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October 2025

August 2025

i broke up with him
eight things i learned by leaving someone i thought would be my next big love story
 • santina

July 2025

should i text him or is it just my attachment style?
forward this to the friend you’re always asking if you should text him
 • santina and Delaney Langdon
the epic highs and lows of the early stages of dating
on being wanted, staying calm, and the terrifying possibility that this might actually work
 • santina
when the dream job stops being the dream
on finding meaning outside your inbox
 • santina
not everything needs to be hard-launched
on expectations, anxious announcements, and the practice of (sometimes) keeping things to yourself
 • santina
for your matcha break #1: july recs
thoughtful picks to accompany you this month
 • santina

June 2025

making friends as an adult is cringy, and it is worth it.
on new spaces, curated solitude, and putting yourself out there (again and again) until it clicks
 • santina
confessions of a former know-it-all
on anxious attachment, being right, and giving myself permission not to be.
 • santina
when did wanting a relationship become so embarrassing?
on the feminist guilt, the self-help trap, and the shame of craving connection.
 • santina
i’m not original, and neither are you. it may be time we got over it
on understanding that perhaps being “just like everyone else” is exactly what we need.
 • santina
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