Chapter 2. Personality Development
Chapter 2. Personality Development
Personality Development
Why is it importance?
A well-developed personality helps in building confidence,
improving relationships, and achieving career success.
What is Personality Development?
Key Traits:
Excitability
Sociability
Talkativeness
Assertiveness
Emotional expressiveness
1. Extraversion (Surgency)
Key Traits:
Sympathetic
Kind
Affectionate
Trust
Altruism
Prosocial behaviors
2. Agreeableness
Key Traits:
Tense
Moody
Anxious
Irritable
Sadness
3. Neuroticism
Key Traits:
Imaginative
Insightful
Curious
Creative
Broad interests
4. Openness [Intellect/ Imagination]
1. Very Creative
2. Open to trying new things
3. Focused on tackling new challenges
4. Happy to think about abstract concepts
4. Openness [Intellect/ Imagination]
Key Traits:
Organized
Thorough
Planful
Thoughtful
Impulse control
5. Conscientiousness
Example:
(1) A newborn cries loudly when hungry, demanding to be fed
immediately.
(2) An adult might impulsively grab a snack when hungry,
regardless of the context.
1. The Id [The instinctive Core]
Example:
(1) If someone is very thirsty, their id might "dream" of a cold
glass of water to satisfy the craving.
Example:
A child who shares toys may feel proud for doing what’s right.
3. The Superego [The Moral Compass]
B. Conscience: Contains internalized rules about bad or forbidden
behaviors; violating these leads to guilt.
Example:
Feeling guilty after lying to a friend.
Functions
It acts to perfect and civilize behavior, sometimes conflicting with the
id’s desires.
The interaction and conflict
of Id, Ego, & Superego
• Inner Conflict
➢ The id wants instant pleasure, the superego enforces moral
standards, and the ego tries to balance both with reality.
Example:
You see a tempting piece of cake (id), but you’re on a diet (superego), so
your ego might find a healthy alternative or decide to indulge modestly.
• Ego Strength
➢ The ego’s capacity to manage these conflicts—strong ego leads
to healthier behavior.
Defense Mechanism: Coping Strategies
2. Denial
➢ Refusing to accept a painful reality.
Example:
An alcoholic insists they don’t have a drinking problem despite clear
evidence.
3. Repression
➢ Keeping upsetting memories out of conscious awareness.
Example:
Someone who was abused as a child may not remember the event but might
struggle in trusting others later.
Defense Mechanism: Coping Strategies
3. Displacement
➢ Redirecting feelings onto a safer target.
Example:
After a bad day, a person yells at their spouse or kicks the dog instead of
their boss.
4. Sublimation
➢ Transforming unacceptable impulses into acceptable activities.
Example:
Someone with aggressive impulses takes up boxing or martial arts.
Defense Mechanism: Coping Strategies
5. Projection
➢ Attributing your own unacceptable feelings to others.
Example:
A person who feels jealous might accuse their partner of being
unfaithful.
6. Rationalization
➢ Justifying behavior with logical reasons.
Example:
A student blames poor exam results on unfair questions rather than
lack of preparation.
Defense Mechanism: Coping Strategies
7. Regression
➢ Reverting to earlier, childlike behaviors under stress.
Example:
An adult throws a temper tantrum when frustrated.
8. Reaction Formation
➢ Acting opposite to unacceptable feelings.
Example:
Someone who secretly dislikes a colleague might act overly friendly
toward them.
Types of Anxiety
& their Defense Mechanism
1. Neurotic Anxiety
➢ Fear of losing control over id impulses—like impulse to steal or
aggress.
Example:
An individual feels worried about giving in to aggressive desires but defeats
them.
2. Reality Anxiety
➢ Fear of real-world threats, like fear of injury or failure.
Example:
Fear of walking alone in a dangerous neighborhood.
Types of Anxiety
& their Defense Mechanism
3. Moral Anxiety
➢ Fear of violating moral standards set by the superego.
