make alpn configurable (kgateway-dev#2526)

* make alpn configurable

Fix route auto-reorder when only one route table is matched (kgateway…

…-dev#2530)

* Fix makefile syntax error
* Do not sort routes if only one route tables was matched
* Changelog
* Add `always_sort_route_table_routes` to settings

Add `always_sort_route_table_routes` to settings
* Wire up `alwaysSortRouteTableRoutes` in gateway
* Fix changelog
* Adjust comment
* Document default value for new setting
* Typo in changelog

Fix reconciler and resource status reporter to retry more than once o…

…n resource version conflict errors (kgateway-dev#2510)

* Bump solo-kit version
* Add changelog

Allow use of gloo.updatevalues in gateway-proxy config map (kgateway-…

…dev#2492)

* Allow use of gloo.updatevalues in gateway-proxy config map
* add ExtraListenersHelper value
* better naming

add gloo MTLS sds and envoy image helm values (kgateway-dev#2490)

* add gloo MTLS sds and envoy image helm values
* remove sdsServerAddress field
* Address code review comments

Add gateway-proxy listener (kgateway-dev#2480)

* Add gatway-proxy listener
* Add .extraListenersHelper template variable
* add extraListenersHelper test
* Update changelog/v1.3.7/gateway-proxy-listener.yaml

Co-Authored-By: Kevin Dorosh <[email protected]>

Vs all ns v1.2.x (kgateway-dev#2482)

* Discover vs in all namespaces (kgateway-dev#2471)

* default look in all ns, update docs
* changelog
* update tests
* PR comments
* make update-deps generated-code
* move changelog, stop ignoring *.sk.md files

Fix ingress proxy creation on Knative > 1.9 (kgateway-dev#2449)

* Fix ingress proxy creation on Knative > 1.9

When using the Knative charts to install Gloo, two ingress proxies would be created if the knative version was > 1.9. This was because a regex identifying whether the version was > 1.7 contained a bug that made it match everything where the minor version contained any digit <8.

Fixes kgateway-dev#2448
* Add changelog for bb800c4

Fix lds reloads v1.2.x (kgateway-dev#2458)

* Lds reloads 2 (kgateway-dev#2440)

* name > case, ensure filters with the same name are consistently ordered
* change upstreamServices from unnecessary map to slice
* changelog
* test
* goimports
* PR comment
* PR comments
* update imports in translator_test.go
* move changelog

Port disable k8s dest fix (kgateway-dev#2405)

* Expose `disableKubernetesDestinations` setting as Helm chart value (kgateway-dev#2302)

* Expose `disableKubernetesDestinations` setting as Helm chart value
* Fix Helm unit tests
* Move changelog
* Update test to respect annotations that still persist on Settings for 1.2.x helm upgrade compatibility