Followup to #44774 .

The previous PR added support for the exclude option to php attributes & php config files, but not xml or yaml, making it impossible to use this feature with those config types.
Also, since the support for this feature was never added to the yaml & xml dumpers, the generated App_KernelDevDebugContainer.xml is actually incorrect (possibly should be considered a bug), eg the following php configuration:

    $services->set(TestExclude::class)
        ->public()
        ->args([
            tagged_iterator('app.test', exclude: TestExclude::class),
        ]);

produces this xml file:

    <service id="App\Service\TestExclude" class="App\Service\TestExclude" public="true">
      <tag name="app.test"/>
      <argument type="tagged_iterator" tag="app.test"/>
    </service>

With this PR, the dumpers are now aware of the exclude option:

    <service id="App\Service\TestExclude" class="App\Service\TestExclude" public="true">
      <tag name="app.test"/>
-     <argument type="tagged_iterator" tag="app.test"/>
+     <argument type="tagged_iterator" tag="app.test" exclude="App\Service\TestExclude"/>
    </service>