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Lal kitab remedies for misunderstandings, good relationships, husband wife
relationship
While marriage may not be a dream for few people in coming generations but a perfect
marriage is always a dream for everyone.
Most people refrain from marriages fearing that it may not be as fruitful as they expect it to
be. Moreover, marriage is a huge emotional and financial investment. Not only you're
choosing a partner to spend your rest of the life with, but also promising and assuring a
quality life to partner and their family.
Health and longevity of such holy matrimony is at best ensured with trust and mutually caring
behavior of partners and their families.
However, there are some remedies that our sacred texts suggest can greatly impact our
relationships in an extremely positive way.
Lal kitab remedies for misunderstandings :
Misunderstanding is like a knot in the garland of relationships. Once formed, it takes
patience and mutual retrospection to unfurl and simplify it.
1. Cultivate a strong intention to actually reach the solution to the problem rather than
playing blame games.
2. Talk to each other with a fresh mind in calm morning hours or soothing sunset time.
3. Visit a peaceful temple of lord shiva on mornings and offer prayers and milk with a
pure heart.
4. One should chant " om shom Sarah namah" with clear pronunciation to absorb the
powerful vibrations of this Mantra.
Lal kitab remedies for good relationships :
Developing and maintaining healthy relationships is a skill that comes with will and practice.
Most of us run on the same patterns of relationships that were imbibed in us in childhood
and teen ages. But as we become more conscious and aware of our personal needs and
desires, we start projecting them on the personal and professional relationships we come
across in various fronts of life.
So the sooner we realise that being in a relationship is an artful skill, the sooner we get
better at it.
Our efforts combined with power of spirituality mentioned in our ancient texts can greatly
enhance the way we approach relationships in our lives.
Some remedies for healthy relationships are :
● Schedule some time every other day to share thoughts and feelings with each other.
● Talk about expectations and resetting them so they remain more realistic.
● Share the likes and dislikes of each other. This helps in alignment of ideas with each
other for smooth functioning.
● Communication is the key to resolving conflicts on every possible level.
● To avoid the communication to go directionless and fruitless, try to establish trust
first.
● This helps in opening up about topics that may sound uncomfortable without the
presence of trust.
Lal kitab remedies for healthy marriages :
Marriage is often a complicated structure of living for those who are unaware of its benefits.
We as humans are naturally programmed to live in dependence and societal practices.
Although, some highly motivated individuals do find a way to avoid marriage in their lifetime
and still achieve the same results from their life long efforts.
But realistically, staying single is a tough challenge and not necessarily the ideal path to
pursue.
Most of us actually rejoice and love the mutual dependency of sharing and caring to build a
better life together.
Marriage is true sense is a colorful and once in a lifetime experience when you surrender to
the togetherness and agreement to share your life goals with one another.
Yet most of us find it extremely difficult to attain the level of satisfaction a marriage can
provide. So what is it that we lack? Is there anything that we can refer to help in betterment
of this powerful sacred alliance of marriage?
Now that you're also looking for answers to such questions is the first step on the learning
path.
Let's see how we can achieve fruitful results from our marriages :
● Keep your house clean and refreshing. This point is of outmost importance.
● The state of our house, our garden and our kitchen is a reflection of how we treat our
relationships and our offsprings.
● Plant herbs and trees in your lawn and living room that enhance the purity of air and
thoughts and hence the relationships.
● Cultivate a habit of nurturing around by taking regular care of garden, pets and
cleanliness.
● Get a pet together. It's always a good practice before a couple can take care of their
coming babies.
● Learn to contribute and work together on things that concern you both as a couple.
● For example, try to do financial budget accounting, grocery shopping by keeping the
likes and dislikes of each other in mind, purchasing material possessions for
decoration of house.
● Plan a kid together proactively in terms of money, accommodation and regularity of
income so that a kid doesn't feel like a burden on your well being.
● Plant and take care of a banana tree in your garden.
● Fast together for Lord shiva and parvati on mondays to develop devotion for each
other.
● Worship goddess lakshmi and ganesh together for financial wellbeing of the family.
● Pay attention to the needs of ancestors and elders who are the guiding souls to their
upcoming generations.
Lastly, think of marriage as 1+1=3 and not 1+1=2 as getting together is definitely more than
summation of two individuals being. Put conscious efforts for resolution of problems and
addressing each other wishes as a couple is bound to spend the longest and most eventful
period of your lives.
