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Reflection Paper
Christina Jones
BUS325: Women in Business
Teacher: Nikki Follis
Excelsior College
7/6/2025
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Sex and gender have always played a role in shaping how I view myself and interact with
the world, even before I fully understood what those concepts meant. Reflecting on my life, I can
see how my early family dynamics, personal identity, and workplace experiences have all
contributed to my understanding of gender identity and roles.
Early Life Experiences
I grew up in a household with two parents who were always working. Because of this, I
became a latchkey kid at an early age and took on a lot of responsibility raising my younger
siblings. At the time, I did not think much of it, I just did what needed to be done but looking
back, I realized that this shaped how I saw gender roles. There was no clear “male” or “female”
work in our home; it was more about survival and taking care of one another.
Another defining part of my early life was recognizing my sexuality. Around six or seven
years old, I knew deep down that I was gay, even though I did not have the language to express it
at the time. Growing up, this awareness made me more observant of how gender and sexuality
were talked about around me, and how often they did not reflect who I was.
Later Life Experiences
As an adult, both my personal life and work life continued to challenge and shape my
perspectives. Professionally, I have been in situations where men refused to take my directions
seriously, simply because I was younger and a woman. It was frustrating, but thankfully I had a
boss who supported me and backed me up through those challenges. That experience showed me
how deeply some people cling to outdated gender expectations, and how important it is to have
allies who help push back against them.
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On the personal side, I am now a stepparent to my wife’s two children. Becoming part of
their lives has been rewarding but also a bumpy ride, largely because of the immaturity and
negativity of certain people in the situation. I have also noticed that, in my experience, some men
seem to have a problem with women being with women, which has at times added unnecessary
tension to interactions both socially and within family dynamics.
Moving Forward
Through all of these experiences, I have learned that gender identity and roles are far
more complex and personal than the traditional scripts I grew up seeing. My childhood made me
strong and responsible, my sexuality helped me embrace authenticity, and my adult experiences
both at home and at work have taught me the importance of standing firm and advocating for
myself. I hope to continue challenging stereotypes, supporting others who feel marginalized, and
living in a way that reflects my true self.