Update torch-xpu-ops pin (ATen XPU implementation) (pytorch#135647)

Release cycle for PyTorch 2.5
1. Fixing runtime error on Windows: Fail to load torch_xpu_ops_unary_binary_kernels.dll as the bin size is large.

Pull Request resolved: pytorch#135647
Approved by: https://github.com/EikanWang

add memory_allocated API for device_interface

unify calling method

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[Strobelight] Abstract out strobelight profile enablement

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Allow common HOPs to be cached by fx graph cache

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Allow fx graph caching higher order operators (opt-in)

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Add higher order operator name to the cache bypass exception

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