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The Real Self-Care 2025 Year in Review
New writing, a new book, a couple of new twins...
Dec 17, 2025
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Quick Thoughts: Learn Emotion Regulation
Take a beat before reacting — especially right now.
Dec 10, 2025
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Values 101: How to Grow Closer to Yourself
Building your Real Self-Care compass.
Dec 3, 2025
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November 2025
Holiday boundaries that actually work
The tried and tested methods I share with my patients.
Nov 26, 2025
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Arrival Fallacy: The Success Lie We Just Can't Quit
Why life's goalposts keep moving, no matter how much we achieve.
Nov 20, 2025
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You're thinking about stress wrong
It's not you — it's the thousands of systemic stressors all around you.
Nov 12, 2025
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October 2025
Thoughts on Perfectionism
And, hi! I'm alive.
Oct 22, 2025
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September 2025
Pooja's Picks: 5 links I read and liked
The cost of being right too soon, the great feminist exhaustion, and some recent good news.
Sep 19, 2025
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With a little help from my friends (& Zoloft)
I'm back from mat leave.
Sep 12, 2025
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What We Can All Learn from Disability Culture
"My life is infinitely better for having been raised by a disabled mom."
Sep 4, 2025
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August 2025
Big news: I'm writing another book!
It's all about change.
Aug 27, 2025
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Compassion 101: A Real Self-Care Principle
How to show kindness to yourself, so you can show up for everyone else.
Aug 20, 2025
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