BUS356 - Lesson 4
BUS356 - Lesson 4
BUS356 Business
Negotiation
Seminar 4: The Role of Perception,
Cognition, Emotion, and
Communication in Negotiation
ADMIN. NOTE: SUSS Policy –
Use of Generative AI Tools
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We should be Smart & “LAZY.”
Lazy as in always seeking BETTER WAYS TO IMPROVE.
to IMPROVE.
L: Planning and Strategising. Step 10: Present the issues to the other side: substance and
process. How to be more persuasive. When and How to communicate the offer?
Any chance to anchor and frame to fit into listeners’ needs? Raise understanding and trust.
Application. I once sat in on Friend A’s insurance talk because he was new to the job and needed to
clock in a certain number of clients monthly. I am a visual learner, hence, graphs and diagrams
would help me to understand better. However, he did not know that and began telling me
numbers, percentages and statistical values. I was confused and did not understand as much.
However, Friend B, more patient and less aggressive with numbers, began charting up graphs
and using pie charts and diagrams (a good drawer as well), which helped me understand the
product. Therefore, I would be more willing to buy from Friend B than from Friend A.
WHY DO THEY POST?
Application.
If I am selling / negotiating a sale of a chair to an elderly couple, what matters to them is how
safe the chair is (goal?). Hence, I would emphasise the safety designs and anti-fall functions.
If I sell the same chair to a cost-conscious couple [substantive goal), I would offer
alternatives that are slightly less value for money to make the chair I am selling more
appealing.
Practise active listening can find out what are the real concerns and needs of those wanting
to buy the chair is.
The execution of the negotiations is different based on the different goals/needs of the
customer.
REFLECTING & POSTING ON DB HAS REWARDS.
• Learning 1: 10 Step Learning Process. Successful negotiation requires proper planning and
strategising. Structured approach for results.
• Without proper planning, a negotiator may enter discussions unprepared, increasing the
likelihood of making unfavourable concessions or failing to secure a beneficial deal.
• Application.
I will apply this learning by carefully preparing before any negotiation, whether in a business
context, such as discussing project responsibilities, or in a personal situation, such as
negotiating a rental agreement.
• Specifically, I will focus on setting clear goals, understanding my alternatives (BATNA), and
researching the other party’s objectives. This structured approach will help me remain composed
and make well-informed decisions rather than reacting emotionally during negotiations
REFLECTING & POSTING ON DB HAS REWARDS.
Learning. Jalan Bingsu activity. I was the buyer and had to negotiate with the seller.
concealment.
• For the seller, effective concealment of information and selective revealment of information
is important to have an advantage during a negotiation.
• On the other hand, for buyers, it is important to ask more questions to fish out any additional
information the seller is keeping for himself.
• Application: Learning will be very important for me in the future when I go for numerous job
interviews. During the interviews, I can ask many questions to the interviewer so that I can gain
advantage in the interview and potentially ask for concessions if needed.
•
REFLECTING & POSTING ON DB HAS REWARDS.
Learning: Power can be gathered in various ways, such as through informational sources or contextual power.
Application: Before entering a negotiation, I typically gather power from sources like information or the context of
the situation to use as leverage for achieving my preferred outcome.
However, I also need to learn how to leverage other sources of power, like my
personality, approach, and beliefs.
Application:
• Negotiating with more powerful parties. Be flexible and have a clear understanding of my position.
• However, by avoiding an all-or-nothing approach and diversifying my options, I can create leverage that helps
shift the balance in my favor. I can apply this by not solely committing to one supplier.
• Enhance my own position—showcasing the strong performance of the business, highlighting customer
loyalty, and demonstrating industry knowledge—I’ll be able to increase my influence and show that I’m a
valuable partner to work with.
• Setting constraints, like a strict budget, will also help me stay firm in negotiations without giving in to pressure.
• Accurate data, such as market price benchmarks, can be a powerful tool in backing up my position.
• Asking thoughtful questions will also uncover valuable insights to manage the negotiation process.
REFLECTING & POSTING ON DB HAS REWARDS.
• For informational power, I could use it when purchasing a car in the future.
