classification of prompt and deferred dower is practiced in society. It is
incorporated for the convenience of the parties and does not have any legal sanction behind it. He
asserted that deferred dower does not mean that it is waived or postponed until dissolution of
marriage. The Court did not interfere in the judgment and decrees passed by the trial Court. A very
good case on the distinctions and consequences of the classification of dower into prompt and
deferred is Dr. Sabira Sultana v Maqsood Sulari, A.D.J.80 in which Justice Abbasi of the Lahore
High Court stated that “[T]he classification of dower as prompt and deferred has no legal sanction
behind it except the general practice in the Muslim Society for the convenience of the parties.
Normally, women do not demand payment of full dower which is fixed at the time of marriage
and only a portion of the dower is paid before consummation of marriage and the remaining dower
is deferred to be paid later which does not mean that either it was waived or was treated as deferred
till dissolution of marriage.”81 He also ruled that “[T]he concept and wisdom in this classification
of dower as prompt and deferred depend upon the better relations of parties and protection of right
77
2016 YLR 440.
78
2000 CLC1384.
79
2016 YLR 440, para. 17.
80
Dr. Sabira Sultana v Maqsood Sulari, Additional District & Sessions Judge, Rawalpindi, 2000 CLC1384.
81
Ibid., para. 10.
of a woman in unforeseen circumstances without taking away her right of demand of payment of
dower till the marriage is not dissolved.”82 The Court ruled that “[A] person is not supposed to
contract a second marriage without maintaining the first wife and payment of dower and thus, in
case of contract of second marriage without payment of dower to the first wife, the law does not
permit withholding the payment of dower till the dissolution of marriage. The deferred dower is a
sort of guarantee for a woman against ill-treatment, non-maintenance, desertion or any other
abnormality in the family life including rash and arbitrary divorce whereas the prompt dower is
payable either at the time of marriage or at any subsequent time when it is demanded by the wife.”83
The Court held that “the payment of deferred dower is deemed to be postponed till either the
specified time and if no time is specified, till the wife demands it.”84 The LHC reversed the
decision of the Additional District Judge or the first Appellate Court in the instant case which had
dismissed the suit of the petitioner for the recovery of dower and restored the judgment and decree
passed by the Family Court and order its execution accordingly. After analysing various cases
regarding the time of payment of deferred dower, it seems that Courts in Pakistan have developed
elaborate principles of Islamic law mainly derived from the Hanafi school of thought, and with
In Pakistan another reason which makes deferred dower as prompt and payable immediately
is when a husband marries without the permission of the first/existing wife or wives as per section
6(5)(a) of the Muslim Family Law Ordinance, 1961. The section says that “Any man who contracts
a marriage without the permission of the Arbitration Council shall:- (a) Pay immediately the entire
amount of dower whether prompt or deferred, due to the existing wife or wives, if not so paid,
82
Ibid.
83
Ibid.
84
Ibid.
shall be recoverable as arrears of land revenue.”85 In Muhammad Jamil v Mst. Sajida Bibi,86 where
among other issues the husband had married without the permission of his first wife as well as the
Arbitration Council, the Supreme Court applied this section and held that “[I]t is abundantly clear
that the entire amount of dower fixed at the of marriage whether prompt or deferred is immediately
payable on account of the second marriage.”87 That the petitioner No. 1 [that is, the husband] by
entering into second marriage without seeking prior permission either from the existing wife, i.e.
respondent No. 1 or the Arbitration Council, the dower even if it is termed as deferred or prompt
has become payable without any delay.”88 The Supreme Court refused to interfere in the judgment
of the Peshawar High Court which had ordered the immediate payment of the dower amount of
five tolas of gold. In Gul Hassan v Mst. Nasreen Akhtar89 the respondent (wife) demanded her
outstanding dower from her husband who insisted that she should forgo it and ask, instead for
khul‘ which the responded refused. The counsel for the husband (petitioner) contention that she is
not entitled to the dissolution of marriage due to hate and aversion on her part of the wife, did not
persuade the Divisional Bench of Peshawar High Court which ruled that the aversion in question
was the result of the cruelty, maltreatment; non-payment of dower; and non-maintenance by the
husband and that she is entitled to her dower as well as maintenance. The Court ruled that
“[M]arriage shall be dissolved on the basis of Khulla, [khul‘] when the wife is determined not to
live with her husband because of her hatred for him and without any fault on the part of the
husband.”90 The Court held that “[D]ue to the conduct and cruel attitude of the petitioner, it will
not be possible for the respondent to live with him within the limits prescribed by Almighty Allah
85
Section 6(5)(a) of the Muslim Family Law Ordinance, 1961 also available at
<http://punjablaws.gov.pk/laws/777a.html> (last visited June 2, 2022).
86
Civil Petition No. 4690 of 2018 (unreported).
87
Ibid., para. 4.
88
Ibid.
89
2014 Y L R 1743.
90
Ibid., para. 12.
and thus she could not be deprived of her dower debt and other rights.”91 The Court dismissed both
Another related issue to dower is the subsequent enhancement of dower. This was the issue
in Abdullah v Naila Aslam92 in which a subsequent agreement to enhance dower from rupees 500
to 100,000 was considered valid and binding on the husband. Similarly, it was ruled by the
Supreme Court in Naziran Begum v Khurshid Begum93 that a husband can increase the amount of
dower fixed at the time of marriage. Similarly, in Malik Amir Akbar v Mian Murid Husain94 it was
held that a wife may settle on a lower amount of dower if the husband is unable to pay. Finally,
dower is secured for the woman as a debt upon her marriage and is not a gift.
Conclusion
Dower is a sum of money or property which becomes payable by the husband to the wife as an
effect of marriage. Dower is classified as far the time of its payment is concerned into prompt and
deferred. Since a marriage is valid even if the dower is not mentioned, therefore, it is also classified
into specified dower and standard dower. In the vast majority of cases in Pakistan part of the dower
is prompt and another part is deferred. The deferred dower becomes due on the time specified for
its payment or death or divorce or, in the case of Pakistan if the husband marries another wife
without the permission of the first wife or existing wife or wives. The Supreme Court has ruled in
Sadia Usman case95 that deferred dower does not become due when demanded by the wife and
that it will be paid either on dissolution of marriage by death or divorce. However, in other cases
the Courts have ignored this decision and have ruled that the prompt part becomes due on demand
91
Ibid.
92
NLR 2007 362.
93
1999 SCMR 1171.
94
2008 SCMR 505.
95
2009 SCMR 1458.
by the wife. It seems that Courts have developed elaborate principles of Islamic law mainly derived
from the Hanafi school of thought, and with few exceptions, have followed these principles
consistently.