Example:
Feeling guilty after cheating on a test.
2. Erikson’s Stages of
Psychosocial Development
[Erik Erikson]
Stages Age
Stage 1 Trust vs. Mistrust Infancy from birth to 18 months
Stage 2 Autonomy vs. Shame and Toddler years from 18 months
Doubt to three years
Stage 3 Initiative vs. Guilt Preschool years from three to
five
Stage 4 Industry vs. Inferiority Middle school years from six to
11
Stage 5 Identity vs. Confusion Teen years from 12 to 18
Stage 6 Intimacy vs. Isolation Young adult years from 18 to 40
Stage 7 Generativity vs. Stagnation Middle age from 40 to 6
Stage 8 Integrity vs. Despair Older adulthood from 65 to
death
Age Conflict Important Outcome
Events
Infancy Trust vs. Feeding Hope
[Birth to 18 Mistrust
Months]
Early Autonomy Toilet Will
Childhood vs. Shame Training
[2 to 3 & Doubt
years]
Preschool Initiative Exploration Purpose
[3 to 5 vs. Guilt
years]
Age Conflict Important Outcome
Events
School Age Industry vs. School Confidence
[7 to 11 years old Inferiority
Adolescence Identity vs. Social Fidelity
[12 to 18 years old Role Relationships
Confusion
Young Adulthood Infancy vs. Relationships Love
[19- 40 years old] Isolation
Age Conflict Important Outcome
Events
Middle Adulthood Generativity Work and Care
[40- 65 years old] vs. Parenthood
stagnation
Maturity Ego Reflection on Wisdom
[65 and above] integrity vs. Life
Despair
Other aspects of
Personality
1. Body Language
What is Body Language?
➢It is nonverbal communication
through body movements, gestures,
facial expressions, eye contact, and
touch.
➢It conveys a great deal of information
without words, often revealing our
feelings, thoughts, and intentions.
➢Body language includes conscious
and unconscious movements and
postures that form a unique language
within ongoing communication.
What is Body Language?
1. HEAD
➢ Movement and placement
of the head, back to front,
left to right, side to side,
including the shaking of
hair.
Parts of the Body
2. FACIAL EXPRESSION
➢ The face has many muscles (anywhere between 54 and 98,
depending on who you ask) that move several areas of the face.
Each combination of movements of the
following face elements communicates a
state of mind:
A. Eyebrows - Up, down, frowning.
B. Eyes - Left, right, up, down, blinking, eye dealation.
C. Nose - Wrinkle (at the top), flaring of the nostrils.
D. Lips - Smiling, snarling, puckered, kissing, opened, closed, tight.
E. Tongue - In, out, rolled, tip up or down, licking of lips.
F. Jaw - Open, closed, clinched, lower jaw left or right.
Parts of the Body
3. Body Posture
➢ The way you place your body and arms and legs, in relation to
each other, and in relation to other people:
The Body Language of Posture
Facial expression
1. All facial organs on human face
indicates facially expressive
message.
2. These are hair, forehead,
eyebrows, eyes, mouth, chin,
nose, lips, ears, teethe, tongue
etc.
3. Facial expressions comes
naturally hence it is beyond the
control of speaker.
Dress & Appearance
Dress & Appearance
1. The kind of dress we use & the way in which we groom ourselves
shows our status & attitude.
2. We influenced how others look & clothes they wear
3. Physical attractiveness plays an important role in our assessment of
people.
4. Persons dress & physical appearance conveys great deal of
information about him.
Eye Contact
1. Eye contact has very much in face- to- face communication.
2. Absence of eye contact shows lack of interest & understanding.
3. Look faster than listen or talk.
Eye Contact
4. Eyes are human windows
except them there is no life.
5. The speaker must look in to
the eyes of the audience from
right to left & left to right this
will built up the confidence &
eliminate the nervousness.
6. It build the rapport between
the speaker & the listener.
How to improve body language?
1. SMILE!
2. Keep an open space before your upper torso. E.g.
don't fold your arms, hug your bag, or put things on your
lap.
