NUMBER CLOSING SEMINAR
I. Basics
a. Plant seeds in the beginning about something you can invite her to and
oversell it
Ex: Have you ever been to an Ice Bar? OMG you have to go...
b. Be prepared for an objection and be totally non-reactive
II. Direct Close
a. Use a direct close if you where direct about your intentions
Ex: You seem pretty cool lets exchange info
Ex: Lets exchange numbers and if youre cool on the phone maybe well
hang out..
III. Soft Close
a. Use if it was a short interaction and you were more indirect.
Ex: Its too bad we dont have more time to talk because you seem pretty
cool thats why Im almost tempted to suggest we X, something really
simple like a quick cup of tea or coffe. Are you more of a tea or coffee
person? (pause) Yea. Thatd be fun, how do we make that happen?
(pause) Do you text?
X = hang out again, continue this conversation, etc.
IV. Social Close
a. Useful if she is with a guy or a group of guys.
Ex: Have you ever been to a X? Well theres a private X coming up and
theres gonna be a lot of cool people going, do you have cool friends?
Awesome bring them. Well text you about it to get you on the list
X = dorm days party, H2O pool party, etc.
V. Yes Ladder
a. Get her to comply with a smaller request before you go for a larger
request
Ex: Write down your email. Go ahead and write down your number too
Ex: Whats your area code? Are you a 323 or 818? Ok whats the rest
VI. If You Dont Get the Number
a. Leave with an attractive exit (being non reactive)
Ex: Anyways, have an awesome day
b. Exit with Possible Reopener
Ex: Have an awesome day, when I see you again you better X
X = have even more bags, have a full book report, etc.
c. Reopening
Ex: OMG how long has it been? I heard you moved to Iceland!
Ex: Are you following me?
VII. Use a restricted request
a. Takes away the social pressure of the close
b. Demonstrates that you are not needy
Ex: Lets exchange numbers, but no calls after 2am I get too many of t
hose.
Ex: Lets exchange numbers, but promise you wont become a stalker
Ex: Just because you gave me your number does not mean you are
getting lucking tonight
VII. Condition Her to Pick Up the Phone
a. Prevents flaking and conditions her to pick up the phone, call you back,
and text you
- Ok when I call or text. you WILL call me back because Im a busy guy
and I dont have time for flaky girls.and if you dont call me or text me
back in less than 7 minutes and 32 seconds, youre gonna get the hardest,
smack on the ass, that youve ever gotten in your life
- After you get her number say ok but there are rules to giving me your
number. A lot of girls give me their number but I cant call all of them so if I
call you you have to sound so excited that I called and say OMG Artisan
you are so hot and Im so glad you called! ok lets practice.
- Give her your number then make her call you and leave a message
saying reasons why you should call her.
- Call her right there on the spot and have a conversation with her
VIII. Saving Your Number in Her Phone
a. Sets your number apart from all other numbers in her phone
b. Conditions her to laugh or smile every time you call or text
Ex: Say let me see your phone then put your name in her phone as
something clever, funny or sexual like sex god or the crush.
IX. Future Projection
a. Gets her to image hanging out with you
Ex: Ok when we hang out at X were gonna
b. Makes her look at you as someone shell hang out with, not just someone
who got her number
Ex: Have you ever been to X? What!? Have you been living under a
rock? Ok I might go there this weekend Ill text you and well meet up
X. Infield Assignment
a. Do one approach per day either direct or indirect
b. Go for 3 to 5 number closes throughout the week. You can do 1 a day for
5 days or you can do them all in one night, its up to you. Note: this doesnt
mean you need to get 3 to 5 numbers, it just means you need to go for
the close 3 to 5 times. If you get 3 objections you still accomplished the
assignment.
c. Write down any objections you get from women
d. Come up with your own future projection.
Ex: Have you ever been to Saints and Sinners? Oh my God its the
coolest place because the bartenders actually blow fire out of their
mouths. I cant believe youve never heard of it, you have to go!