• For personality power, my strong communication skills could help me persuade teammates to adopt
my proposed methods, ensuring that group assignments completed efficiently and smoothly.
• As for positional power which I have already been applying, my role as a team leader in university
assignments allows me to delegate tasks effectively. By assigning responsibilities early, I help ensure
that everyone starts working promptly, leading to timely submissions.
• When it comes to relationship power, having a good rapport with the person I am negotiating with may
increase my chances of securing more favourable terms in a deal.
• Lastly, contextual power can be advantageous when I am aware of external circumstances. For
instance, if a property owner is in a hurry to sell their flat, I can leverage this urgency to negotiate a better
price.
REFLECTING & POSTING ON DB HAS REWARDS.
L: I learnt about goals, strategy, power in negotiation and the 10-step planning process.
• 10-Step Planning Process. Knowing your limits and determining a Resistance Point stood out to me
most. Setting the right limit would decide when you should stop negotiations because any settlement
beyond this point is unacceptable. Yet placing a resistance point too high would drive buyers away.
• Stood out most. A negotiator will have referent power over the other party if there is deep respect and
admiration of the negotiator’s character, personality or attributes. Under the sales context, we can also
gain a second connection via referrals which also strengthens the first relationship.
• Power is an intangible aspect in negotiations, but it holds a foothold that can swing the negotiation either way.
This is a very useful soft skill to acquire even at home, school, the workplace, or even church.
REFLECTING & POSTING ON DB HAS REWARDS.
Learning: Interest
Interests in business negotiations refer to the underlying needs, concerns, or motivations that
drive each party's behavior and influence their decision-making process. These interests can vary
widely depending on the individuals involved, their roles, and the context of the negotiation. There are
substantive interest, process-based interest, relationship interest, and principle.
I will decide how to conduct negotiations with my stakeholders. Whether through face-to-face
meetings or video calls to facilitate open communication and build rapport with the supplier.
I will express a process interest in clearly defining roles, responsibilities, and expectations to
ensure mutual understanding and alignment throughout the partnership.
REFLECTING HAS REWARDS.
Relationship interest:
Relationship interests. Building trust, rapport, and goodwill can be important objectives.
Relationship interests may involve myself demonstrating respect, empathy, and understanding
toward the other party's perspectives. Foster a cooperative and collaborative environment.
As a small business owner, I may prioritize environmental sustainability or labor rights in its
negotiations with suppliers or partners. This could involve selecting suppliers who use eco-
friendly manufacturing processes, minimize waste, and reduce carbon emissions.
Work has its OWN REWARDS.
Our actions are guided by how we perceive, analyse (cognition), feel (emotion)
about the other party, situation, our own interests and positions.
2.Discuss the effect of cognitive biases, moods, and emotions during negotiation
1.
3.Evaluate and improve the communication process
Perception, Cognition, and Emotion
• Stereotyping
• Halo Effects
• Selective Perception
• Projection
• Perception is the process by which individuals connect to the environment. We connect and
make sense of our environment. Impossible to process all information! We have mental
short cuts. We are selective! We perceive.
• The perceiver’s current state of mind and the impact of earlier communications will also
influence this process.
• Negotiators approach each situation guided by their perception of past situations, attitudes
and behaviors.
• What influences how a person understands and assigns meaning to the messages?
Current state of mind. What influences this? Perception!
messages.
Extra Note: Perception, Cognition, and Emotion
• In negotiation, the goal is to perceive and understand accurately other parties’ messages. It
is not easy to do so. WHY?
• Perceivers’ limited and subjective experience leads to biases and errors in perception.
STORY. No-one saw the elephant. Each of the 5 people touched different parts of the
elephant. Based on limited and selective perceptions, they each perceived the elephant very
differently.
• You see, the negotiator’s own needs and personal experience may cause him or her to have
preconceived notions about the other party. BE ON GUARD OF PERCEPTION ERRORS.
Perception
The brain develops two equally plausible hypotheses and is unable to decide between them.
“People of Asian descent …
“are good at math” “work hard,” “follow rules”
“are competent, but cold”
and “never complain”
https://beestar.org/news/news090720.jsp
You are of
Asian descent
You must be
good at math.
