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Is Internal Family Systems Therapy an inherently decolonizing model?
Investigating our use of decolonizing therapy as a badge of honor, rather than desire to do the work
Dec 28, 2025
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What is love to the one that holds a wound of feeling unlovable?
I took a deep breath before writing this because I can imagine the hearts and eyes that resonate with everything I will be speaking to.
Dec 19, 2025
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A letter to the one with internalized homophobia
In my short 31, almost 32 years, I’ve grown to learn that I’m not the only one that’s had to hold the burden of feeling not enough for being…
Dec 7, 2025
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Tending to the Legacy Burdens and Protective Parts of High Achieving Black Women
I have spent most of my career learning and unlearning mental health education that was predominantly taught by white educators.
Nov 30, 2025
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Farewell to Year 31
Reflecting on the the year that broke me open
Nov 28, 2025
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Does IFS Therapy Break People?
My reflections on the critiquing article from the "Cut"
Nov 8, 2025
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Quiet Noticing, but Deep Disappointment
I’ve been reflecting on how quiet I’ve been in my writing recently.
Oct 28, 2025
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Recently, I found myself in a fast pace, to which my legs guided me quickly to the next desitination.
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I still remember exactly where I was when I learned that Kobe Bryant had passed away.
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Healing Our Unrelenting Inner Critics Through Connection versus Correction
Have you ever judged or expressed hate toward yourself?
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