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Festivus, Rob Reiner, and the Stories That Raised Me

An airing of grievances, a reckoning with cultural grief, and the small things that carried me through.

Dec 23, 2025 • Rebecca Soffer and Modern Loss

On Fury, Heartbreak, and Holding On

A few words on a devastating week, written from a room full of women trying to trying to find their footing in real time

Dec 15, 2025 • Rebecca Soffer and Modern Loss

Cyber Monday Shopping Lists for the Weary, Tender, and Still-Standing

Because grief doesn't take 30% off. Plus: Join the holiday gift swap, y la Rosalía divina

Dec 1, 2025 • Rebecca Soffer and Modern Loss

November 2025

Last call for our Winter Holiday Gift Swap

Form closes 11/26 (psst: it's included in your subscription)

Nov 25, 2025 • Rebecca Soffer and Modern Loss

Shame Is Loud Right Now. Dr. Jessica Zucker Shows Us How to Shut It Down.

🎁 And our Winter Holiday gift swap is now OPEN! Get on it while you can.

Nov 19, 2025 • Rebecca Soffer and Modern Loss

51:35

October 2025

Anderson Cooper on Armor, Guardrails, and the Hard Work of Feeling Everything

"I always believed I’d die at fifty. But I feel more alive now than ever. That’s the hope and promise of grief."

Oct 31, 2025 • Rebecca Soffer

How to Be Remembered

Jane Larkworthy reminded me that legacy isn’t about being 'important.' It’s about being present, specific, and ridiculously yourself.

Oct 22, 2025 • Rebecca Soffer

Marc Maron Is Caught in the Aftermath

Steven Feinartz’s 'Are We Good?' captures the WTF podcast host at his most exposed, where mourning trades jabs with wit.

Oct 3, 2025 • Rebecca Soffer

September 2025

When survival sounds like an Emmy-winning punchline

SNL writer Auguste White on how trauma, therapy, and comedy became inseparable (plus, that Maya Rudolph Mother's Day piece)

Sep 26, 2025 • Rebecca Soffer

August 2025

Clichés Won’t Cut It. Truth Will.

Grief Awareness Day and the night Yo-Yo Ma cracked me open

Aug 30, 2025 • Rebecca Soffer and Modern Loss

July 2025

Holding ourselves together while the news keeps breaking

Grieving and raging over the floods and more with my friend Pooja Lakshmin

Jul 18, 2025 • Modern Loss and Rebecca Soffer

May 2025

It's Mother's Day: Live, laugh, loss.

The issue you wish you never needed, my essay in TIME, and why you should see Idina Menzel on Broadway.

May 11, 2025 • Modern Loss and Rebecca Soffer

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