Extra Note: Perceptual Distortion – Stereotyping
• Stereotyping is a common distortion. Occurs when we zero in on a single or limited piece of
perceptual info. about the other person (e.g. age, gender, race or nationality).
• Using only this one information - we then proceed to categorise or classify that person into a
particular social or demographic group. We assign group’s attributes to that person.
• The mental shortcut is to assign the group’s attribute to this other person. So, we “perceive” that
this person has this particular group’s attribute.
• However, do we have any factual basis to support our conclusion? Can we say for sure that every
member of this group will have such an attribute?
The stereotypical image of Asians and Asian Americans as competent and lacking warmth, therefore, alongside
the idea they are to blame for the virus, means they are the group most likely to be targeted for the ongoing
pandemic. They are perceived as competent enough to disrupt society’s existing order; the perception
that they lack warmth — which can be heightened by wearing a mask, something many East Asian and
Asian American people feel is culturally appropriate — can prompt those who are already biased to
perceive them as hostile and respond with anger and harm.
Gender Stereotype
A 2021 video titled Gift To Our Next Generation by the Ministry of Social and Family Development featured
different children reacting to household chores and caregiving duties at home based on their parents'
behavior at home. This video highlights the ripple effects of parents' behaviour on their children and the
importance of role modelling for future generations. https://www.straitstimes.com/singapore/mindset-shifts-needed-to-overcome-gender-
stereotypes-white-paper
Halo Effects
• In addition to stereotyping, there is halo effects which is similar to
stereotyping in that there is generalization.
• Occurs when we pick one attribute of the other person (e.g. appearance
or first impression). We then generalise that this person will also
possess other attributes which we associate with the attribute we picked on.
• Stereotyping
• Halo Effects
• Selective Perception
• Projection
• Blind men and an elephant. Each will be selective about info. presented and will
perceive the elephant differently. SP occurs when we isolate certain information
about another person to reinforce our opinion of this person. We will then filter out
information that contradicts our view..
Source : https://medium.com/swlh/changing-perceptions-with-design-717c030654e
Only seven people of the 1,097 passersby stopped during the entire 45 minute
performance. Bell collected notes and coins from passersby totaling $32.17.
When questioned after, most of the commuters said that they didn’t even notice the violinist,
and were regretful when informed of what they had missed.
https://medium.com/swlh/changing-perceptions-with-design-717c030654e
https://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/magazine/pearls-before-breakfast-can-one-of-the-
nations-great-musicians-cut-through-the-fog-of-a-dc-rush-hour-lets-find-
out/2014/09/23/8a6d46da-4331-11e4-b47c-f5889e061e5f_story.html
Extra Note: In Summary, We Learnt
• Perception is a process by which we connect and make sense of our environment.
Impossible to process all information! We have mental short cuts. We are selective!
• The negotiator’s (perceiver’s) (1) current state of mind and (2) negotiator’s own needs and
personal experience (earlier communications with the other party) may cause him or her to have
preconceived notions about the other party. Perceivers’ limited and subjective experience
leads to biases and errors in perception.
• Example. Noone saw the elephant. Each person touched different parts of the elephant. Based
on limited and selective perceptions. Perceived elephant very differently.
EXTRA NOTES:
• Stereotyping rely on single piece of info (age, gender, race, nationality) to generalize.
• Halo Effects (Generalisation. He smiled. Therefore…Halo rely on one attribute, e.g. appearances
of group membership, first impression, to generalize the person has other attributes too which we
associate with the attribute we picked on. Association is based on our own prior experience.)
• Selective Perception (Once a liar, always a liar). This occurs when we isolate certain information
about another person to reinforce our opinion of this person. We will then filter out information that
contradicts our view. Selective perception reinforces stereotypes and halo effects.
• Projection (I am frustrated, you must be too). Occurs when we project our own characteristics or
feelings on the other person. We assume the other person will feel or respond the same way.
3. Aspiration
2. Outcome
1. Substantive Broader set of interests and
Specific Outcome. Can lead
Key Issue of conflict. needs. Integrative
to distributive outcomes.
outcomes.
