What Post 30 Is Really About.

When I first started this site, I had an About Me section highlighting my true story. Unfortunately, this became something that a particular troll used to harass me. I am going to speak more about this on a later post, especially as I do my About Me section again. However, today I wanted to talk about what this whole website is actually about, or was meant to be about.

The American Misconception about life after 30.

In America, the misconception is that life peaks for men in high school, college, and maybe their early 20s. By peaking, I mean that men will have the most sexual opportunities and chances to sleep with lots of different women at that age than any other age in life. Men will also have the most “fun” and messing around type of stories at that age than at any other age-range in life.

The movies portray this and even go out of their way to do so. On the contrary, life after 25 is shown to be depressing. You get married, have kids, get a mortgage, and become an “adult”. This is the only type of life after 30 that is shown, everything else might as well not exist. You constantly hear it from “adults” in our society who tell you about “growing up” and use it to gaslight anyone not married with kids.

This used to be of great anxiety to me.

You see, I grew up poor and with strict parents. I did not have the popular kid experience in high school because in high school, we were all broke. This meant that all of us had some weird camaraderie to each other. I was too focused on getting out of a dumpy town to even bother with anything other than money and career.

Then college came and that is when I realized what I had missed out on. I was so behind on everything but at the same time going through a ton of personal problems. The long story short is I missed out on my college years. I tried to see what comes after college and all I was met with was depressing content about dating, fun, and meeting women.

It can’t be true, can it?

It can’t possibly be the reality, can it?

Maybe this is why so many college guys get depressed and you have that one weirdo that just finally breaks down in the worst of ways. These guys are in a an environment like college where how much your parents are willing to spend on your unemployable major and fraternity dues matters a lot. A lot of these guys come from troubled homes and do not have that parental support to get girls.

Then to make matters worse, as they are in the grind trying to make something of themselves, all they see is a depressing future. No matter how hard they work or what they make of themselves, they will always get the leftovers. The low quality women and the bland parties and the push to get married rather than have their fun. No one is their shining light or anything as they ask what life has in store for them. Even their hopes are on a weak foundation because society, media, and everyone in their lives tells them that they are dreaming.

But then I realized it, I realized that what life had in store was better than I could have ever expected.

I graduated college and moved from the dumpy backwards inbred south to NYC. In that time, I went on dates with hundreds of different women and had a few hookups but I was nowhere near my peak. I used to fear hitting 30 and thought that it meant the end. I thought that 30 meant pressure to get married, the market drying up, no opportunities for partying, and no opportunities for game.

I could not have been more wrong and was glad I was.

Life after 30 went in such a good stride for me and I changed so much as a person. Most of all, I did not lose one of my main purposes in life, to sleep with tons of attractive women. At some point, I feared the kind of man I would become at 30. I would lose sleep about the kind of guy I could be after the age of 30.

Would I finally break?

Would I finally go into the miserable life of marriage due to no other choice?

Will my hopes and aspirations of sleeping with hundreds of different women fade?

Will I “mature” (gaslighting word for telling someone to get a house, kids, and an overweight wife)?

No, I survived all of that. Even when the Manosphere collapsed and its voices got all religious, self-righteous, anti-hooking up, and started preaching about how all men should get married and have kids, I stayed strong. Most of all, I got better. I finally discovered doing cold approach rather than beating around the bush about it.

So this site becomes about the other life after 30.

What if that guy didn’t get married?

What if he said screw it and did things like how he wanted?

What if he stayed a bachelor because he was happy with that?

What awaits such a man?

Is it a life of loneliness and misery?

So far, I can say a life of fun that keeps getting better every year. I get better at the game every year and feel like I have hit to even peak. I want to challenge the notion American Society has of a man over the age of 30. I want to challenge this notion that men over 30 can only be lame providers for marriage while only younger guys are able to hook up with random women.

I want to challenge this notion that men over 30 cannot have a great sex life full of sex with tons of different women. I want to challenge this notion that being over 30 for a man must mean a lame marriage with kids and a house or utter inceldom. In fact, I want to challenge that a man over the age of 30 can live a great life while being a bachelor.

So here I am. I know I will get a ton of hate and make a lot of enemies. However, even if something really bad happens to me, I know that I was true to myself.