3. Have eye contact. Important to establish connection.
4. Be comfortable in your space. Don't fidget, don't
squirm, or don't lose yourself in your body.
5. (For ladies) When resting on your hand, keep the
insides of your hand faced outwards. This makes you
appear more open.
How to improve body language?
6. Minimize movement that distracts. Don't finger
drum, nail bite, skin peel, or scab pick.
7. Slow down your pace. (for fast talkers). Move
slowly if you have to adjust your position.
8. Be inclusive in your actions. E.g. reduce the
physical distance between you and the other
person, smile, maintain eye contact, and make
occasional gestures towards the other person.
How to improve body language?
▪ Academic Challenges
▪ Workplace Conflicts
▪ Personal Life
Developing Problem Solving Skills
What is Perception?
➢The process by which individuals interpret and make sense of their
environment.
➢A critical component in conflict; misperceptions can lead to
unnecessary disagreements.
What is Dysfunctional Conflict?
➢Also known as destructive or unhealthy conflict.
➢Results in lower team performance, reduced satisfaction, and
increased turnover.
➢Characterized by personal anger, resentment, verbal abuse, threats,
deception, and aggressive acts.
For example:
an employee leaving the organization to avoid conflict.
Conflict Styles
2. Accommodating Styles
➢The person relying in
this usually sacrifices
her/ his needs and
satisfies the needs of the
others. The person is
high on submissiveness
and cooperation. This
style is harmful in the
long run.
Conflict Styles
3. Competing Styles
➢A person using this style does anything to win with little respect
for the other person/group (win-lose). The person operates on the
principle of ‘winning at all costs’. Such a style is very damaging for
relationships and other conflicts may also arise. But it might be
useful in emergency situations
Conflict Styles
4. Collaborating Styles
➢ A person using this style tries to win but also wants the other
person to win (win-win). This style is beneficial at all times but
being time consuming, is not helpful during emergencies.
Conflict Styles
5. Compromising Styles
➢ It is a give-and-take tactics where most of the conflicts are
resolved with the help of compromise so that solution benefits both
the parties. It focuses on satisficing- the solution is minimally
accepted by both the parties.
What is Stress?
❑ The word stress originates from the Latin word strictus, meaning tight
or narrow, highlighting the feeling of being under pressure.
❑ Hans Selye [1936] introduced the concept of General Adaptation
Syndrome (GAS), later renamed the stress response. He described stress
as "a syndrome manifested by non-specific changes in a biological system" in
response to demands.
GAS Model: It involves three stages:
1. Alarm Reaction: Initial response to a stressor, activating the fight-
or-flight response.
2. Stage of Resistance: The body attempts to adapt to ongoing stress.
3. Stage of Exhaustion: Prolonged stress depletes resources, leading to
fatigue or illness.
Stress Response and Stressors
❑ Stress Response: The body's unconscious preparation to confront or
escape a threat, involving physiological changes like increased heart
rate, blood pressure, and sweating.
For Example:
[1] An employee sets boundaries by not checking work emails after office hours
and dedicates evenings to family or hobbies.
[2] A company offers flexible working hours or remote work options to help
employees manage personal commitments alongside work demands.
Personal Strategies to Prevent and
Manage Stress
2. Positive Mindset and Resilience:
➢ enabling individuals to adapt, learn, and bounce back from stressors.
Developing resilience involves realistic optimism, strong values, self-
awareness, and the ability to set priorities, all of which help in
effectively coping with stress.
For Example:
[1] When facing a project setback, a person views it as a learning opportunity
rather than a failure, maintaining optimism and motivation.
[2] An individual practices gratitude daily and focuses on their strengths to stay
motivated during stressful times.
Personal Strategies to Prevent and
Manage Stress
3. Social Support
➢ helps individuals cope with stress by providing emotional care,
information, feedback, and mentoring, acting as a buffer against
workplace and personal stressors, and fostering positive
emotions and productivity.
