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“Good morning Anne, the purpose of this session is to help you create a new, more
productive behaviour, by rehearsing this desired behaviour a number of times in your mind. JOHOR KAKI find dining
in Johor
So, Anne, can you tell me what would be a new behaviour that you would like to have?” Uncle Koh vs
Grandpapatee
“I would like to be able to speak confidently and eloquently in front of a large audience.” Wanton Mee in
Taman Ungku
Tun Aminah
“Yes Anne, you are right that public speaking is an important life skill that anyone would like
Skudai - Grandpapatee
to have.
(left) Uncle Koh (right) Even
though Johor Bahru is
Calibrate eye accessing cues originally a Teochew
enclave, hence its nickname
When was the last time you had to speak in front of a large audience?” Little Swatow, there are
actually more wa...
“It was just last Sunday.” 2 days ago

“Where were you? Who were in the audience?”

“Oh, I was at the Toastmasters meeting at my club. I was making a speech to fellow Glossary of NLP Terms
Toastmasters and visitors to my club.”
4-point Success Formula (1)
“How did the speech went?”
Abreaction (1)

“I was a nervous wreck and could hardly remember anything that I wanted to say. It was so Accessing Cues (2)
embarrassing.”
Activist (1)
State desired behaviour in positive form Affiliation (1)

“Anne, I am here to help you become a confident and eloquent public speaker. Now, follow Aggressive - Passive (1)
my instructions
Agreement Frame (1)
Help client visualize achieving desired behaviour Ambiguity (4)

Analogue (1)

Analogue Marking (1)

Analogy Sleight of Mouth (2)

Anchor (9)

Anchoring (2)

Another Outcome Sleight of

Anne, Close your eyes, look down on the left and ask yourself: Mouth (2)

Apply to Self Sleight of Mouth

If I am already able to speak confidently and eloquently in public, what would I look like?
(2)

As If Frame (1)

Associated - Disassociated (1)

Associated State (1)

Attitude (1)

Auditory (2)
Keeping your eyes closed, move your eyes to your top right corner and picture yourself
speaking confidently and eloquently in public.
Automatic Unconscious
Anchors (1)
Notice the size and colour of the picture. The expression on the audience’s faces. The effect
that your speech has on the audience. Awareness Pattern (1)

Away From (1)

B.A.G.E.L. Model (1)

Backtrack (1)

Because Pattern (1)

Behavior (1)

Behavioral Flexibility (2)

Keeping your eyes closed, move your eyes down to the bottom, right hand corner.
Behavioral Model (1)
Experience the feeling of being yourself in the picture, speaking confidently and eloquently to
the audience. Slowly step into your own skin. Feel what you feel. Hear what you hear. See Beliefs (7)
what you see.
Best Case - Worst Case
Scenario (1)
Scale
Big Chunk - Small Chunk (1)
Now, on a scale of 1-10, with 10 being the most intense feeling, how do you rate your new
behaviour now?” Black-and-white - Continuum
(1)
“8….”
Blamer (1)

Adding resources from client’s past experience Break State (1)

Calibrated Loop (1)

Calibration (2)

Cause and Effect (8)

Chain of Excellence (1)

Chaining Anchors (1)

Change Frame Size Sleight of

Close your eyes, look down on the left and ask yourself: Mouth (1)

Change Personal History (1)

That time when I was able to speak confidently and eloquently in public, what did I looked
like? Chunk Down Sleight of Mouth
(1)

Chunk Up Sleight of Mouth (1)

Chunking (2)

Collapsing Anchors (1)

Communication Model (2)

Keeping your eyes closed, now move your eyes to your top left corner. Recall the occasion Comparative Deletion (3)
where you were speaking confidently and eloquently to an audience.
Complex Equivalence (10)
When you are able to see yourself in the picture, nod you head.”
Computer (1)

Conditional - Unconditional Self

Esteem (1)

Congruence (1)

Conscious (4)

Conscious Competence (2)

Keeping your eyes closed, move your eyes to your top right corner and picture yourself
speaking confidently and eloquently in public. Conscious Incompetence (2)