How the negotiation How to distinguish self Defining the other parties.
7. Loss-Gain
VIEW TRANSACTION IN
Risk or reward of outcomes.
Extra Notes: A negotiator may use different types of frames when framing the dispute.
• A negotiator who adopts a substantive frame see the negotiation in terms of what the conflict is about. Has
a particular disposition of key issues in negotiation.
• If a negotiator’s predisposition is about getting a specific outcome, he will likely adopt an outcome frame. A
negotiator with a strong outcome frame will emphasize on self-interest and be less concerned for the other
party. A negotiator using an outcome frame is more likely to engage in distributive win-lose negotiations. Get
the outcomes at all costs!
• A negotiator who adopts a process frame is more concerned about how the parties go about resolving or
managing their disputes. Less concern about issues.
• Aspiration frame used by integrative negotiators. Pre-disposed to satisfy broader set of interests/needs
for a bigger win-win.
• Identity frames. Distinguish themselves from others. I am a land owner.
• Characterisation frame. How party define other parties. Shaped by past experiences.
• Loss-gain, risk or reward frame. How parties define risk/reward associated with certain outcomes. E.g.
Buyer can view transaction in loss terms (costs of purchase) or in gain terms (value of item).
EXTRA NOTES: Recap. ABILITY TO FRAME ISSUES CORRECTLY AND
TO REFRAME IS CRITICAL
Reframing can take place as more information and better communication takes place.
Mismatch of frames between negotiators will generate conflict and lead to misunderstanding
or even stalemate. Some frames will lead to more integrative approaches and some tend to
lead to more distributive approaches.
• Example. Aspiration frame can lead to integrative agreements.
• Example. If there is a strong preference for certain specific outcomes, it may lead to
more conflict and distributive outcomes or no agreement.
Extra Notes: HOW FRAMES WORK
Negotiators can use more than 1 frame.
1st Example of 2. Land developer discussing golf course conflict can use the
following:
-Golf course (substantive frame);
-Preferences on how land should be used (outcome);
-How much input farmers can have determining what happens to his property (procedural);
-Does he view them favourably? (characterisation frame).
Interests
Rights
Power
Photo by Amos Lee on Unsplash
EXTRA NOTES: ANOTHER APPROACH TO FRAMING. If Conflict, you can use IRP Frame
• Interests. Know the interests of the other party.
• Rights. Negotiator may be concerned over who is right, correct or what is fair? Negotiators
may take turns to give in.
• Power. Negotiators using this frame assesses who is the stronger negotiating party. This
stronger party can then impose extra costs, expertise, or legitimate authority over the other
party.
• Parties have a CHOICE how they choose to approach negotiations in terms of IRP.
• RECAP. Different frames lead to very different discussion between parties as the way you
approach a problem likely influences how the other party responds.
Framing the interests in terms of :
• Interest: To understand why the developer is offering the compensation as they stand.
• Rights: To understand the objective criteria for setting compensation (tenure of land – leasehold or
freehold, development charges etc).
• Power: To threaten compensation proceedings/actions.
Class Activity How to frame this?
You went to the car repair shop to fix some problems with the engine.
You were shocked when you received a bill for $6,500.
How can you frame the issue regarding the repair cost?
Interests
Rights
Power
Photo by Amos Lee on Unsplash
Framing the interests in terms of :
• Interest : To understand why the repair shop is charging this amount. I will
go back again. You have the right to charge me a fair price for good work. I
pay!
• Rights : To understand the objective criteria for costing the repair (engine
part price, etc). I know they use hours worked to charge.
Group 1 was asked these questions: Group 2 was asked these questions:
Q1. Is the height of the tallest redwood Q1. Is the height of the tallest redwood
tree more or less than 1,200 ft? tree more or less than 180 ft?
Q2. How tall is the tallest redwood tree? Q2. How tall is the tallest redwood tree?
Their average answer for Q2: 844 Their average answer for Q2: 282
ft. ft.
WHY? Learning?