For Example:
1. A team member shares their concerns with a trusted colleague, who
listens and provides helpful advice, reducing their stress.
2. A supervisor regularly checks in with employees, offering encouragement
and feedback to help them navigate workplace challenges.
Personal Strategies to Prevent and
Manage Stress
4. Time Management
➢ effectively organizing and planning how to divide your
time among various activities, with the goal of setting
priorities, accomplishing goals, and avoiding last-minute
stress and confusion.
For Example:
Planning your day with a schedule that allocates specific time slots for
work, breaks, and personal activities, so you meet deadlines without last-
minute rushes.
Personal Strategies to Prevent and
Manage Stress
5. Coping Skills
➢ use to deal with conflicts and stressors by focusing on
aspects they can control and change, rather than on
those they cannot.
For Example:
Instead of worrying about things outside your control, you focus on
managing your workload or practicing deep breathing techniques to stay
calm during stressful situations.
Personal Strategies to Prevent and
Manage Stress
6. Leisure Time Activities
➢ Activities undertaken during free time that promote
relaxation, joy, spontaneity, and connection with others
or nature, thereby helping to reduce stress.
For Example:
Going for a walk in nature, playing a musical instrument, or engaging in
hobbies like painting or gardening to relax and recharge.
Personal Strategies to Prevent and
Manage Stress
7. Physical Exercise
➢ Physical activities, particularly aerobic exercises and
flexibility training, that improve responsiveness to
stress and reduce muscular tension caused by
distress.
For Example:
Running, cycling, or doing yoga regularly to improve your physical
response to stress and release muscular tension.
Personal Strategies to Prevent and
Manage Stress
8. Diet
➢ The pattern of eating habits and food choices; a
healthy diet that minimizes high sugar and cholesterol
foods can help reduce stress levels by maintaining
better blood chemistry.
For Example:
Choosing to eat balanced meals with fruits, vegetables, and whole grains
instead of consuming sugary snacks or fast food that can increase stress
vulnerability.
Personal Strategies to Prevent and
Manage Stress
9. Professional Help
➢ Seeking assistance from health or mental health
professionals when experiencing early symptoms of stress or
strain, in order to prevent physical or psychological damage
For Example:
Visiting a counselor or therapist after noticing persistent mood swings, sleep
disturbances, or loss of appetite to address underlying stress or mental health
issues.
Organizational Strategies to Prevent and
Manage Stress
1. Job Redesign
➢ Redesigning jobs is important so that employee needs
are taken care off and some sources of stress are
reduced. An increase in worker control will help in
reducing stress at organizational level; most common is
job decision latitude. Another benefit of job redesign is
to reduce uncertainty and increase predictability at
workplace.
For Example:
company allows employees to choose their start and end times within a
certain range, giving them greater autonomy over their work hours.
Organizational Strategies to Prevent and
Manage Stress
2. Goal Settings
➢ This strategy is designed to enhance task motivation. It
helps in focusing a person’s attention and helps in
channelizing energy into productive way
For Example:
A student sets a goal to improve their math grades by studying for 30
minutes every day. This clear, specific goal helps them focus their
attention on consistent practice, channel their energy into regular study
sessions, and stay motivated to achieve better results.
4. Work Ethics
What is Ethics?