Consequences Sleight of
Notice the size and colour of the picture. The expression on the audience’s faces. The effect
Mouth (2)
that your speech has on the audience.
Content Reframe (1)

Context Reframe (3)

Conversational Postulates (1)

Convincer Demonstration Filter

(1)

Convincer Representational
Filter (1)

Keeping your eyes closed, move your eyes down to the bottom, right hand corner. Counter Example Sleight of
Experience the feeling of being yourself in the picture, speaking confidently and eloquently to Mouth (2)
the audience. Slowly step into your own skin. Feel what you feel. Hear what you hear. See
Creating Anchors (1)
what you see.
Criteria (1)
Scale
Critic (2)
Now, on a scale of 1-10, with 10 being the most intense feeling, how do you rate new
Cross Over Mirroring (1)
behaviour now?”
Cross Pacing (1)
“9….”
Deep Structure (1)
Adding resources from client’s role model of desired behaviour Deep Trance Identification (1)

Deletion (1)

Digital (1)

Disengaged - Perfectionist (1)

Disney Creative Strategy (7)

Dissociation (1)

Close your eyes, look down on the left and ask yourself: Distortion (1)

When I am able to speak confidently and eloquently in public like President Barack Obama, Distracter (1)
what would I look like?
Double Bind (2)

Dovetailing Outcomes (1)

Down Time (1)

Dreamer (2)

Ecology (1)

Keeping your eyes closed, now move your eyes to your top left corner. Picture President
Elegance (1)
Barack Obama speaking confidently and eloquently to an audience.
Elicitation (2)

When you are able to see the picture, nod you head.” Embedded Commands (2)

Emotion (1)

Enneagram (1)

Environment (1)

Ericksonian Hypnosis (1)

Extended Quote (1)

Keeping your eyes closed, move your eyes to your top right corner and picture yourself
speaking confidently and eloquently in public just like President Barack Obama. Eye Accessing Cues (3)

Notice the size and colour of the picture. The expression on the audience’s faces. The effect Features (1)
that your speech has on the audience.
Firing an Anchor (1)

First Position (2)

Four Magic Questions Pattern

(1)

Four Tuple (1)

Frame (6)

Future Pacing (4)

Keeping your eyes closed, move your eyes down to the bottom, right hand corner. Generalization (1)
Experience the feeling of being yourself in the picture, speaking confidently and eloquently to
the audience like President Barack Obama. Slowly step into your own skin. Feel what you Generative Resource
feel. Hear what you hear. See what you see. Anchoring (1)

Genius State (1)

Scale
Goals (7)
Now, on a scale of 1-10, with 10 being the most intense feeling, how do you rate new
Gustatory Mode (2)
behaviour now?”
Hierarchy of Criteria Sleight of
“9….” Mouth (1)

Future Pace - Client visualize achieving desired behaviour High - Low Self Confidence (1)

Hypnosis (5)

Identity (2)

In Time (1)

In Time - Through Time (1)

Independent - Co-operative (1)

Intent Sleight of Mouth (2)

Close your eyes, look down on the left, think of a time in the future where you want to be able
to speak confidently and eloquently. Ask yourself: Intention (2)

If I am able to speak confidently and eloquently in public in my next Toastmasters meeting, Internal - External Referenced
what would I look like? (1)

Internal Representation (1)

Introverts - Extraverts (1)

John Grinder (2)

Judger - Perceiver (1)

Judgment (1)
Keeping your eyes closed, move your eyes to your top right corner and picture yourself
speaking confidently and eloquently at your next Toastmasters meeting. Kinesics (1)

Kinesthetic (2)
Notice the size and colour of the picture. The expression on the club members and guests’
faces. The effect that your speech has on the audience. Kinesthetic Mode (1)

Lack of Referential Index (1)

Law of Concentrated Attention

(1)

Law of Dominant Effect (1)

Laws of Suggestion (2)

Leading (3)

Limiting Beliefs (1)

Keeping your eyes closed, move your eyes down to the bottom, right hand corner.
Listening (1)
Experience the feeling of being yourself in the picture, speaking confidently and eloquently to
the audience in the next Toastmasters meeting. Slowly step into your own skin. Feel what Logical Levels (3)
you feel. Hear what you hear. See what you see.
Lost Performative (4)
Scale
ly Adverbs (9)

