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The tried and tested methods I share with my patients.
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You're thinking about stress wrong
It's not you — it's the thousands of systemic stressors all around you.
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Thoughts on Perfectionism
And, hi! I'm alive.
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With a little help from my friends (& Zoloft)
I'm back from mat leave.
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What We Can All Learn from Disability Culture
"My life is infinitely better for having been raised by a disabled mom."
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Doctors Orders: Welcome to the Fall of Slow
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The Culture War Comes for Boy Moms
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The twins are here!
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Big news: I'm writing another book!
It's all about change.
Aug 27, 2025
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Compassion 101: A Real Self-Care Principle
How to show kindness to yourself, so you can show up for everyone else.
Aug 20, 2025
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The twins are here!
An update on my C-section and our first days with Mira and Anya.
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The Gifts of Being Childfree
Embracing my freedom, and giving myself the life I’ve been waiting for.
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What I'm Holding Ahead of My C-Section
Giving birth in Texas, and bringing two daughters into an uncertain world.
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What to expect here while I'm on maternity leave
And a call to support RSC and my work!
Jun 25, 2025
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Pooja's Picks: Going Through It
Five links for wading through these waters.
Jun 19, 2025
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What do you do when the world is on fire?
Choosing care over chaos with author Marisa Renee Lee
Jun 13, 2025
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Quick Thoughts: High Functioning Depression
Being productive doesn’t mean you’re not depressed.
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