The Imago Dialogue
Sender Receiver
Ask if the Receiver is available Accepts request to Dialogue
Sends 1-3 sentences..so Receiver can learn
to Mirror Mirroring
Speaks about one’s self ‘You said………………..’
Keeps to one topic ‘Did I get it?”
Eliminates shame blame and criticism ‘Is there more?’
or
‘Is there more about that?
Summary Mirror
‘Let me see if I got all that……..’
‘Is that a good summary?’
Validation
‘That makes sense….and what makes sense
is……..’
or
I hear what you are saying and what you are
saying matters to me’
Empathy
So given all that, I Imagine you may be
feeling……….’
‘Yes, I am feeling……’ ‘Is that what you are feeling?’
or
‘No, I am feeling…. Any other feelings?
Rebecca Sears M.Div LPC
Senior Faculty, Imago International Training Institute
www.Rebeccasears.com
The Imago Dialogue