Now, on a scale of 1-10, with 10 being the most intense feeling, how do you rate new Map (2)
behaviour now?”
Matchers - Mismatchers (1)
“10….”
Matching (3)
“Congratulations!
MBTI (3)

Meta Frame Sleight of Mouth

(1)

Meta Message (1)

Meta Mirrors (1)

Meta Model (62)

Meta Program (41)

Metaphor Sleight of Mouth (2)

When you want to speak confidently and eloquently in the future, recall the picture in your
Metaphors (4)
mind and mentally rehearse seeing yourself speaking confidently and eloquently in front of a
rapt audience. Milton Model (44)

Try it because you will be amazed at the results. Mind Reading (7)

Mirroring (2)
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NLP (8)

Noam Chomsky (1)

Nominalisation (1)

Nominalization (6)

Olfactory (2)

Options - Procedures (1)

Out Framing (1)

Outcome Thinking (9)

Outcomes (12)

Over - Under Responsible (1)

Overlap (1)

P.R.I.E.S.T. Model (2)

Pace Current Experience (1)

Pacing (16)

Parts (1)

Past - Present - Future Focus

(1)

Past Assurance - Future

Possibility (1)

Patterns (6)

Perceptual Filters (2)

Perceptual Positions (7)

Persuasion Patterns (3)

Phonological Ambiguity (1)

Physiology (1)

Placater (1)

Possibility - Neccessity (1)

Power - Popularity -
Performance (1)

Predicate Pacing (1)

Predicates (3)

Preferred Representational
System (1)

Presupposition (4)

Presuppositions of NLP (48)

Primary Interest Filter (1)

Proactive - Reactive (1)

Punctuation Ambiguity (1)

Quote (1)

Quotes (1)

R.O.L.E. Model (1)

Rapport (23)

Realist (2)

Reality Strategy Sleight of

Mouth (2)

Redefine Sleight of Mouth (2)

Reframe (6)

Representational Systems (5)

Representations (1)

Requisite Variety (1)

Resourceful State (1)

Resources (1)

Reticular Activating System (4)

Richard Bandler (1)

Ritual (1)

S.C.O.R.E. Model (3)

Sameness - Difference (1)

Satir Categories (6)

Second Position (1)

Secondary Gain (1)

Selectional Restriction Violation

(1)

Self - Others Oriented (1)

Self Position (1)

Sensor - Intuitor (1)

Sensory Acuity (3)

Sensory Based Description (1)

Sensory Representation (1)

Simple Deletion (1)

Sleight of Mouth (24)

State (6)

State Choice (1)

Stealing Anchors (1)

Stimulus - Response (1)

Strategy (1)

Strong Willed - Compliant (1)

Sub-modalities (1)

Swish (1)

Symbols (1)

Systemic Thinking (1)

T.O.T.E. (1)

Tag Question (1)

That Just Means That Pattern

(1)

Thinking - Feeling (1)

Third Position (1)

Through Time (1)

Timeline Sleight of Mouth (1)

Tonal Marking (1)

Trance (1)

Transformational Grammar (1)

Unconscious (5)

Unconscious Competence (2)

Unconscious Incompetence (2)

Universal Quantifier (10)

Unspecified Comparative (2)

Unspecified Deletion (1)

Unspecified Noun (6)

Unspecified Referential Index

(3)

Unspecified Verb (5)

Up Time (1)

Up Time - Down Time (1)

Utilization (3)

Vague Language (1)

VAKOG (1)

Values (1)

Videos (5)

Virginia Satir (1)

Visual (1)

Visualization (6)

Voice Quality (1)

Well-formedness Conditions (2)

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Singapore Air
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my passion for personal
development has taken center
stage. Over the last 3 years, I
have intensified my research
into strategies of peak potential
and have also been certified as
a Neuro-Linguistics
Programmme Trainer by NLP
University. My main motivation
initially was to help my son and
daughter as they leave for
studies in the US. Now I am
ready to extend the same
support to other young people.
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