Extra notes
Myth that
all issues I dealt with a
are fixed- Law of developer once
small
pie
numbers before – they only
care about
money, never
I shouldn’t have about culture!
made the first move Winner’s
– the developer just curse
agreed to my asking
Photo by Amos Lee on Unsplash
price without
bargaining. It must
be too low.
Next, Emotions
Emotion and Its Role.
• Flexible in problem-solving.
• Less satisfaction.
• Adverse to negotiation.
❑ Offers, Counter-
offers, Motives • Social accounts. Such as mitigating, exonerating or reframing
❑ Alternatives
circumstances to the other side to manage outcome.
❑ Outcomes
❑ Social Accounts
❑ Negotiation
Process • Communicate about the negotiation process itself to build rapport or
ease tension. SMILE. NODD. REINFORCE.
EXTRA NOTES. Textbook. Table 7.1 What is Communicated During
Negotiations?
• Disclose your BATNA if your BATNA is stronger or better than the other party.
• Avoid threats and beware of risks of playing “chicken”.
5-10 minutes Class Activity.
Looks like you’re going to land that job at Amazon! You are at the meeting with
Amazon’s HR Director and he’s just asked you : “ What is your current salary?
What is your salary expectation? ”
• You decide you will not accept anything lower than $36,000 per year.
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Class Activity
To Tell or
Not to tell ? ❑ Yes
❑ No
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Class Activity Do not tell? Linkedin Article : Why you shouldn't
disclose your current salary when looking for a
new job?
To Tell or ❑ Yes MOM: Josephine Teo said in Parliament on June 4, 2021 that
Not to tell ? ❑ No there are no rules stating that jobseekers must declare
their last-drawn salaries. in reality, while there are no such
rules, about 95 per cent of employers, local and
What will you tell him? international firms, routinely ask for candidates’ last-drawn
salaries
https://www.channelnewsasia.com/commentary/employers-ask-past-last-drawn-salary-how-to-deal-job-
application-722921
https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/why-you-shouldnt-disclose-your-current-salary-when-looking-barker
LinkedIn Article : Some US states have in fact passed laws prohibiting employer from questioning about
salary history. The theory is that this type of question reinforces pay inequalities
https://www.glassdoor.com/blog/9-things-to-never-say-in-a-salary-negotiation/
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Class Activity What is your BATNA?
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• Amazon’s offer is worse. The bonus can be considered as having $42,000 (Current
Salary ) + $10,500
already been earned because it is for performance in the current year.
(Earned Bonus)
The timing of payment is merely a mechanism for employers to = $52,500 (i.e., $4,375
per month)
stabilise headcount. It should therefore be included.
• For chance of promotion – more confident candidates can include Add 50% chance of
a 50% chance (i.e. adding $200 to current salary). Adding the bonus (3 promotion = $4,375 +
$200 = $4,575
months) and $200 probable monthly increment will give a BATNA of
$54,900 (i.e. $4,575/mth)
2. Non-verbal is important.
Example: Is it difficult to say “No”? NO .
Refusals
Indonesia : An Indonesian’s preoccupation
Japan: As indirect communicators, Japanese people
often avoid direct refusals or negative responses.
with saving face and politeness can
When refusing, they may show hesitation before replying mean that they will be reluctant to give a
with an ambiguous response. E.g., a Japanese person flat “no” or negative response, even
may respond to a request with “Kento-shimasu” meaning ‘I when they do not agree with you.
will consider it’, even if he does not intend to consider Focus on hints of hesitation. Listen closely
the proposal. to what they say, but also pay careful
This website offers very comprehensive cultural tips. attention to what they don’t say and
Under the tab “Communication” – there are very useful
information regarding verbal and non-verbal
double check understandings to clarify
communication. Instructors can select the country they meaning
wish to explore with students to access and discuss the
information provided. Source : https://culturalatlas.sbs.com.au/
How people Communicate?
• Open Questions that will help address their concern about Wei delivering on
time. For e.g. “What do you need to meet the deadline by this Friday?” This
is open question. It asks for more information and is even offering assistance
and support. It asks for more than a one-word reply — it seeks valuable input. If
Wei has been late with his deliverables. This is a fact which can be
communicated. To set the context. What is important is to avoid passing
judgment.
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