2. CHARACTER
- Display loyalty, honesty,
trustworthiness, reliability,
dependability, initiative, self
discipline and self-
responsibility
Ten [10] Characteristics
of Good Work Ethics
3. TEAMWORK
- Team worker,
cooperative, assertive,
display a customer service
attitude, continuous
learning, mannerly behavior
Ten [10] Characteristics
of Good Work Ethics
4. APPEARANCE
- Display appropriate dress, grooming,
hygiene and etiquette
5. ATTITUDE
- Positive attitude, self confident, realistic
expectation of self
Ten [10] Characteristics
of Good Work Ethics
6. PRODUCTIVITY
- Safety practices, conserve materials, keep
work area neat and clean, follow directions and
procedures
7. ORGANIZATIONAL SKILL
- Skill in personal management, time
management, prioritizing, flexibility, stress
management and dealing with chance
Ten [10] Characteristics
of Good Work Ethics
8. COMMUNICATION
- Appropriate verbal and non- verbal skill
9. COOPERATION
- Display leadership, appropriate handle
criticism and complaints, demonstrate problem
solving capacity, maintain appropriate
relationship with supervisors and peers, and
follow chain of command
Ten [10] Characteristics
of Good Work Ethics
10. RESPECT
- Respect the rights of others, deal
appropriately with cultural/racial diversity and
not engaged in harassment of any kind
Benefits of Good Work Ethics
3. CHARTS OF ACCOUNTS :
-Designed to be consistent with the organizational
plans.Revenues and expenses are reported by
responsibilities areas, thus providing historical data that
are valuable for planning and providing budgetary control
for evaluation as performance can be compared to plans.
Prerequisites to Budgeting
4. MANAGERIAL SUPPORT
➢ Essential for the
budgetary programme
.Budgeting is done at the
departmental level, it
must be valued by top
administration.
➢ Managers must be willing
to devote their time and
energy to the budgeting
process.
Prerequisites to Budgeting
5. FORMAL BUDGETING PROCESS AND
PROCEDURES:
➢ Should be available in budget manual, in which objective
are clarified and instructions for budget development are
discussed.
➢ Calendar of budgeting activities with the schedule for each
stage of program is presented.
Characteristics of Budgeting
1. Should be flexible.
2. Should be synthesis of past ,present and future.
3. Should be product of joint venture and cooperation of
executive/department head at different level of
management.
4. Should be in the form of statistical standard laid down in
the specific numerical terms.
5. Should have support of top management throughout the
period of its planning and implementation.
Importance of Budgeting
1. Needed for planning future course of action and control
over all activities in the organization.
2. Facilitates coordinating operation of various departments
and sectors.
3. Helps to weigh values and make decision when necessary.
Principles of Budgeting
1. Should provide sound financial management by
focusing on requirement of the organization
2. Should focus on the objectives and policies of the
organization.
3. Should ensure the most effective use of financial and
non financial resources.
4. Program activities should be planned in advance.
5. Requires consistent delegation for framing and executive
budget.
Principles of Budgeting
6. Should include coordinating efforts of various
departments establishing a frame of reference for
managerial decision and evaluate managerial
performance.
7. Requires an adequate checks and balance against
adoption of too high and too low estimates.
8. Must be appropriate to nature of business ,services and
to the type of budget.
9. Prepared under the direction and supervision of
administrator or financial officer.
Principles of Budgeting
2. OPEN ENDED
➢ A financial plan in which each operating manager
present a single cost estimate for what is
considered optimal activity level.
Classification of Budget
3. FIXED CEILING BUDGET
➢ The uppermost spending limit is set by top
executive before the unit and divisional manager
develop budget proposal for the areas of
responsibility.
4. FLEXIBLE BUDGET
➢ Several financial plans each for different program
activity.
Classification of Budget
5. ROLL OVER BUDGET
➢ Forecast program, revenues and expenses for a
period greater than a year, to accommodate
program larger than annual budget cycle.
6. PERFORMANCE BUDGET
➢ Allocates functions not divisions(direct nursing
care ,in service education, nursing research, quality
improvement).
Classification of Budget
7. PROGRAM BUDGET
➢ Where cost are computed for a total
program(group total cost for each service program).
E. g. MCH,FP,UIP.
2. Expense Management
➢ Monitoring and controlling how much money is spent on
various needs and wants.
Example: Keeping track of grocery and transportation costs to stay
within the monthly budget.
Importance of Budgeting
3. Avoiding Debt
➢ Managing finances to prevent borrowing money that accrues
interest or causes financial burden.
Example: Not using credit cards excessively to prevent accumulating high-
interest debt.