The Path of The Leader David Fischman
The Path of The Leader David Fischman
Summary
The leader's path is the path of change. Mental frameworks are modified.
based on attachment, excuses, fears, etc... for new paradigms of
thinking towards higher and elevated purposes. It is not an easy path, it requires work and
dedication also requires working on one's emotions and self-esteem. Only by achieving
to tame oneself is to be able to tame others, not in a sense of domination but
if in a sense of being a guide that directs in terms of action. Leaders learn to
to learn and use communication effectively. They learn the importance of
empowerment and they work with teams of people, not with isolated groups. They are
people who tolerate frustration because they know that behind the appearance of a
obstacle there is an opportunity to change. On this path many times they set aside their
own needs for the common good, because this will be rewarded over time
with interest.
Self-esteem:
There are many managers with low self-esteem who try to elevate it at the expense of
to feel competent, believing that others are incompetent, and they do this
They end up realizing their incompetence.
To be a leader, it is necessary to have self-esteem; if it is nonexistent, leadership does not exist.
benefit, causes severe harm to others.
The author also argues that we are creators of prophecies (self-fulfilling prophecies).
When something is believed to happen, behaviors cause it to happen, everything
it has a direct dependence on what is thought in advance since they create the
conditions for it. One must avoid having bad beliefs, at this point the author
It acknowledges the importance of thoughts to transform a reality, these can
to be directed towards good or evil.
It is necessary to be aware of our mistakes and flaws even though in many cases
it is impossible to realize this and those who notice it are others. Therefore, it is necessary to
create an atmosphere of trust, so that others can give feedback on what they see and what
what is hidden from the person.
Vision.
Normally, one feels passion for something they enjoy doing, therefore there will be
convergence of passion and action in these activities to achieve that in the company, the
It is ideal to spread the company's vision to its employees. It must be done.
that work excites employees; every company has a vision, if the
workers feel that this vision aligns with them, the results can be
surprising.
Patience is necessary to have perseverance; one must work hard on something.
thing. But to really see the results, one must wait, otherwise bad outcomes may occur.
results.
It's not enough to just wait for results; one must follow up and continue.
working to achieve it.
There are many people who try to achieve their goals at all costs regardless of what happens before.
sacrifice your family, your life, etc; one must have detachment, because it is not worth achieving
great results at the cost of losing other things. Many times it is necessary to sacrifice it
Everything to achieve something, exceeding oneself can bring serious consequences, knowing everything that
it is not necessary, it is vital. The point of detachment is very important, it suggests living in the
present "here and now", not clinging completely to anything because if the expectations
if they are not as expected, it generates suffering. By having this way of seeing life,
people do not become rigid or obsessed with an outcome, but instead learn from
process knowing that by doing it well without exclusively thinking about the result, the rest
it will come as an addition.
Creativity
A leader changes the established order and innovates; this requires creativity and breaking
personal habits, routine, self-questioning to identify the mistakes to correct.
Changing habits is very difficult, laborious, and sacrificial, but it is another of the foundations of
leadership and to break the frameworks that are the first milestone of innovation.
It is necessary to take risks to be innovative, as well as to reverse the established.
Taking risks is relatively good, it allows us to develop. Taking risks with change,
to change, one, one risks oneself first, the change may be favorable or adverse, in the
the first case will be the milestone for personal development, to conceive things exactly as
reverse of how they are. This type of thinking that the author refers to as inverse is the own
from the visionaries, everything is analyzed from another angle and that is what empowers greatness
changes.
Balance.
The previous calm is possible to achieve through meditation, through which it is
it is possible to achieve calm and peace, it is incredible what can be achieved with elimination
of thought.
Learning to meditate is a challenge that anyone can take on; achieving inner peace will prevent
the stress produced by work. In the East, they call it meditation and in the West
silencing. Essentially, it is about opening that space in the mind that is occupied by thoughts.
negatives and run them to clear the mind, it's a kind of 'mental hygiene', where you
they re-signify negative thoughts through new ideas and much more concepts
high.
Worry is harmful and in many cases unnecessary, it is not worth worrying.
for something without a solution, just as it is not necessary to worry about something that is solvable.
