Welcome.

“Do not get lost in a sea of despair. Be hopeful, be optimistic. Our struggle is not the struggle of a day, a week, a month, or a year, it is the struggle of a lifetime. Never, ever be afraid to make some noise and get in good trouble, necessary trouble.” ~ Rep John Lewis.

I am a Black, polyamorous, nomad who also happens to be a minister, author, parent, and widower. I’ve had a lot of adventures, done a shit ton of deconstructing, and I don’t fit into any of the usual boxes. You probably don’t either.

Or perhaps you’re ready to break down the boxes and you’re looking for some company. Perhaps you’ve grown weary of the world as it is, as it has asked you to be, and you’re ready for a new way. Perhaps you’re done with limited surviving and you’re ready to embrace authentic thriving.

That means getting into good trouble, necessary trouble.

Welcome to the club.

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About Me.

In addition to the above, I’m a podcaster, an antiracism educator, an activist, a spiritual coach. and grief counselor (currently accepting new clients).

I’m a Gemini, and that’s about all I know about astrology. I’m an Enneagram 9 with 8 wing, and I can talk your ear off all day about that. If you really want a deep dive, read my full bio here.

As an award-winning author who also published a book a few years back, I can tell you that writing is so very hard. And I love it so very much. I’m honored you took the time to read and share my musings as I process out loud this wonderful mystery called life.