PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT-0
PERSONALITY
DEVELOPMENT
Alok k. Dubey
B.com, MBA (CM)
Mail to : [email protected]
PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT-- 1 -
PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT
Personality is depends on:1. Mental
2. Physical
3. Intellectual
Factor influence Personality:A. Heredity: we cannot help it.
B. General Appearances: we can do a little only.
C. Culture: We can change our society & atmosphere to change culture.
D. Experience: It counts valuable point to enhance personality.
E. Education & Training: Education & Training can help one to enhance his
personality.
Personality Traits (Characteristics):-
1) Appearance: Outer looking for example clothing, expressions and hairstyles
etc.
2) Speech Mannerism: It containsa) Clarity of voice
b) Tone
c) Speed
3) Gesticulation
4) Mental Alertness
PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT-- 2 -
5) Consistency of thoughts i.e. stability of thoughts
6) Types of approach:
a) Positive approach
b) Negative approach
7) Leadership Qualities
8) Self-confidence in a positive approach
ABCRL Formula:A. Accuracy
B. Brevity
C. Clarity
D. Relevance
E. Logic
Self-Confidence Existed ina) Self respect
b) Self- esteem
c) Self belief
Step for self-confidence:Step 1: Take off fear from mind
Step 2: Will (determination)
Step 3: +ve approach toward the life
Step 4: Know your shortcomings
Step 5: Inferiority complex
PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT-- 3 -
Formula for every step of life:
+ve Approach
No Inferior Complex
Self-Confidence
Right work at right
time
Success
Appreciation
Motivation
PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT-- 4 -
Outer Personality:
a) Neatness, cleanliness and well mannered
b) Active, Enthusiastic and practical
c) Well informed and quick to act
d) Disciplined and amiable
e) Dynamic, flexible and reasonable
Professional Quality:
a) Clear in mind and systematic
b) Industrious and hard working
c) Responsibility
d) Clear vision and strong will power
e) Concentration of mind
Inner Quality:
a) Sympathetic, sweet, loving & caring
b) Not vindictive, impulsive, touchy & non-fluctuating
c) Calm & composed
d) Balance of extrovert ness & introvert ness
e) Balance of humour and sobriety
f) Balance of love & law
g) Confidence in self
h) Fearless & self controlled
PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT-- 5 -
HOW CAN YOU CHANGE YOURSELF
Change by:
I. Action level
II. Thought level
Thought Level:
1. Waste thought
:-
2. Negative thought :-
impractical idea
practical idea but harmful to self and
others
3. Ordinary thoughts
4. Positive thoughts
Brain
Left Hem isphere
Right Hem isphere
Rational
Verbal
Emotion
Love
Patience
Tolerance
Caring
Picture,color,Paninting
Music
Inspiring etc.
Logical
Scientific
Creative
Analytical
O
S
C
Data Interpretation
S
U
Etc.
PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT-- 6 -
WAVES OF MIND
1. Beta
: - 13-25 Hz.
2. Alfa
: - 8-12 Hz.
3. Theta
: - 4-8 Hz.
4. Delta
: - 0.5-4 Hz.
Thoughts are like floods if it is controlled then it should have
more benefit.
Self-realisation: - Who am I?
I am a soul.
SOUL I
Mind
Intellect
Resolves
PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT-- 7 -
Thoughts (Good/Bad)
Sanskar (Good/Bad)
Action (Good/Bad)
Conscious
mind
Thoughts,
Emotions,
Desires
Subconscious mind,
memories imprint,
impression, instinct,
habits
Intellect
Judgement,
Decision
Discrimination
I PERSONALITY
CONCIOUS LIKE
FORCE SOUL
Observation is
imprinted in
subconscious
memory bank
Expression of
Emotion, Desire,
Decision through
the body
My body
sensory organs,
motor organs
PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT-- 8 -
Original Quality of Mind
1. Peace
2. Purity
To activate sub consciousness (feed good information to memory bank)
1. Hypnotism
2. Sudden depression
3. Meditation
Consumptionof O2
Consumption of O2 in meditatin
vis-a-vis Frequency of mind
5
4
0
5
10
15
20
Taking O2 at various level
Beta = 4, Alfa = 3, Theta = 2, Delta = 1
0.5
25
PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT-- 9 -
Requirement of Meditation:Iron
1. Confidence
Golden
2. Patience
3. Right Knowledge
Copper
4. Courage
Silver
5. Responsibilities
Change is the law of Nature
Courage: - to fight ve & waste thoughts
Confidence: - in self
Knowledge
Self
World external
cycle
Supreme
Universal
Father-hood
Universal
Brother-hood
Responsibility: to change self
What does I refer?
Worker
Husband/Wife
Friend
Son /Daughter
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