Having a problem is something terrible, not because of the problem itself, but because of the worry.
which brings about, causes a loss of concentration to do other things efficiently because of it
so much has to be broken. Worry often hinders the mental health of the
people because it paralyzes, and what opens contexts is to mobilize. The author argues that the
The mind is like a radio, we can tune a radio to melodies of classical music.
or we can tune it to a station with interference, there it only depends on us
tune into what brings us closer to well-being.
Learning.
Leadership cannot be learned with a simple instruction on how to be one, but with the
example, with the change of habits, and the true instructor will be the manager.
Leadership is something very complex and encompasses a lot of personality to be
taught, it can be achieved if one desires to do so and is willing to change, starting
due to bad habits and having someone who sets the example.
One must 'learn to learn' in training; otherwise, time is wasted.
They wish to learn; for this, the company must encourage those trained to learn.
how through the application of new knowledge. A large amount of
professionals are incompetent and mediocre because they believe that with what they learned
being students is already enough for them and they are not interested in achieving more and new knowledge,
Breaking that paradigm is vital.
Habits allow activities to be performed with relative ease because they are already known.
but it avoids change and improves, to change them. Making something positive a habit benefits
a lot to anyone, especially if the one they are going to replace is negative, to do it
it means effort and sacrifice but it is very necessary. You cannot listen to others if
before, a service attitude is not taken and the ego and the need to prove oneself are left behind
is competent because one must listen to others with empathy. Many people with
problems, they want to be heard, that's why "ACTIVE LISTENING" is a tool
that greatly eases the leader's path.
Effective communication.
There are two styles of reaction in people, the aggressive and the passive; the former causes harm.
many directly to people, the second is more harmful, manipulates and generates
an air of distrust, this is solvable with mutual respect.
Speaking badly about others behind their backs harms not only them but the whole
organization. Leaders must lead by example, thinking carefully before speaking.
Words have a lot of power, they can build or destroy with them. For this reason in
The company must be aware of the incidence of these, and a good leader must have assertiveness.
to express your criticisms or ideas about something.
Talking About the Fear of Speaking, the body automatically creates the fear of expressing itself.
in public for this there are several solutions (relaxation techniques, training in
social skills, etc...) the most important thing is to understand that often that fear does not
it is grounded in reality. If a person prepares and practices perseveringly, they do not
it should have more errors. But it is undoubtedly a work more about perception and
the impact it has on a person to make a fool of themselves and/or how important it is for a
group of people confirm you or not.
Give power.
Give more power to subordinates while bringing out their positive side, giving them
autonomy to use resources and preventing managers from doing the work of
subordinates. This is promote the self-management
y the pro activity.
Delegating authority to subordinates allows the company to become more agile, enables the
subordinates make decisions for themselves and thus avoid wasting time, money and
human material.
Before granting power, the person receiving it must be trained, giving it to them gradually.
avoid giving it when it is not ready yet.
Rental cars are not washed: When the authorship of an idea belongs to someone else, others
they deny to intervene in their development, for this their responsibility on the subject must
increase to have a high degree of autonomy, that is, to take people who lead
likewise.
Teamwork.
The group is characterized by individualism and the commitment to the company encompasses only its
departments, while the team is more dynamic has commitments to the whole
company, greater results and benefits are achieved. The team allows every worker
interrelatedly without individualism and with the conception of serving others, they know
that the organization depends on it. Improving meetings: Meetings many
Sometimes they are unproductive and even costly, to avoid this the meeting must be justified.
(having a reason); being planned (agendas) Make the most of time during
same.
Service.
The leader stops being the center and thinks about the needs for growth and development of
its people, lets go of selfishness, listens to its subordinates, and puts itself at their service.
Another characteristic of leadership is its selfless service orientation,
understanding people, etc. It is advisable to practice leadership without ego. The ego
it is detrimental to the organization, preventing the emergence of competence in its personnel.
excessive ego deceives people into thinking they are something more than simple.
chimera, in addition to overshadowing true personal feelings.
True evolution goes beyond technological advancements; it is the level of consciousness.
to be human, to serve and renounce personal gain. It is to be a person who evolves,
knowing that there is a mission to serve and a purpose that gives meaning to life
orient it the same.